Topic: daughter 16 did it in back seat
PacificStar48's photo
Thu 02/14/08 11:36 PM

I don't understand something here ..it takes two to tango .. what were all these people doing at that agee ?? I think that you and your daughter need to have a serious talk...and she may be hurting over this guy .. not to mention posting her sex life on the internet could be in bad form..If my dad whom I loved and trusted and adored was talking about my sex life on the internet with strangers i would feel so betrayed.. sad


Amen

TristanBru's photo
Fri 02/15/08 05:52 AM
All I can say Is I didn't lose my mine till I was 20. And it was such life changing decision that I wouldn't have wanted to lose it any earler. I know that kinda unusal for some one my age. Thank god I had a very strict upbringing when it came to dateing and staying out late. I think it has to do with what childern are exposed to now. Just look at the movies and music childern listen to. I get a little self uneasy when my parents hear it playing on my car radio, and I'm 27. noway

Perhaps's photo
Sat 02/16/08 06:42 AM
I watched a real concerning movie last night on Lifetime. It was about a middle school that had a breakout of syphilis. The main character was a fourteen year old. There's another one on next Thursday evening, same network, called, "Thirteen" that sounds interesting.

My twelve year old just started noticing boys. Ug!! I found a bulletin on her myspace entitled "Horny prep". I'm already having to address the issues with her at 12!

Winx's photo
Sat 02/16/08 09:08 AM
Edited by Winx on Sat 02/16/08 09:08 AM

I watched a real concerning movie last night on Lifetime. It was about a middle school that had a breakout of syphilis. The main character was a fourteen year old. There's another one on next Thursday evening, same network, called, "Thirteen" that sounds interesting.

My twelve year old just started noticing boys. Ug!! I found a bulletin on her myspace entitled "Horny prep". I'm already having to address the issues with her at 12!


Ohhh, nooo.

I have a friend that has a 14 y/o daughter on MySpace and he doesn't like what's happening on there with her.

He wants her off of MySpace but she lives with her mother and the mother doesn't care.

Perhaps's photo
Sat 02/16/08 01:00 PM


I watched a real concerning movie last night on Lifetime. It was about a middle school that had a breakout of syphilis. The main character was a fourteen year old. There's another one on next Thursday evening, same network, called, "Thirteen" that sounds interesting.

My twelve year old just started noticing boys. Ug!! I found a bulletin on her myspace entitled "Horny prep". I'm already having to address the issues with her at 12!


Ohhh, nooo.

I have a friend that has a 14 y/o daughter on MySpace and he doesn't like what's happening on there with her.

He wants her off of MySpace but she lives with her mother and the mother doesn't care.

Same here. Since she allows it I just have to keep pace with my daughter.

cutelildevilsmom's photo
Sat 02/16/08 04:33 PM

I watched a real concerning movie last night on Lifetime. It was about a middle school that had a breakout of syphilis. The main character was a fourteen year old. There's another one on next Thursday evening, same network, called, "Thirteen" that sounds interesting.

My twelve year old just started noticing boys. Ug!! I found a bulletin on her myspace entitled "Horny prep". I'm already having to address the issues with her at 12!


have her set it to private and she wont get those spam bulletins.only her friends can mail her.

cutelildevilsmom's photo
Sat 02/16/08 04:33 PM

All I can say Is I didn't lose my mine till I was 20. And it was such life changing decision that I wouldn't have wanted to lose it any earler. I know that kinda unusal for some one my age. Thank god I had a very strict upbringing when it came to dateing and staying out late. I think it has to do with what childern are exposed to now. Just look at the movies and music childern listen to. I get a little self uneasy when my parents hear it playing on my car radio, and I'm 27. noway

me too..glad it wasn't part of my teen experience.

Perhaps's photo
Sat 02/16/08 04:39 PM


I watched a real concerning movie last night on Lifetime. It was about a middle school that had a breakout of syphilis. The main character was a fourteen year old. There's another one on next Thursday evening, same network, called, "Thirteen" that sounds interesting.

