i have a daughter who is 6 months old and now i want another baby...is it to soon? im engaged and my fiance wants to adopt my daughter...what should i do? help

What about the biological father?

Why don't you wait awhile and give your all to the 6 mo. old.

he choose not to be in her life

its never to soon for anything.just make sure you are able to afford two children before you do anything.and as for your fiance wanting to adopt your daughter well i would say thats awesome.not many guys today are willing to take care of someone elses child.so for you thats a plus.good luck

WAIT.... NOW is NOT the time to be making any large life-altering decisions...

its never to soon for anything.just make sure you are able to afford two children before you do anything.and as for your fiance wanting to adopt your daughter well i would say thats awesome.not many guys today are willing to take care of someone elses child.so for you thats a plus.good luck

I dont get it...He is willing to give you boyfriend of what? Not even a year full adopting rights to his own child?

Yeah make sure you can afford to support 2 kids before you do anything like that.

her real dad has never ever been in her life he's only seen her 3 times, my boyfriend wants to be her dad

But the question is,...Is the biological Father willing to give his full rights to his child? He will never have any rights to her or never see her again,...He is willing to do this? Want this?

Okay, you are 18. You're too young to be having a bunch of kids! You've got so much of your life ahead of you. JMO.

How old is her dad? Were you in a relationship with him? Why doesn't he want to be in her life?

Well for starters Fiance need to become hubby before anymore babies are made .. you just had a baby six months ago so seems like there has been a ,.lot going on for you, .. You were with one guy and got pregnant ypu all broke up and you met another guy got engaged and you have had a baby all in about 15 months slow down child you have lots of time ... Marry this guy before you have anymore children , get established ... just some thoughts

hell...the state pays ya more if you have more kids..right?

*sigh*

ok... I may be way off here...but... Why not nurture a relationship with your fiance. Two young children aren't easy..Children can't be happy unless mom and dad are. Your fiance sounds like a real man if he is wants to make you his wife, and your child his.. Kudos to him, and high 5 for you for finding him... But you guys deserve time together with the child you already have.... There is plenty of time to grow your family later...
good luck!!
ps... I just thought about it some more.... I'm not way off here...

6 weeks ago, your bf left you for "stupid reasons". 3 weeks ago, the baby's father tried to kidnap her.

Can you clarify how you now have a fiance and how the father wants nothing to do with the baby?

As a State employee, I implore you not to encourage such ideation! It breaks my heart to see so many people who pop out a bunch of kids as a way to get more food stamps. Not saying that's what the OP is doing at all, but it does happen, and many people do see things that way. I have one client who, when I had her case, was 25 with 7 children. She'd been pregnant almost constantly since she turned 18.

Wait, where did this information come from?? Yeah, definitely don't get pregnant again with this kind of turmoil in your life. It has bad idea written all over it.

I read her previous posts