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Spooning in bed on a cold winter's night.....and feeling his hard on against you....
When he tries to comfort you when you are sad.... When he runs interference for you to give you a break When he surprises you with a card or flowers when you've had a fight...or better...for no reason at all other than he loves you When he gets the "critters" out of the house or attic so I don't have to touch them |
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The way they are posting in the 'other' thread....
 
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The way they are posting in the 'other' thread.... Oh yeah! Tears in my eyes. |
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The way they are posting in the 'other' thread.... Oh yeah! Tears in my eyes. Hell..I am blubbering like a big baby!! |
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I'm A fixer  How did your date go, by the way? Wasn't it this weekend? No , not this weekend!! 
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Spooning in bed on a cold winter's night..... Isn't that the greatest?! |
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I'd like to add what I said above. I am not putting down anyone on this site or offf but a lot of women come right out and flatly state they want a Harley guy. I have been turned away by at least two because of this; they are in my age group. I've always rode a shaft drive rice rocket because I don't have to oil the chain, the damn thing can go around corners, can out accelerate anything, parts don't fall off of it and it gets good gas mileage and costs less than half a Harley. I am not going to pay just for the bike's image whether it's a chick magnet or not. That would be like eating hamburger instead of steak because it came in a gold plated package.
So why only Harleys ladies? Because whether the Harley guy is a bad boy or not, and most are not, that is the image these ladies are looking for and because there are some bad boys out there they ending up getting what they were looking for and then later wonder why they got the shaft. Bassman, yes, give it to me Ok, This is a dating site. Right now.....just bassed on what I have seen here you are a very bitter woman. What makes you think any man would want to date a woman with your attitude? Like I said earlier....If you want to be loved you have to allow yourself to be loved. When are you going to allow it? Just out of curiousity ,why do you say I am bitter? And what is it about my attitude specifically do you see as problematic? I may consider allowing someone to love me when someone decides to try, but I am in no hurry. Sorry, but love is scary, you know? there is just so much at risk. I honestly dont' feel bitter, though..I am not angry at anyone, certainly not men - some of my best friends are men. I wonder if you are saying that a woman has to be all hearts and flowers in order to be loved - if that is the case, I am doomed. I am more into bawdy humor than romance novels. Does that make a woman unlovable? No, I'm not saying that you have to be all hearts and flowers....but what you are saying...LOUD AND CLEAR I might ad is Hey, I can do all this stuff myself. Who needs a man? It's not about the things men do for you. Heck, by the time a man hits 40 he knows that no matter what you do for a woman it's not enough. A man is looking for intimacy. And I don't mean sex. We can get that anywhere. And You, Hikerchick.....will not allow a man to get near you. I am a picky guy...but out of all the women here that have posted, you are the only one I would stay away from. And I am not trying to be mean. All I am saying is take a good look at your attitude. It screams MAN HATER. And I know because I was married to one. |
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I'd like to add what I said above. I am not putting down anyone on this site or offf but a lot of women come right out and flatly state they want a Harley guy. I have been turned away by at least two because of this; they are in my age group. I've always rode a shaft drive rice rocket because I don't have to oil the chain, the damn thing can go around corners, can out accelerate anything, parts don't fall off of it and it gets good gas mileage and costs less than half a Harley. I am not going to pay just for the bike's image whether it's a chick magnet or not. That would be like eating hamburger instead of steak because it came in a gold plated package. So why only Harleys ladies? Because whether the Harley guy is a bad boy or not, and most are not, that is the image these ladies are looking for and because there are some bad boys out there they ending up getting what they were looking for and then later wonder why they got the shaft. Do women really care what kind of motorcycles guys ride? I can't imagine anything more shallow and idiotic. What about --can you make her laugh? How do you treat the wait staff when you eat out? Are you kind to animals..children..old people... who gives a crap what kind of bike you ride? |
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Is your Garland anywhere near San Antonio? I'll join the Air Force again.(:!
