Topic: I have noticed on JSH
jenleah32's photo
Wed 03/12/08 01:58 AM
I am not in a hurry to fall in love with anyone especially since every great guy I meet lives like a billion miles away from me!!frown I am enjoying my freedom and the fact that I can talk to as many guys as I want and never have to worry about answering to the other about anything. I am not ready to delete all the #'s in my cell phone just yet!!devil

Marie55's photo
Wed 03/12/08 01:59 AM
Thanks Mike - I have been working on my issues, and my friends here have been helping. Still have that nagging fear though. I hope the friend I am talking to is real, seems to be, and seems to have a good heart, we have talked for hours and hours and hours, he knows my past and I know his past, but after all he is just a voice on the end of the telephone and on the other end of the computer screen until we actually meet. That will happen in the next few months. I don't think he has a mean bone in his body, not from all we have talked about and his background, etc., and he is accepting me for who I am, flaws and all, and I am accepting him with his flaws. Time will tell after all.

Have a good night, and now I really have to go to bed, I have to be up for work in about 5 hours, darn. Take care, and thanks. flowerforyou

TheShadow's photo
Wed 03/12/08 02:00 AM
I don't think it's about trying to figure them out, it's more pay attention to them when you see them. I have to admit that i have see things in my past relationships and chose not to really look at them because i didn't want to let that person go. Some of us feel that once we have someon and it don't matter if there bad for us. we hang on because afraid to let go. The feeling of when will be the next one

TheShadow's photo
Wed 03/12/08 02:02 AM

Thanks Mike - I have been working on my issues, and my friends here have been helping. Still have that nagging fear though. I hope the friend I am talking to is real, seems to be, and seems to have a good heart, we have talked for hours and hours and hours, he knows my past and I know his past, but after all he is just a voice on the end of the telephone and on the other end of the computer screen until we actually meet. That will happen in the next few months. I don't think he has a mean bone in his body, not from all we have talked about and his background, etc., and he is accepting me for who I am, flaws and all, and I am accepting him with his flaws. Time will tell after all.

Have a good night, and now I really have to go to bed, I have to be up for work in about 5 hours, darn. Take care, and thanks. flowerforyou


Right on:smile: Have a good night

lily38's photo
Wed 03/12/08 02:10 AM
I do phone sex for a living. It's the closest I plan on getting to love ever again in this lifetime.ohwell

yaya28's photo
Wed 03/12/08 02:12 AM



Thank you Romeo.

Yaya - you are gorgeous. The guys must be idiots to reject you. There is someone out there for you, just have to weed through the dandelions to get to the roses. Good luck.

I have to get to bed, you guys have a great night. Take care.




You're welcome Marie :smile:

oh BTW YaYa I agree with Marie flowerforyou


You guys are really sweet! But that's easy to say to someone online. I must've said something to make him really not like me I guess. I have no clue! Oh well.

DTHRomeo's photo
Wed 03/12/08 02:14 AM




Thank you Romeo.

Yaya - you are gorgeous. The guys must be idiots to reject you. There is someone out there for you, just have to weed through the dandelions to get to the roses. Good luck.

I have to get to bed, you guys have a great night. Take care.




You're welcome Marie :smile:

oh BTW YaYa I agree with Marie flowerforyou


You guys are really sweet! But that's easy to say to someone online. I must've said something to make him really not like me I guess. I have no clue! Oh well.


Or maybe it was just him ohwell

TheShadow's photo
Wed 03/12/08 02:15 AM




Thank you Romeo.

Yaya - you are gorgeous. The guys must be idiots to reject you. There is someone out there for you, just have to weed through the dandelions to get to the roses. Good luck.

I have to get to bed, you guys have a great night. Take care.




You're welcome Marie :smile:

oh BTW YaYa I agree with Marie flowerforyou


You guys are really sweet! But that's easy to say to someone online. I must've said something to make him really not like me I guess. I have no clue! Oh well.


I use to think that way, but then again. This is the netohwell I just say keep being you and in time when it's right, somone will come along when you least expect it

no photo
Wed 03/12/08 02:19 AM
I met someone on here, we hung out last night, and we're going to do it again. bigsmile Yay!

TheShadow's photo
Wed 03/12/08 02:21 AM
drinker

DTHRomeo's photo
Wed 03/12/08 02:24 AM
drinker

yaya28's photo
Wed 03/12/08 02:30 AM
I tend to put my foot in my mouth sometimes lol It's a nervous tendency.

bad_girl's photo
Wed 03/12/08 02:42 AM
Most people on here are afraid to say how they feel, sad but that is human nature. But oh well, if nothing else we have fun and make new friends

TheShadow's photo
Wed 03/12/08 02:43 AM

Most people on here are afraid to say how they feel, sad but that is human nature. But oh well, if nothing else we have fun and make new friends


Nah not you:tongue: laugh

Jim519's photo
Wed 03/12/08 02:51 AM
I have let go of the thought of falling in love

bgeorge's photo
Wed 03/12/08 03:01 AM
really??? most people are afraid to just let go and do Anything...i swear i though we had a duh emoticaon on hereohwell

s1owhand's photo
Wed 03/12/08 03:14 AM
fearing love is like fearing happiness

people do not fear happiness
they understand that happiness may not last forever
loss of happiness is what one fears
a lack of certainty or control
and the contrast between joy and indifference
and the struggle to recapture contentment

this is why play is so important
it is liquid delight
laugh and be delighted
and you will always find merriment with your friends

people do not fear love
they fear betrayal and loneliness

these are pointless fears however
for betrayal is beyond our control and fearing 'that'
is to be afraid of one's own shadow
and loneliness has a cure my friends
'my friends'

now go forth and play!

:wink:

Hermokrates's photo
Wed 03/12/08 03:21 AM
I'm perfectly content with holding my feelings on so tightly, that NO-ONE including family will know how I actually feel. Ever.

brooke007's photo
Wed 03/12/08 03:42 AM
I'm not afraid of falling in love. I am afraid of it blowing up in my face and/or changing who I am. losing my self idenity. Yup, I guess that means I'm just afraid. lol

hottpinkilicious's photo
Wed 03/12/08 06:20 AM
I'm not afraid of falling in love. I'm afraid of getting hurt when the man I fall in love with doesn't feel the same way about me.