Topic: I have noticed on JSH
DTHRomeo's photo
Wed 03/12/08 01:32 AM

Just afraid of getting hurt again, the way I was in my marriage.

I have major trust issues, for a good reason.

Still have a lot of fears to work on.


flowerforyou

yaya28's photo
Wed 03/12/08 01:33 AM

that some people are afraid to just let go and fall in love.


I am tired of being rejected, so I keep it to myself.

Cambolaya65's photo
Wed 03/12/08 01:34 AM
Yellow rose,there are pushovers for both genders.Im a chronic damsel in distress saver....

yellowrose10's photo
Wed 03/12/08 01:36 AM

Yellow rose,there are pushovers for both genders.Im a chronic damsel in distress saver....


lol I don't need to be saved...just treated the way i deserve

but i'm still not bitter and i still trust...not sure how i'm this way

darkowl1's photo
Wed 03/12/08 01:37 AM
after this last one, i'm deadened by it all, caregiver for 9 years will do that....don't want anyone soon, by anymeans. love talking to all of you.....you're my family now,....hope you don't mind?

Marie55's photo
Wed 03/12/08 01:37 AM
Thank you Romeo.

Yaya - you are gorgeous. The guys must be idiots to reject you. There is someone out there for you, just have to weed through the dandelions to get to the roses. Good luck.

I have to get to bed, you guys have a great night. Take care.


TheShadow's photo
Wed 03/12/08 01:37 AM


whats the frown for yellow?



well hell. I can fall in love but get treated like crap


it happens to alot of people. I guess it taking your time in getting to know you before you give what is so freely given. then again what is actually falling in love, people think they have but but mistake lust for that. I can honestly say i have never fall in love with any women, might have come real close but thats it.

Cambolaya65's photo
Wed 03/12/08 01:38 AM
you believe in hope!!

yellowrose10's photo
Wed 03/12/08 01:38 AM



whats the frown for yellow?



well hell. I can fall in love but get treated like crap


it happens to alot of people. I guess it taking your time in getting to know you before you give what is so freely given. then again what is actually falling in love, people think they have but but mistake lust for that. I can honestly say i have never fall in love with any women, might have come real close but thats it.


the last guy was a friend for a year before we dated...so that doesn't work either

yellowrose10's photo
Wed 03/12/08 01:40 AM

you believe in hope!!


and you know about the ex better than anyone here...and I still have hope

sad

Cambolaya65's photo
Wed 03/12/08 01:42 AM
Hope in one hand,flirt in the other....laugh flowerforyou

TheShadow's photo
Wed 03/12/08 01:43 AM




whats the frown for yellow?



well hell. I can fall in love but get treated like crap


it happens to alot of people. I guess it taking your time in getting to know you before you give what is so freely given. then again what is actually falling in love, people think they have but but mistake lust for that. I can honestly say i have never fall in love with any women, might have come real close but thats it.


the last guy was a friend for a year before we dated...so that doesn't work either

Well then, your picker is broken like some of us. We see the signs but don't pay any attention to them and we end up back where we started.

DTHRomeo's photo
Wed 03/12/08 01:44 AM

Thank you Romeo.

Yaya - you are gorgeous. The guys must be idiots to reject you. There is someone out there for you, just have to weed through the dandelions to get to the roses. Good luck.

I have to get to bed, you guys have a great night. Take care.




You're welcome Marie :smile:

oh BTW YaYa I agree with Marie flowerforyou

Marie55's photo
Wed 03/12/08 01:46 AM
That is what scares me, what if my radar hasn't been fixed yet and I end up with another scumbag like I was married to. I could never survive another marriage like I had with him, literally, barely got out of that one alive. It truly scares me beyond belief. That is why I am so afraid to meet anyone, no matter how long we talk, he could still do the Jekyll-Hyde thing and turn into an abuser like my ex.

DestinysDream's photo
Wed 03/12/08 01:47 AM


that some people are afraid to just let go and fall in love.


I am tired of being rejected, so I keep it to myself.


:cry: That's so sad hon.

darkowl1's photo
Wed 03/12/08 01:48 AM
i'm here to help the young ones that nobody has the patience for, as well as the people that i can give a little life experience to. i don't give advice, for there might be a splinter in my own ass, so i help the best i can. like i said, you're my family now.

yellowrose10's photo
Wed 03/12/08 01:49 AM
if I knew where i'm making the bad choices...I would stop making them.

TheShadow's photo
Wed 03/12/08 01:51 AM

That is what scares me, what if my radar hasn't been fixed yet and I end up with another scumbag like I was married to. I could never survive another marriage like I had with him, literally, barely got out of that one alive. It truly scares me beyond belief. That is why I am so afraid to meet anyone, no matter how long we talk, he could still do the Jekyll-Hyde thing and turn into an abuser like my ex.


So looking at this. It's more coming to turms with your on issues and learning how to move on. That is a tough one and i hope someday you can move on because what i have seen is a wonder person that just wants a close friend like most of us:wink:

TheShadow's photo
Wed 03/12/08 01:54 AM

if I knew where i'm making the bad choices...I would stop making them.

this might be a little hard to deal with but somtimes we have to go throught the things we do whether we understand it or not to get to a certain point in our lives.

yellowrose10's photo
Wed 03/12/08 01:55 AM


if I knew where i'm making the bad choices...I would stop making them.

this might be a little hard to deal with but somtimes we have to go throught the things we do whether we understand it or not to get to a certain point in our lives.


i have analyzed things so much and still can't figure out how to not get in the rut again