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Topic: Maybe I'm Old Fashioned...
daniel48706's photo
Fri 01/25/08 11:15 AM

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im a lady..
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We know your a lady DearHeart... And a very beautiful lady at that:heart:

countrybelle6471's photo
Fri 01/25/08 11:17 AM
Hello!well I dont talk like that,nor do i tolerate being talked to like that either.If by some chance you here me cuss its because i'm very made,and i try not to do it even then.It takes a lot to get me mad...i do the best I an to act as a lady.and have been complimented by the men i have dated on this fact,that i'm different to most they have seen,,news to me!cause iam who i am..and i want a gentleman that knows how to talkto & treat a lady..all the romantic..lovey dovey stuff..flowerforyou

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Fri 01/25/08 12:26 PM




When men stopped treating us like ladies is when we stopped being one.

The last man I went out with, on a first date, asked me in the middle of dinner if I had a place for him to put his toothbrush when we got home. I excused myself to the restroom, called my friend and had her pick me up.

Don't throw stones at the women, start with your own team first.


I will give you a bye on the idea that some men are nothing more than pigs hun, but the very same thing is true about women also.
I treat every single female I meet as a lady (opening doors, trying not to use too foul of language in her presence [I do fail sometimes at this one] going with her choice when we are undecided about what to do, etc. etc. etc.). I always treat a female as a lady unless she acts in a way to state she is not a lady. For example: cussing like a sailor (forgive me sailors, lol), pouring alchohol down their throats like they are a dried out sponge that needs to be saturated in order to survive, throwing punches at someone simply because they disagree with them.
In other words if a female acts with respect towards herself and others, I treat her with that same respect and dignity. If hse is crass and crude and belligerent I dont have the time of day to even achnowledge her.


Some guys, try most guys. You may not, or a few others, but for the most part from what I have seen in the last few months it's not worth getting ready for a date that is going to end badly.



So, you have met the majority of the men in the world? Wow, I thuoght I have done some traveling.. way to go girl!!!!




Daniel, do not take your anger with me from another thread out on me in this thread.

READ what I said. From what I have seen.

BigCurt_31's photo
Fri 01/25/08 12:49 PM

Since my divorce last December, I've dated about seven different women, all different shapes and sizes. Some were knockouts, some weren't. They spanned all economic lines, ect.
You know what I noticed? Women are as bad, if not worse than men!
In what way you ask? Well, for starters their mouths! Holy Cows a Moses! Nothing says skank like continually dropping the F-bomb and the C-word.
And when did it become lady like to tell me about where you're shaved, where you like to stick it, how you like to suck this or that, ect.?
Have I missed something in five years?
This doesn't just apply to women I've dated, it seems to apply universally. I talked to this sweet girl I work with and she confirmed it... What happened to being a lady?
Or am I just completley out of touch? Maybe it has to do with the hip hop music or somethinglaugh
Are girls a lot different than when we was kids?

Why, yes sir! They are much different nowadays then when we were kids. I think things really started to change during and after the vietnam war, but 80's kid's and the hair-band's really set the stuff off. I don't think it is so much rap era. Unless you are dating 18 year olds. Woman just like to be one of the boys at times. Woman can be much worse then men at times in cussing and talking about sex. Does that mean that is wrong?Who is to say1 WOman today are just so independant. They speak thier minds and do as they please. There is nothing wrong with that at all. If you don't like the way she conducts herself then don't date her. I personally prefer a lady outside of the bedroom and a freak inside. There is a time and a place for vulgarity and questionable behavior and at the dinner table is not one of them!

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Fri 01/25/08 12:53 PM
Edited by Fade2Black on Fri 01/25/08 12:54 PM
^^^^ you're STILL a kid :tongue:



You got it right Curt .. definitely the lady on the street, freak in the sheets smokin

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Fri 01/25/08 01:07 PM

Since my divorce last December, I've dated about seven different women, all different shapes and sizes. Some were knockouts, some weren't. They spanned all economic lines, ect.
You know what I noticed? Women are as bad, if not worse than men!
In what way you ask? Well, for starters their mouths! Holy Cows a Moses! Nothing says skank like continually dropping the F-bomb and the C-word.
And when did it become lady like to tell me about where you're shaved, where you like to stick it, how you like to suck this or that, ect.?
Have I missed something in five years?
This doesn't just apply to women I've dated, it seems to apply universally. I talked to this sweet girl I work with and she confirmed it... What happened to being a lady?
Or am I just completley out of touch? Maybe it has to do with the hip hop music or somethinglaugh
Are girls a lot different than when we was kids?


Um. Wow. I don't know where you have been meeting women. I don't swear. Some of my friends do, some don't. I would never talk aobut where I shaved unless it was with someone I knew very very well. And well, probably not then. Shaving isn't really a topic for conversation. It doesn't go anywhere. As for discussing sex while on a date, not something I do. Not until it looks like it is going to go in that direction. Oh, girls are just as bad as guys when talking about sex. Only I've notice girls are more likely to tell all. Young guys are more likely to make things up when they didn't do anything with the girl. Older guys are more likely to not talk about it at all. But on a first or second date? Wow. I'm sure you can find better out there.

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Fri 01/25/08 01:08 PM
I simply cannot believe we are having this discussion. I mean, honestly....dude is upset cause a woman is not he envisions a woman should be? Seriously....WTF?

Look, I can appreciate that women today have the means to express what they want to, cause I sure as hell am not intimidated by it one bit. I love to open doors for my lady. Love to bring her a nice, small gift just cause I wanna be sweet to her and because I wanna do it. I can be a gentleman......but at the same time...I can be something else to. Hey, shoot me. I am who I am, and I want the same from my lady.

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Fri 01/25/08 04:22 PM

Since my divorce last December, I've dated about seven different women, all different shapes and sizes. Some were knockouts, some weren't. They spanned all economic lines, ect.
You know what I noticed? Women are as bad, if not worse than men!
In what way you ask? Well, for starters their mouths! Holy Cows a Moses! Nothing says skank like continually dropping the F-bomb and the C-word.
And when did it become lady like to tell me about where you're shaved, where you like to stick it, how you like to suck this or that, ect.?
Have I missed something in five years?
This doesn't just apply to women I've dated, it seems to apply universally. I talked to this sweet girl I work with and she confirmed it... What happened to being a lady?
Or am I just completley out of touch? Maybe it has to do with the hip hop music or somethinglaugh
Are girls a lot different than when we was kids?

I think it is that they're just different "today", period. It doesn't matter the age. Baffles me too.

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Fri 01/25/08 07:09 PM
Edited by Sovaro on Fri 01/25/08 07:14 PM
I cuss sometimes while forgetting my son is around, don't mean too, just happens when something isn't going right after 2nd or 3rd time or I just know it's gonna be ****ing hell to fix it. Just spank me when I do bigsmile shrug.

After watching more posts on here, dating gets alot harder as we get older and our needs grow since so much two-faced dating or short relationships. It's more about getting or testing the f* or $$$ than having family fun together then our quality time to see what adjustments have to be made to make our packages work together. No sacrifice, No victory! Personally, I'd prefer a woman to just be herself otherwise she's not only wasting your time but everybody else's who is involved like children, babysitters, and family not to mention money, time, etc.

I remember the AUTHOR stating it's 7 off Match and Yahoo Personals. If you don't mind me asking, what makes you think the quality of women on a paying site will be any different than on a free site? They're most likely single parents with a budget and Yahoo recently announced they're laying off nearly half of it's workforce to restructurize due to so many free social networking websites.

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