Spooning in bed on a cold winter's night.....and feeling his hard on against you.... When he tries to comfort you when you are sad.... When he runs interference for you to give you a break When he surprises you with a card or flowers when you've had a fight...or better...for no reason at all other than he loves you When he gets the "critters" out of the house or attic so I don't have to touch them |
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I'd like to add what I said above. I am not putting down anyone on this site or offf but a lot of women come right out and flatly state they want a Harley guy. I have been turned away by at least two because of this; they are in my age group. I've always rode a shaft drive rice rocket because I don't have to oil the chain, the damn thing can go around corners, can out accelerate anything, parts don't fall off of it and it gets good gas mileage and costs less than half a Harley. I am not going to pay just for the bike's image whether it's a chick magnet or not. That would be like eating hamburger instead of steak because it came in a gold plated package. So why only Harleys ladies? Because whether the Harley guy is a bad boy or not, and most are not, that is the image these ladies are looking for and because there are some bad boys out there they ending up getting what they were looking for and then later wonder why they got the shaft. I'm sorry for your experiences but this is not the thread for them. |
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I'd like to add what I said above. I am not putting down anyone on this site or offf but a lot of women come right out and flatly state they want a Harley guy. I have been turned away by at least two because of this; they are in my age group. I've always rode a shaft drive rice rocket because I don't have to oil the chain, the damn thing can go around corners, can out accelerate anything, parts don't fall off of it and it gets good gas mileage and costs less than half a Harley. I am not going to pay just for the bike's image whether it's a chick magnet or not. That would be like eating hamburger instead of steak because it came in a gold plated package. So why only Harleys ladies? Because whether the Harley guy is a bad boy or not, and most are not, that is the image these ladies are looking for and because there are some bad boys out there they ending up getting what they were looking for and then later wonder why they got the shaft. Do women really care what kind of motorcycles guys ride? I can't imagine anything more shallow and idiotic. What about --can you make her laugh? How do you treat the wait staff when you eat out? Are you kind to animals..children..old people... who gives a crap what kind of bike you ride? Yes, Hikerchick. Some of them care. You would think that people who have been around for a while would want a deeper connection that the type of bike you ride or car you drive. It goes back to what I said about intimacy. Most of the woman I have met just want to go out and have fun. They want a guy that will do it all for them but they give very little in return. It takes a LOT more than sex you keep us over 40 guys happy. And most of the woman think all you have to do to keep a guy happy is have sex with him. When I am in love with a woman I want to show her off to the world. I want to hold her hand as we are walking through the mall. I want her to listen to what I say. I want her to be there for me when I get knocked down. If a woman isn't secure enough to be shown to the world....or if she gets embarrassed because I get on the speaker at Walmart or where ever and say I love so and so then I won't really think she cares that much for me. It's all about intimacy. |
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My boyfriend (who I met on this site, by the way)offers to drive, carry the groceries, pay for going out, and fixes my computer. Not because I am incapable (although, I am with the computer)but because he is a gentleman and considerate. His car is newer, carrying groceries hurts my bad knee, and I cook when we are at home. If anything, it shows that we are equals because he appreciates all the things I do and this is how he shows me. Also, when you meet the right one, there is nothing more freeing (and scary) then trusting someone enough to be vunerable with him. That's not feigning weakness, it's the riskiest and bravest thing you can do. Amen on that! And congrats on finding the right one! Thanks Poetry...I am lucky indeed. And my skin is glowing from all the...activity.
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Im truely inpressed with some of their comments on the other post!
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Im truely inpressed with some of their comments on the other post! Me too....melted my 
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Edited by
texasrose9
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Sun 03/02/08 08:25 PM
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Im truely inpressed with some of their comments on the other post! So am I.... Makes me think of more things I love about men.... The smell of his cologne on his t-shirt........ When I hear a noise in the middle of the night and it scares me...the way he'll check it out.... |
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 forgive me, but i thought you were going to say he farted or something.
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The feel of his hand cupping my face when we kiss, brushing my hair back with his hand.
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Right there with me with a cold wash cloth and holding my hair back when I am sick...fighting off his own urge to be sick too.
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I'd like to add what I said above. I am not putting down anyone on this site or offf but a lot of women come right out and flatly state they want a Harley guy. I have been turned away by at least two because of this; they are in my age group. I've always rode a shaft drive rice rocket because I don't have to oil the chain, the damn thing can go around corners, can out accelerate anything, parts don't fall off of it and it gets good gas mileage and costs less than half a Harley. I am not going to pay just for the bike's image whether it's a chick magnet or not. That would be like eating hamburger instead of steak because it came in a gold plated package. So why only Harleys ladies? Because whether the Harley guy is a bad boy or not, and most are not, that is the image these ladies are looking for and because there are some bad boys out there they ending up getting what they were looking for and then later wonder why they got the shaft. Do women really care what kind of motorcycles guys ride? I can't imagine anything more shallow and idiotic. What about --can you make her laugh? How do you treat the wait staff when you eat out? Are you kind to animals..children..old people... who gives a crap what kind of bike you ride? Yes, Hikerchick. Some of them care. You would think that people who have been around for a while would want a deeper connection that the type of bike you ride or car you drive. It goes back to what I said about intimacy. Most of the woman I have met just want to go out and have fun. They want a guy that will do it all for them but they give very little in return. It takes a LOT more than sex you keep us over 40 guys happy. And most of the woman think all you have to do to keep a guy happy is have sex with him. When I am in love with a woman I want to show her off to the world. I want to hold her hand as we are walking through the mall. I want her to listen to what I say. I want her to be there for me when I get knocked down. If a woman isn't secure enough to be shown to the world....or if she gets embarrassed because I get on the speaker at Walmart or where ever and say I love so and so then I won't really think she cares that much for me. It's all about intimacy. I am not sure what showing someone off to the people at Walmart has to do with intimacy, but to each his own. It would make me happy if you would understand what I was saying before ..I think we agree more than you realize..it seemed to me that those women just wanted a guy to take out their trash and handle all the unpleasant chores..I don't need that ..I need so much more..I don't need a guy's money..what I need is a mental connection with someone who is my intellectual equal. You say you want a woman who is going to listen to what you say. Don't you see how that could be scary? I don't want to have to obey anyone. You don't mention anything about wanting to hear what she has to say..it seems like you are looking for a trophy to show off..and please, that is just an impression that I am getting. Forgive me if I am wrong. The only thing I would possibly open my life to is a meeting of the minds between two equals. It doesn't mean that I hate men. I am just picky too. I don't want someone to come in and start doing me favors and then think I owe him something. I don't need that. I don't really need anything. It is just that there are certain things that would be nice to have..but I can live without. |
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