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Topic: WHY IS IT SO IMPORTANT...
Adrian_a's photo
Sun 02/17/08 08:47 AM
Why is it so important for people to se your picture before talking to you. Why cant people learn to know the real you instead of seeing how you look first. I believe that if your beautiful inside that your beautiful out. Looks isnt everything but I guess not everyone feels the same. So what do you all think about it???

Gumbyvs's photo
Sun 02/17/08 08:48 AM
Why do people have to hide behind a blue box or random art?

chuck366's photo
Sun 02/17/08 08:48 AM

Why is it so important for people to se your picture before talking to you. Why cant people learn to know the real you instead of seeing how you look first. I believe that if your beautiful inside that your beautiful out. Looks isnt everything but I guess not everyone feels the same. So what do you all think about it???



Its nice to have a face with whom you are speaking

bgeorge's photo
Sun 02/17/08 08:48 AM
there has to be some sort of physical attraction...whether people want to admit it or not...and chemistry

Adrian_a's photo
Sun 02/17/08 08:50 AM


Why is it so important for people to se your picture before talking to you. Why cant people learn to know the real you instead of seeing how you look first. I believe that if your beautiful inside that your beautiful out. Looks isnt everything but I guess not everyone feels the same. So what do you all think about it???



Its nice to have a face with whom you are speaking



yes but why cant that happen after you know that person a little bit better. Well you do have a point thanks

ddanster's photo
Sun 02/17/08 08:50 AM
Edited by ddanster on Sun 02/17/08 08:50 AM
When someone doesn't have a photo up i automatically think they have something to hide.

no photo
Sun 02/17/08 08:51 AM
Well why not post a picture....

Gumbyvs's photo
Sun 02/17/08 08:52 AM
Well if this were a just "friends" site, photos wouldn't really matter, but seeing its a dating site, wouldn't you want to be attracted to someone you might be interested in? What if you spent months emailing someone, and getting to know them, then you meet and find out he/she is a 4'11", D&D playing, person that still lives in their mom's basement, that has a hump, bullet proof glasses, and 13 toes?

ddanster's photo
Sun 02/17/08 08:53 AM

Well why not post a picture....


yeah..i don't think there is much of an excuse for not posting a picture enless you have been living under a rock for 15 years

chuck366's photo
Sun 02/17/08 08:54 AM



Why is it so important for people to se your picture before talking to you. Why cant people learn to know the real you instead of seeing how you look first. I believe that if your beautiful inside that your beautiful out. Looks isnt everything but I guess not everyone feels the same. So what do you all think about it???



Its nice to have a face with whom you are speaking

It can, its a individuals choice I guess.

yes but why cant that happen after you know that person a little bit better. Well you do have a point thanks

DemonicNightAngel's photo
Sun 02/17/08 08:55 AM

Well if this were a just "friends" site, photos wouldn't really matter, but seeing its a dating site, wouldn't you want to be attracted to someone you might be interested in? What if you spent months emailing someone, and getting to know them, then you meet and find out he/she is a 4'11", D&D playing, person that still lives in their mom's basement, that has a hump, bullet proof glasses, and 13 toes?


Wow! laugh I could live with the 13 toes, but D&D!!!! AHHHH!!!!laugh laugh

ddanster's photo
Sun 02/17/08 08:55 AM

Well if this were a just "friends" site, photos wouldn't really matter, but seeing its a dating site, wouldn't you want to be attracted to someone you might be interested in? What if you spent months emailing someone, and getting to know them, then you meet and find out he/she is a 4'11", D&D playing, person that still lives in their mom's basement, that has a hump, bullet proof glasses, and 13 toes?


So true..Not showing yourself is setting yourself up for being rejected.

TrueJedi's photo
Sun 02/17/08 08:58 AM
I dont have a scanner or a digital camera, some people might not either, something to think about.

touchybear's photo
Sun 02/17/08 08:58 AM
i have talked to sooo many women with out photo,s...that im scared to any more..most are just plain obese...im not being rude..maybe shallow...but...physical attraction is the first part of anything...so i go for picture photo,s...

Enya's photo
Sun 02/17/08 08:59 AM
PERSONALY,I DONT RESPOND TO THOSE 'BLUE BOX/NO PIC'

I JUST LIKE TO SEE WHO I'M TALKING TOO.

danni08032006's photo
Sun 02/17/08 08:59 AM
i agree.....me personally, i would like to know who you are talking to up front

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Sun 02/17/08 09:00 AM
I checked your profile and was surprised to see you are male. Your post sounds like something women say all the time. Face it,,, visual attraction is the first thing. It matters not how beautiful your heart is if there is no chemistry.

Gumbyvs's photo
Sun 02/17/08 09:00 AM
Well it goes to the point that - Would you go up to a complete stranger in a bar that you aren't attracted to whatsoever, and flirt with them? Really, attraction is usually first visually, second mentally, third emotionally. You just can't do it backwards and have it work out, well, unless you're sadistic and like failing relationships.

no photo
Sun 02/17/08 09:02 AM
actually I like the clip are more than photos, its says a lot about a persons personality...I go back and forth now but in the begining I just posted clip art.
smokin

Gumbyvs's photo
Sun 02/17/08 09:02 AM

I dont have a scanner or a digital camera, some people might not either, something to think about.


Wow, you don't have a friend with camera, a cell phone with a camera, or someone even with a box of crayons? And you can take negatives or pictures to walmart and get them put on a cd for damn near nothing. 8 years ago your excuse would have been valid, but today it just doesn't fly.

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