It's not about ruining his life... just like your daughter, he made a conscience decision on his own to have sex with a minor. He ruined his own rep, not your daughter and not you. I'd have him locked up.

It makes me sick inside .........I let that f.k in my house and he told me thats not what he wanted i told her thats all he wants duhhhhhhh . I tolf that little **** you dont have more respect for her than that or me and her mom .....hell he has a job he could have got a room .damnnnnnnn

Get a bat and play some baseball with the 19 yr olds.....umm....balls. You told him up front not to do anything with her because she's too young. My daughter is only 4 right now....I dread 10 + years from now

my younger son who is 18 now...

had a g/f since 7th grade...lol

but in 10th grade they broke up...

But she kept palying with his head...

she wanted to have sex....so he figured if he did she would come back to her...

so he gave his virginity to the wrong one..
she dumped him and moved on to have sex with others..

he was devistated...cried,couldn't eat or sleep..

He learned a great lessson...

and she is in the same grade but a year younger...

He has now had a g/f for 2 yrs and they are the same age...

he listens to me also... that guy to...

I'm sure it does make you sick. You're right, he hasn't shown any respect for anyone, so why should you offer him any???

I fill for you dude i remember when my baby was 4 ........I'm hurting .....its hard not to think about it

as my son told me..some time u have to let me make big mistakes to learn....

I am sure ur daughter learned ..the hard way..but...she sounds like she has unless she is just crying more cause she can't go out..

I guess u will find out..

best of luck to u ,mom and ur daughter...

IT is reasonable cause of STATUTORY RAPE, but how big do want to make this..
i mean my best advice is to talk to her..tell her how u feel about what happen. and but make her trust u to talk about things like this..that way u`ll know what is happening to her, the more u tell her no the more she`ll run away from u
time to talk about responsIBLE sex...cuz u dont want her ending up as a single mom..and all the bad consequences..that comes with not being responsible of what u r doing..cuz today information talks about sex but not what happens after that...

Look guys...sex is a natural thing that everyone will experience at some point in time. You should be happy that she wasn't any younger than that. You should just be there for her and help her as much as you can in making her safe and smart about her womanly decisions. I know you all feel like she is a child but didn't you do the same things?

confused with this one...what r u more concerned about...

back seat or that he didn't get a room or they had sex....

I feel for you dude. I can't imagine what it feels like.

Been there! My daughter was 15 at the time, he was the same age. Had the boys parents over to the house and informed them that their son and my daughter were doing it under their roof while on their watch. Told them if I can't trust my daughter at their home, that it's time to end the relationship. My daughter hated me for a long time, but now she's married to a wonderful man. This other guy is still around, in the military as a mortician.

My advise? Take it slow and stay calm with your little girl. Remember how heavy passion burns at that age. Grounding won't do anything except drive a wedge between you. You don't want any wedges, you want closeness, understanding, and trust. Dude, you've been there. Try to relax. Trust me on this.

I think it's more because his daughter is 16 and he told her boyfriend who is 19 that it was illegal and not to do it. The 19 yr old played his daughter.......I'd kick the kids a$$

What the hell is that matter with you....letting her go out with a 19 year old...I am sure you were 19 at one time....
think about it...what head do most 19 yr. olds think with....
Sorry I may be oversteppin' my grounds here..........

No we talk about sex way before this i'm real open maybe to much .....Hell i gave her condoms and said if you ever need them use thim its not what she did its when first date .........and in the freaking car when this loser had money ......Hell i told her i knew she would one day .......but they could have dated some damn it .I just wanted to hit and run ........I told here she just belived all the i love you **** .......At first she even told him thats all you want but after telling her he loved her so much she stated beleving it

they where just going to the moveis and we called her like every 10 mins then she didnt awnser for like 45 we kinda knew when she got home what she did we just new .......Thats when i hade to bust him on myspace to really know what he was about ........

Ok well i'm done with this one it just makes me more pissed off ......thanks to everyone

You opened the can of worms here....

WEL THIS IS RIGHT..BUT SOMTIMES WE HAVE TO MAKES THIS KIND OF MYSTAKES...TO UNDERSTAND
WHY NOT LET HER TALK TO SOMEONE ELSE SOMETIMES WE NEED TO HEAR FROM OTHERS TO UNDESTAND..IF U WANT I OFFER MYSELF TO DO IT
SINCE I HAVE LEARN MY LESSON
I AM A SINGLE MOM NOW..AND EVEN THOUGH I LOVE MY BABY SO MUCH ..I WISH I HAD MIND MY MOTHER AND NOT BELIVING ALL THE I LOVE U`S---CUZ IN THE END THEY R NOT SO REAL...KNOW I THINK TWICE...