i dont know whats wrong with these women..i CAN NOT be with a jerk...i like a sweet sensitive, warm, sexy man..now i dont want someone thats gonna fall all over me constantly..thats coDependacy..i dont want that..just an understanding, honest person..

SexyKlp:

Maybe you don't give a man a chance and that's why you haven't run across a bad guy? I'd rather have tried by given someone a chance...versus assuming they are rotten from the start.

i can ususally tell what a guy is like right away..just had a date the other nite..he came across very cocky..needless to say i wont date him again..i've had plenty of bad guys in my life..and i choose not to have them. thank u

When women say, "I want a nice guy" what they MEAN in most cases is, "I want a confident, together guy that will treat me nicely."

Guys hear "nice" and do "Wussy" which is a turn-off for most women. we try to impress them and get them to like us... that's not what they mean...

They want to be treated nicely, with respect, and feel like you're somebody that they can respect.

What happens often, I think, is a jerk comes off as confident, which is attractive... but really they're just a jerk, and end up hurting the woman. So we here, "I want a nice guy."

Man, I should charge for this stuff! LOL...

You've had alot of bad guys in your life so you choose to judge the rest of them? All cocky guys are bad?I don't know but that sounds like the judgemental attitude that belongs with the badguy. Whatever though the less chance for men that women give the more that come to my side.

Preferences can sometimes sabotage your lovelife because there is something as being to picky. Man or women whoever I end up with its just WHO I CHOOSE that is my other half(so to speek)but I would have to agree with the codependancy comment.

Well said. Some of us have had horrible men, kept going back for more, and then realized what created the whole pattern to begin with.
Some of us have learned and have finally found a "nice guy". Wimps and woosies, are VERY different. I had one of those too. I want to be treated with respect and courtesy, as well as give the same....that's what we all want. Each of us, not just woman.

Well, woman don't want to know it all right away... .Mystery and a bit of a challenge keeps it exciting.....mix it up a little keep a woman guessing.........

All I get is the itty bitty willy club and the pizza delivery guys from hell... I want a nice man that I can take home to my rents and must like my children and doberman. I want someone who is freaky kinky like me in the bedroom that likes adventure, I hate sex in the house..Someone that understands my career and will have patience and understanding..When the cards fall that they will be there to help me pick them up....
The hardest thing is , having to tell someone I'm leaving for 2 years and honestly expect them to stay and be happy....I respect people to much to drag someone into that, so it's friends for the momement....

ok...the term "nice guy" is not one thing or one "type" of a guy. There are just as many different women as there are "nice guys".Each and every woman is an individual...like all men are individuals. What one woman will see as a "nice guy" every other woman will see something different.We as men try so hard from hearing that crap all the time, and constantly try to be that "image" of a nice guy.What men need to understand is that what they are really saying is that they want a "nice" guy...one that carries the qualities, naturally, and consistantly, that she is attracted to and can work with.Which is an extremely difficult thing to do.

they do want nice guys
only most still go to those jerk bad guys

Ok, the truth is we want a "nice guy" as long as he dresses really, really "naughty"...ok???

I want a nice guy but he has to be able to stand up for me and not be a push over

mmmm
your dreamy!

Don't go classifying us all in one category... "GIRLS"... hmmm... maybe the problme is that you are dating GIRLS and not WOMEN. Some of us know how to treat our men, and how appreciate a good guy when we have one.

It goes both ways, I have a daughter who eats pushover guys for lunch and dinner. She is pretty and the guys just lose it over her You have to look for more than just looks in a girl or guy or you set yourself up to be screwed without lub, know what I mean?

And yes, I try to tell her it is bad to be that way and that karma is going to get her in the end, but she says guys just make too easy for her.

This subject has been talked to DEATH!! It's moldy

you are right

some girls are just too naughty
and then when they are hurt and learned their lesson
they start lookin for us good guys

i go by clark gable's quote in gone with tha wind

"frankly my dear i dont give a dayum!"

the only thing I know is that we cannot generalize
everybody deserves the benefit of the doubt