Topic: Women's Dating Photos
SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Mon 07/28/25 04:40 AM
After I came across a man who met his woman on a FB group, I too became a member of 2 FB groups for singles and dating.
I had never thought of that, but no harm no foul, right?!

I found 3 groups, disregarded 1 immediately based on the photos that women had posted:
Cleavage, short tight skirts, one was sat down showing naked thighs and almost showed her fanny?!?!?

In one of the other groups it's exactly the same.
WTH?

I'm not sure if this is common for women to do on dating sites, but what a daft thing to do!
You're basically selling sex.
You'll get a lot of attention, but that isn't about you as a woman, it's lust.
Could very well be that men become member of such sites only so they have free w@nking material.

Using sexy photos attract sexual attention, not love.
It lowers your standards, puts you on pretty much the same level as a girl in the red light district.
And then they do state they want respect?
Seriously?

Reason this shocks me is that it shows that nothing much has changed over the centuries. We're being used for sex.
Only by acting this way it's women themselves who encourage this.
Apparently most have become ingrained with the idea that your self-worth hinges on how sexy you are.
A lot of that is directly due to media and television (series like Baywatch for instance).

There are Muslims in Western countries who consider Western woman to be sl*ts.
Seeing this kind of shizzel I'm inclined to agree.
Not saying they have a great way of treating women, but I am saying the way women present themselves -and thus encourage certain treatment- is truly bad news.
Most certainly for other women who do not want to lower their standards to that level.

So many have fought to be equal and have equal rights, but looks like we're a far cry removed from that. These women ensure that we're still nothing more than eye-candy and lust objects.

I think that as long as women aren't able to step into sisterhood, we won't get equality.
Most behave like children with boobs in a competition to be the sexiest, most popular and so on.

We have to stop competing and develop self-love and self-respect as opposed to dimming our Light.



Don's photo
Mon 07/28/25 07:16 AM
You are describing women who are using their sexuality to get what they want. This pleases everyone except those whose antique standards are used to oppress women.

soufiehere's photo
Mon 07/28/25 08:42 AM
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We have to stop competing and develop self-love and self-respect as opposed to dimming our Light.

Same thing for female singers, seems they have to
get half naked anymore to attract enough
attention just to sing..think Miley Cyrus,
Taylor Swift.
Why?
The voice improve with a draft?

motowndowntown's photo
Mon 07/28/25 04:12 PM
Women who post, "hey look down my blouse, or up my skirt" type photos are usually scammers or ads for porn sites.

Women who have to put their azz on display to fill concert halls are usually mediocre singers backed up by over produced music.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Mon 07/28/25 04:15 PM

...
We have to stop competing and develop self-love and self-respect as opposed to dimming our Light.

Same thing for female singers, seems they have to
get half naked anymore to attract enough
attention just to sing..think Miley Cyrus,
Taylor Swift.
Why?
The voice improve with a draft?

rofl rofl rofl rofl

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Mon 07/28/25 04:15 PM

Women who post, "hey look down my blouse, or up my skirt" type photos are usually scammers or ads for porn sites.

Women who have to put their azz on display to fill concert halls are usually mediocre singers backed up by over produced music.

Me thinks you are right.

no photo
Mon 07/28/25 04:17 PM
Edited by Toodygirl5 on Mon 07/28/25 04:24 PM
FB is not the best for dating. IMO

Many sites have women that post photos of all kinds of dress styles that shows nakedness. Men are looking for that Online.

The Widower guy I am dating always asked for photo and I told him I am not in the habit of posting my pictures on the internet or phones.
WE did Not meet online, I knew of him Yrs. ago in my Town.

He is a Older gentleman and Old men Online do about the same as many Younger men.

He probably got many Women in his phone now after Being a Widower for a fews years. But he is Tall and good looking Older man and Women would be attracted to him.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Mon 07/28/25 04:17 PM

You are describing women who are using their sexuality to get what they want. This pleases everyone except those whose antique standards are used to oppress women.

So what are you saying? You have antique standards? Or are you one of the perves who loves such photos?
Not certain, but it doesn't sound you understand the point I was making.