My twelve year old just started noticing boys. Ug!! I found a bulletin on her myspace entitled "Horny prep". I'm already having to address the issues with her at 12!


have her set it to private and she wont get those spam bulletins.only her friends can mail her.

It is set to private. My 21 year old daughter got her on myspace. I objected, ex over rode me and my older daughter said she would keep an eye on things. Since when does a 21 year old have parenting skills to look after a pre-teen?

cutelildevilsmom's photo
Sat 02/16/08 04:48 PM



I watched a real concerning movie last night on Lifetime. It was about a middle school that had a breakout of syphilis. The main character was a fourteen year old. There's another one on next Thursday evening, same network, called, "Thirteen" that sounds interesting.

My twelve year old just started noticing boys. Ug!! I found a bulletin on her myspace entitled "Horny prep". I'm already having to address the issues with her at 12!


have her set it to private and she wont get those spam bulletins.only her friends can mail her.

It is set to private. My 21 year old daughter got her on myspace. I objected, ex over rode me and my older daughter said she would keep an eye on things. Since when does a 21 year old have parenting skills to look after a pre-teen?
and yet they raise babies..noway

daniel48706's photo
Sat 02/16/08 05:22 PM



I watched a real concerning movie last night on Lifetime. It was about a middle school that had a breakout of syphilis. The main character was a fourteen year old. There's another one on next Thursday evening, same network, called, "Thirteen" that sounds interesting.

My twelve year old just started noticing boys. Ug!! I found a bulletin on her myspace entitled "Horny prep". I'm already having to address the issues with her at 12!


have her set it to private and she wont get those spam bulletins.only her friends can mail her.

It is set to private. My 21 year old daughter got her on myspace. I objected, ex over rode me and my older daughter said she would keep an eye on things. Since when does a 21 year old have parenting skills to look after a pre-teen?


BUT keep ion mind your 21 year old has several things hanging over her head here too. This is her "Baby" sister, sh doesnt want her hurt; you, good ole dad, will "kill" her if baby sister DOES get hurt on her watch (or so she thinks, I can almost garuntee it). PLUS, she IS big sis, and a girl about the same age, so hopefully lil sis will listen and heed her advice.
I suggest you talk with your 21 y/o daughter, and come up with a way to get her to pass on your advice and concerns etc. without letting on that they are yours. You know what I mean?

no photo
Sat 02/16/08 05:26 PM
I am soooo strict with my kids(son 14 and daughter 12)
The only computer they have access of is really old and has every blocker and parental xcontrol you can get on it.
They always complain cuz they cant really do anything on it but play computer games..lol
I have my computer in my room but they dont have access to my password and if they use it for school work i'm right there with em. Its just too easy for young kids to get io nto things they have no business being into.

Me at 12 and my daughter at 12 sooo different.
I looked and acted 12, she looks 16 and thinks shes a teenager!

Winx's photo
Sat 02/16/08 05:47 PM
I am strict with the computer too. No way MySpace.

I can see the computer from the couch. hahaha

rickybobby84's photo
Sat 02/16/08 05:49 PM

16 is way too young to be experiencing this kind of behavior.abstinance is the only answer,until they are both legally married,or they are both of legal,consenting age!

be serious the average age for girls losing their virginity is 15 grounding and **** like that won't stop her and will only push her away, they need to have a talk about safety and proper use of condoms becuase she obviously wanted to do it. not saying it's right for the guy to take advantage of her though

Perhaps's photo
Sat 02/16/08 08:19 PM


BUT keep ion mind your 21 year old has several things hanging over her head here too. This is her "Baby" sister, sh doesnt want her hurt; you, good ole dad, will "kill" her if baby sister DOES get hurt on her watch (or so she thinks, I can almost garuntee it). PLUS, she IS big sis, and a girl about the same age, so hopefully lil sis will listen and heed her advice.
I suggest you talk with your 21 y/o daughter, and come up with a way to get her to pass on your advice and concerns etc. without letting on that they are yours. You know what I mean?

