Topic: someone literally misinterpreted my message
authentic and original's photo
Tue 07/28/26 03:14 PM
Has anyone ever on here have a lady grossly misinterpret your response then stop the match? I asked what she does for her man trying to get an idea of the positive things she does for her man but somehow she interpreted it as I was saying she did something. I'm not sure how you get that from what I asked.

motowndowntown's photo
Tue 07/28/26 05:18 PM
"What she does for her man"?

Sounds like something out of the misogynist rule book.

TxsGal3333's photo
Tue 07/28/26 05:22 PM
Humm sounds like to me all your worried about is, what someone can do for you!whoa

The all about me syndrome, will lead to others ghosting you in a heart beat~~waving


More like an Interview then trying to get to know someone,,,slaphead

Zee's photo
Tue 07/28/26 05:39 PM
I agree with both Mo & TG.. NEVER ask a woman what she does for her man.. especially in the 'get to know you' stage.. yeesh.. like TG said.. all about you much??whoa

your choice of wording is very important.. you get one shot at a first impression.. do it right and make it count cuz there'll never be a second chance.. as I think you've just discovered.. hopefully it's a lesson learned..

Miao's photo
Tue 07/28/26 06:47 PM
Maybe You worded it wrongly. How about a context

soufiehere's photo
Tue 07/28/26 08:50 PM

... I asked what she does for her man...

No, no, NO!
That is a highly suggestive question.
Totally unsuitable for any getting-to-know-you
conversation.
That you cannot see this, is more disturbing
than placing blame.

Respect Spanky..

Don's photo
Tue 07/28/26 11:35 PM

Respect Spanky..


Spanky?

no photo
Wed 07/29/26 02:15 AM

Respect Spanky..

Spanky?

a nickname for someone mischievous (The Little Rascals show)

Don's photo
Wed 07/29/26 06:40 AM

a nickname for someone mischievous (The Little Rascals show)

Okey-dokey

soufiehere's photo
Wed 07/29/26 01:42 PM


Respect Spanky..

Spanky?

a nickname for someone mischievous (The Little Rascals show)

Farid's Dictionary is firmly in place ;-)