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Topic: rude
Donnafisher Joined Sun 05/06/07 Posts: 8596	Wed 03/05/08 07:32 AM
I must be rude cause I only answer the ones that catch my eye if I answer all of them I would never have time to chat on the threads

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Wed 03/05/08 07:32 AM
i find it more rude when someone doesn't bother to read the information that i've taken the time to complete on my profile (granted this one isn't complete at all, lol). if i specifically state not to send a friend's request without ever having spoken with me before (for example) and they do, they've indicated that they didn't care to read what i'd written and, if they did, they certainly didn't care what i asked. that's rude and i could care less how i appear when i don't write back. i also don't reply to any one or two-word sentences such as 'wassup' or 'hey sexy'. usually my profiles are fairly extensively filled out and if that's all they could muster up to say, they probably wouldn't interest me on any level, so i just hit 'delete' and again, could care less if they find me rude. well said

Silntstrnger Joined Wed 12/12/07 Posts: 4265	Wed 03/05/08 07:33 AM
just because the person is to far.they may also be too old or young but, who says they wouldnt make great friends.

Mikey117 Joined Mon 11/20/06 Posts: 23736	Wed 03/05/08 07:35 AM
Most of the mail I send out is forewarded to the F.B.I.!!!!!!

ellgee1976 Joined Sat 10/28/06 Posts: 7296	Wed 03/05/08 07:35 AM
Most of the mail I send out is forewarded to the F.B.I.!!!!!! so that's where im sposed to send 'em!?

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Wed 03/05/08 07:35 AM
just because the person is to far.they may also be too old or young but, who says they wouldnt make great friends. it depends on what they wrote in the email.

Cambolaya65 Joined Mon 09/03/07 Posts: 5587	Wed 03/05/08 07:39 AM Edited by Cambolaya65 on Wed 03/05/08 07:56 AM


Silntstrnger Joined Wed 12/12/07 Posts: 4265	Wed 03/05/08 07:39 AM
just because the person is to far.they may also be too old or young but, who says they wouldnt make great friends. it depends on what they wrote in the email. you have a point

seaworthy1963 Joined Mon 08/14/06 Posts: 592	Wed 03/05/08 07:41 AM
I'd answer "girl don't go away mad, girl, just go away."

EveningKiss Joined Mon 06/11/07 Posts: 3244	Wed 03/05/08 07:42 AM
I find it more annoying when i get friends requests from people ive never spoken to and they dont attach a message.

starryeyed346 Joined Thu 02/14/08 Posts: 412	Wed 03/05/08 07:42 AM
Yes, I think its rude. I reply to all my messages/emails... even if its a not-so-pleasant response like "Thanks for taking the time to creep me out, dont message me again please"

hellkitten54 Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 11707	Wed 03/05/08 07:43 AM
I'd answer "girl don't go away mad, girl, just go away." That's my favorite Crue song!! \m/

Silntstrnger Joined Wed 12/12/07 Posts: 4265	Wed 03/05/08 07:44 AM
I find it more annoying when i get friends requests from people ive never spoken to and they dont attach a message. why do people do that?

here_in_ohio Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 266	Wed 03/05/08 07:46 AM
i responded to a guy who i wasnt intrested in , said no thanks your alil young for me, and he did the give it a chance im great , im like its really not cool to beg, i was trying to be polite instead of ignoring the email , so the guy assumed that i wanted him deep down because i answered , oh well next time ill just ingore emails from people

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Wed 03/05/08 07:47 AM
I find it more annoying when i get friends requests from people ive never spoken to and they dont attach a message. why do people do that? I just had a man be a jerk to me because I told him, "Thanks, but I don't take friend's requests from people that I've never spoken to before. I even said, "Good luck with your quest." He replied back rather rudely.

Beachfarmer Joined Tue 04/17/07 Posts: 24709	Wed 03/05/08 07:48 AM
Sorry...did someone say something?

ellgee1976 Joined Sat 10/28/06 Posts: 7296	Wed 03/05/08 07:49 AM Edited by ellgee1976 on Wed 03/05/08 07:50 AM
how about when some 40-something guy reads your profile (mine says im startin out as friends) then they say something like.. "if you wanna know more, just email me back, i'll reply" first off, they read my profile, it says "close to me, that's close to my age" they're lookin for more than a friend, i refuse to settle...so if i don't reply...am i rude??? c'mon now lol i don't wanna know more..why reply?

here_in_ohio Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 266	Wed 03/05/08 07:51 AM
or if you do reply when your not really intrested , to be nice, they get mad they got turned down then turn to insulting you

ellgee1976 Joined Sat 10/28/06 Posts: 7296	Wed 03/05/08 07:51 AM
or if you do reply when your not really intrested , to be nice, they get mad they got turned down then turn to insulting you i hear ya...been there, done that...got the t-shirt

TwilightsTwin Joined Tue 04/10/07 Posts: 11054	Wed 03/05/08 08:34 AM
Do you all find it rude when you send out e-mail and they dont respond? I think its more polite then getting a response saying "youre not my type, or not interested, etc"