ok im a preachers son and God said in the bible that he wants what right for us. and i think this one girl is right for me but all i got was a broken heart why would God let u hurt soooo bad u wanna just die

because there is something better just around the corner
keep your chin up

God helps those who can help themselves, and he can't do anything about free will

we arent put here to fall in love.....

we are put here for one purpose only and that is to know GOD

being a preachers son you of all people should know that

You may have thought she was right for you, but she wasn't if she broke your heart. God has something better for you, just be patient, it will happen at precisely the right moment.

Very well said

I'm not even Christian and I can answer this one. I believe that our creator (whatever you refer to him/her/they as) lets us hurt sometimes to make the great things even better. How could we truly appreciate the good things if life was always peaches and cream? Keep ya head up, baby doll, there's someone out there for you.

If you're a preacher's son, then you know that God has a better idea of what's right for you than you do. If this girl isn't in your life...He had his reasons for that.

omg come on lots of broken in here u r 19 u'll live

god has someone for you

but really this girl really is killing me like really why does it hurt and why cant i just let her go and move one would'nt that be easy or does God just wont me to suffer idk you tell me

Well, (not flaming here), if you are a preacher's son, he did not do a very good job of teaching you who and what "God" really is.

"God" and "Satan" play very small roles in our lives. God created everything..you want him to just lay life out on a silver platter for you too??

No! What you are running into is HUMANITY! God gave us ALL free choice and a brain to THINK with.

Don;t be blaming HUMANITY chit on God or Satan, neither most likely had nothing to do with it. At least 95% of the time it was HUMAN actions that caused whatever.

Just as some "Christians" believe that every child is a gift from God..as if God has a specific hand in each one. NO again! God put that ability for almost anypne in his "grand design". Hell, Charles Manson can have a child and so can most other very bad people we would NOT want breeding.

So to say "God" is letting you hurt..BS! You hurt because you are HUMAN and because of the choice YOU made. We ALL go through that..so don;t put "blame" on God.

well i left when i was 16 from home so guess u could say i ran from my family which was the worst mistake of my life now im trying to get them back in my life but its hard

Babe, pain is a part of life. Its just as important to life as joy, b/c it means you are really living and feeling something. You are only 19, and this won't be your last heartbreak, but the pain will subside.

That's just ridiculous!!!.. God doesn't micromanage humanity!! "God" didn't "let" anything happen-- You met that woman for a reason and the reason was to simply have some type of experience with her or be enlightened by her in some form or fashion--even if it was merely to pose your question and spur a response out of me-- but inevitably you did gain something from being with her the limited time that you had but simply to naive to realize such... But when all is said and done ---you are the one inevitably responsible for the interaction-- not necessarily physical you perhaps spiritual you-- and spiritual you merely wanted to have a limited interaction with her which it did and when the time was up it ended---Period!!! - Get a grip.. you obviously missed the important lesson and hence are expectedly disappointed.

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man up. its not. gods fault,life is not fair. get use to it if she don,t want you move on be a man about instead of a wimply cry baby,god does things in his own time not yours so do not blame him

Seriously people, give the kid a break. We've all felt like this from time to time, its a normal part of growing up. He should be a little naive, he's only 19.

Sweetheart, you seem like a nice guy, and from what I see you're not exactly an eyesore. You should have no trouble finding a good girl when the time is right for you.

ight check this out mother f ucker im not crying im just asking for advice cuz i do hurt and i do want her back but in someways i tried to move on and all it did was make things worse and last week when i was hospitalized she was right there everyday for 6 day ever night she stayed with me and now since im out she wont speak or anything so yea get a life and think