Good points. I've been talking to the older daughter. She said she was going to have a face to face with her because she had to explain what "horny" means. Man, it's just too young! Damn computers! I was talking to my 12 year old just a little while ago and you know? She still doesn't even know where a baby comes out. She still thinks it's the belly button! Times have changed.

jesse105's photo
Sat 02/16/08 08:55 PM

well we let out daughter go out with her new BF we didnt like it he was 19 and i told that **** keep your hands off of her shes to young .........Well first date out ...parked and he did it in the car well i made a fake profile with a sexy chick and he was all over her. So i busted him and he told me about there night out .....He didnt know it was me talking to him ........I want to kill him and shes never leving the house till shes 18


i was gonna say if they were still together buy a gun. he wouldnt come back

Winx's photo
Sat 02/16/08 09:13 PM
Edited by Winx on Sat 02/16/08 09:14 PM



BUT keep ion mind your 21 year old has several things hanging over her head here too. This is her "Baby" sister, sh doesnt want her hurt; you, good ole dad, will "kill" her if baby sister DOES get hurt on her watch (or so she thinks, I can almost garuntee it). PLUS, she IS big sis, and a girl about the same age, so hopefully lil sis will listen and heed her advice.
I suggest you talk with your 21 y/o daughter, and come up with a way to get her to pass on your advice and concerns etc. without letting on that they are yours. You know what I mean?

Good points. I've been talking to the older daughter. She said she was going to have a face to face with her because she had to explain what "horny" means. Man, it's just too young! Damn computers! I was talking to my 12 year old just a little while ago and you know? She still doesn't even know where a baby comes out. She still thinks it's the belly button! Times have changed.


Uh-oh. She needs to know where babies come out. Maybe she won't ask how they got there yet. lol The big reason - she's is at the grade where she is going to get misinformation. The fifth grade girls are starting to get their menstrual cycles. And they are talking. She needs to know the basics about her body. Don't they have a health class at school? It happens around fifth grade.



willy_cents's photo
Sat 02/16/08 09:19 PM
My ex-step dau was 12, in the 7th grade, and got busted giving bj's to multiple guys, 13-14yo, in a classroom after school. Her mom, my ex-, thought it was funny. The dau and I had a pretty long talk about sex and its repurcussions, over the ex's objections...the let her learn on her own sydrome. I provided her with condoms, and a cucumber to practice on, and answered every question she asked about it, techniques and all. She kept giving bj's to whomever until we div and they moved away. According to her and her hubby, she was virgin at 20 when she got married. You have to be open and non-judgemental about this topic with your kids. After all, I was 13 when I first got it on...lol...and my folks never knew anything about my sex life 'cause they did not want to hear it and would have blown up. sorry for the bookflowerforyou

Perhaps's photo
Sat 02/16/08 09:20 PM

Uh-oh. She needs to know where babies come out. Maybe she won't ask how they got there yet. lol The big reason - she's is at the grade where she is going to get misinformation. The fifth grade girls are starting to get their menstrual cycles. And they are talking. She needs to know the basics about her body. Don't they have a health class at school? It happens around fifth grade.

I don't have any problem talking these things over with my kids. I'll educate her. She needs to know.

adj4u's photo
Sun 02/17/08 07:27 AM

Two words: Statutory. Rape.


not necessarily so

16 is legal age of consent in some states

in ohio 16 is legal as long as the partners are within

three years of age (pretty sure that is how it is written

but not positive




cutelildevilsmom's photo
Sun 02/17/08 01:37 PM



BUT keep ion mind your 21 year old has several things hanging over her head here too. This is her "Baby" sister, sh doesnt want her hurt; you, good ole dad, will "kill" her if baby sister DOES get hurt on her watch (or so she thinks, I can almost garuntee it). PLUS, she IS big sis, and a girl about the same age, so hopefully lil sis will listen and heed her advice.
I suggest you talk with your 21 y/o daughter, and come up with a way to get her to pass on your advice and concerns etc. without letting on that they are yours. You know what I mean?

Good points. I've been talking to the older daughter. She said she was going to have a face to face with her because she had to explain what "horny" means. Man, it's just too young! Damn computers! I was talking to my 12 year old just a little while ago and you know? She still doesn't even know where a baby comes out. She still thinks it's the belly button! Times have changed.


Jesus my seven yr old knows where babies come from..