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Nah bro...
I dont think hip hop is to blame for this.
Our society degenerates morally with each new generation. Our generation tolerates so many things that wouldnt have ever fit our grandparents lifestyle and values! And thats not always positively progressive. Theres much more porn and expletively illicit behavior and trends pouring out from all facets of nedia then ever nowdays. And we are all just byproducts of that defiant atmosphere.

well, if that is the norm..........then I am abnormal and old fashioned. I don't think anyone needs to use that kind of language to make their point. I agree with you that ladies don't need to act like that.....or talk like that.
If that kind of girl is what most men are looking for, then I am out of luck.

yo im lookin for a lady whos half sane and half crazy,..one who loves hip hop and country too ,who doesnt judge people by the music you listen to

When men stopped treating us like ladies is when we stopped being one.

The last man I went out with, on a first date, asked me in the middle of dinner if I had a place for him to put his toothbrush when we got home. I excused myself to the restroom, called my friend and had her pick me up.

Don't throw stones at the women, start with your own team first.

true ladies should be treated right and men shouldnt be so rude to think a date means sex afterward what happened to getting to know each other having some laughs first?

I don't know. You take a girl to the Go-Kart track, race her, get her adrenaline going, and then top it off with some skee-ball......the panties usually drop!

I can't speak for the rest of the women out there, but I can speak for me.


I am NOT like what you have experienced in the last year. I am not perfect by a long shot, but i'm not gonna cuss infront of you or have a converstation about where I want what put. There is a time and place for that kind of conversation in the relationship...I don't think it should be talked about on the first date!!!


There are a few ladies left out here in this crazy internet world, maybe you should just keep on keepin on.....just a thought








Goof. you're a nut!!!!

I think it works both ways im old school myself like the doors opened and to be treated with respect...there is several guys out there that have lost the knowledge of being a gentleman and several ladies that dont know how to be a true lady...it works both ways....its up to you to pick your standards and to not settle for less.....

just because i am a lady and choose not to use vulgar language does not by any means that I am a prude. A lady can be every bit as sexy without all the language. yes, this also applies to guys as well.
it is quite tiresome to go out with someone and realize that they are not interested in a meaningful relationship..... i was just hoping that I was wrong. One day I will meet someone that will enjoy my company and be interested in something more than just a physical one nighter.
Please, I will be the first to say that I am very much into a wonderful intmate relationship ........but that day will only happen with someone that I plan to spend the rest of my life with. yep, called me old fashioned..........and that doesn't make me cold and unfeeling. this is my choice.

Okay look. All that I am saying is that I want a woman to be who she is. If she does use foul language, then ok. It does not make me judge her. If I have a good time with her on a date, then I will ask her out again based on that fact alone. I just think that saying a woman is not a lady cause she does this or that, and doesn't do this or that, is being judgmental. As long as she is real, and not posing just to date me..I am cool.

hey Goofball,
of course you want to date a woman that is real and will be herslf and no one is going to argue that point.........don't we all want the people we meet to be themselves and not put on an act?
hey, have a good day.

i am old fashioned also, but it seems like guys want to to act a certain way in public but different elsewhere if you know what i mean

Well geez what's that say about YOU guys??????

EXACTLY why I wrote my thread in the rateme section. Girls think that the only way to get guys is to bare all and swear all .... lol

Seriously, it's sad. They don't know any better and there's no one to model class .. period.

That's why I put out the WHOLE package thread .. so girls would see it and realize they don't have to be skanks to have guys interested. It's on pg 26 now .. longest thread in that section. Why? It's not me, it's the message.

It's the WHOLE woman that sells .. and if she's class and good character she sells 1000 times better

http://www.justsayhi.com/topic/show/67914

and that does NOT mean she never uses a swear word .. I use them, but the right time .. sometimes nothing works like "sh*t"


but I'll never tell a guy (I'm not in a relationship with)straight up where I like it put .. wth.

Is it so damn wrong for me to love sluts?


And I am kidding ladies.

Aweee I'm sorry you never dated me.

words are just words, it's people who apply the negative connotations.

i prefer a girl who'll speak her mind and maybe use a little bit of a foul mouth.

it's just language people, just have to know when it is and isn't apropriate

Depends on whether we get ya if we are

I will give you a bye on the idea that some men are nothing more than pigs hun, but the very same thing is true about women also.
I treat every single female I meet as a lady (opening doors, trying not to use too foul of language in her presence [I do fail sometimes at this one] going with her choice when we are undecided about what to do, etc. etc. etc.). I always treat a female as a lady unless she acts in a way to state she is not a lady. For example: cussing like a sailor (forgive me sailors, lol), pouring alchohol down their throats like they are a dried out sponge that needs to be saturated in order to survive, throwing punches at someone simply because they disagree with them.
In other words if a female acts with respect towards herself and others, I treat her with that same respect and dignity. If hse is crass and crude and belligerent I dont have the time of day to even achnowledge her.