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And yet the experiences are EXACTLY what keep some people from playing the game of love again ...
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If someone is able to find the door, I may let them in. well .. THAT'S a start  Yeah, but it's a doggy door. 
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well then you'd have to have a DAWG interested in you eh?
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fade, you are absolutely right and the more i open myself up to Enrique (my boyfriend) the more joy i feel..i tell him all the time that he makes me happier than i have ever been...
Becca 
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fade, you are absolutely right and the more i open myself up to Enrique (my boyfriend) the more joy i feel..i tell him all the time that he makes me happier than i have ever been... Becca awww that's great news Becca .. I take it you posted to "DO YOU BELIEVE IN MAGIC?" thread |
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not yet i haven't..i guess i need to :)
Becca |
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I don't self protect and perhaps I should. Rejection is hard to take but I have grown tuff skin on here.
I've learned we grow out of our hurts. When we are happy and content, there is no growth. So, if I fall in love and get hurt, I try to learn from it but will always be vulnerable falling in love. Just those few precious moments makes up for all the other hurts. T mie
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yep so true .. no pain no gain .. even in matters of the heart
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This is a perfect topic for me. Yes I do. Ive had this conversation with many friends recently, because people take interest in me and I ward them off or avoid them. Happened last night actually, I was all ready to try to let the wall down for what I thought was a great guy. Then he "disclosed" that he has a wife at home. Good thing I didnt let that wall down. |
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This is a perfect topic for me. Yes I do. Ive had this conversation with many friends recently, because people take interest in me and I ward them off or avoid them. Happened last night actually, I was all ready to try to let the wall down for what I thought was a great guy. Then he "disclosed" that he has a wife at home. Good thing I didnt let that wall down. Exactly. You know the saying .. you have to kiss a lot of toads to find your Prince 
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I've been "self-protecting" on and off for the past 9 years. It is hard to trust again.
I can understand the need to surrender to it, to experience fully. Unfortunately, I also remember only too well the pain of betrayal and abandonment, loss. I teeter back and forth these days. Do I dive in completely? Or do my toes just skim the water and wait. Opportunities for beauty can be lost in the waiting, I agree. |
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Here's the thing Angel. Time waits for no one. I say jump in but protect your heart from drowning by a life jacket eh?
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Here's the thing Angel. Time waits for no one. I say jump in but protect your heart from drowning by a life jacket eh? What am I gonna use for a life jacket?!  I tend to give my all. ....Have to learn to reserve a bit without compromising what I have to offer - the best of what makes me, me.
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well then you'd have to have a DAWG interested in you eh? I'd prefer a cat, or squirrel maybe. or maybe a goat or llama 
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Here's the thing Angel. Time waits for no one. I say jump in but protect your heart from drowning by a life jacket eh? What am I gonna use for a life jacket?! I tend to give my all. ....Have to learn to reserve a bit without compromising what I have to offer - the best of what makes me, me. When I get the life jacket thing worked out I'll buzz ya and ya, I tend to give my all too ... *sigh*
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I've been "self-protecting" on and off for the past 9 years. It is hard to trust again. I can understand the need to surrender to it, to experience fully. Unfortunately, I also remember only too well the pain of betrayal and abandonment, loss. I teeter back and forth these days. Do I dive in completely? Or do my toes just skim the water and wait. Opportunities for beauty can be lost in the waiting, I agree. I completely agree with this and yet I have a 10 ft high, 4ft wide wall of bricks around me...I poke my head and and then run for cover. Its a scary place out there in love land! 
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"You have to feel the pain to get to the joy"
I think, each expereince we have in this mere mortal world is a lesson. Some are painful, but love is the joy,,a "gift". How silly it would be to build walls around avoidance of that gift. I mean, after all,,who would you be hurting? 
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If someone is able to find the door, I may let them in. well .. THAT'S a start Yeah, but it's a doggy door.
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"You have to feel the pain to get to the joy" I think, each expereince we have in this mere mortal world is a lesson. Some are painful, but love is the joy,,a "gift". How silly it would be to build walls around avoidance of that gift. I mean, after all,,who would you be hurting? only yourself little missy
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"You have to feel the pain to get to the joy" I think, each expereince we have in this mere mortal world is a lesson. Some are painful, but love is the joy,,a "gift". How silly it would be to build walls around avoidance of that gift. I mean, after all,,who would you be hurting? only yourself little missy your such a SMART woman Fade   
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