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Topic: Girls Want Nice guys .....yea right?
lonelyshorty Joined Mon 10/15/07 Posts: 4737	Fri 01/04/08 05:35 PM
Can anyone give you a make over to look like a lady, instead of a tom-boy??? now I am confused by you.... No...all I was doing, was sterotyping YOU OUT for the way you dressed....and like the way you sterotyped ME OUT FIRST...for my spelling. Doesn't it feel good to be sterotyped out with your own medicine back on you??? See we all have feelings and faults. So NOBODY should be using their weaknesses or faults against nobody. Understand now???Treat others the way YOU wish to be treated in return and I will treat you with dignity also. first of all are you talking to twitch? because im confused. Secondly yes you can give a tom boy a make over to look like a lady. My sister is a totally tom boy but yet she spends more time in the bathroom than I do getting ready.

handymanbill Joined Mon 12/24/07 Posts: 232	Fri 01/04/08 05:35 PM
Can anyone give you a make over to look like a lady, instead of a tom-boy??? now I am confused by you.... No...all I was doing, was sterotyping YOU OUT for the way you dressed....and like the way you sterotyped ME OUT FIRST...for my spelling. Doesn't it feel good to be sterotyped out with your own medicine back on you??? See we all have feelings and faults. So NOBODY should be using their weaknesses or faults against nobody. Understand now???Treat others the way YOU wish to be treated in return and I will treat you with dignity also. Chuck366: read my latest comment above please!

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Fri 01/04/08 05:36 PM
Can anyone give you a make over to look like a lady, instead of a tom-boy??? now I am confused by you.... No...all I was doing, was sterotyping YOU OUT for the way you dressed....and like the way you sterotyped ME OUT FIRST...for my spelling. Doesn't it feel good to be sterotyped out with your own medicine back on you??? See we all have feelings and faults. So NOBODY should be using their weaknesses or faults against nobody. Understand now???Treat others the way YOU wish to be treated in return and I will treat you with dignity also. are you talking to me? That photo was taken after I climbed Crazy Horse. I could hardly climb it in an evening gown. And no one is stereotyping you - it is apparent that you can't spell.

handymanbill Joined Mon 12/24/07 Posts: 232	Fri 01/04/08 05:37 PM
Question hikerchick: Do you take quick 5 minute showers??? I'm just curious to know???

Twitch Joined Thu 09/27/07 Posts: 6199	Fri 01/04/08 05:37 PM
I'm so confused -- we were all just getting along

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Fri 01/04/08 05:38 PM
Question hikerchick: Do you take quick 5 minute showers??? I'm just curious to know??? Why - do you want to shower with me?

jrw2377 Joined Thu 01/03/08 Posts: 2	Fri 01/04/08 05:39 PM
This is an interesting yet old topic. Generalizing any group is always a bad start as there are always exceptions and I doubt anyone has dated enough to get an accurate sampling to come to any conclusion. Typically people (men and women) tend to go for the same types over and over (i.e. make the same mistakes). It is not the people you pick to date that are the problem, it is that you pick the wrong people. Break the chain of mistakes and try a different type. And yes as many have said, be yourself. If you want someone for a long term relationship and you attract their attention by being someone else, then you will need to keep being someone else to keep them. Be yourself and stick with the ones who like and accept you for who you are. If you're in it for the short term, lie and be whoever she want you to be.

chuck366 Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 4666	Fri 01/04/08 05:39 PM Edited by chuck366 on Fri 01/04/08 05:41 PM
Can anyone give you a make over to look like a lady, instead of a tom-boy??? now I am confused by you.... No...all I was doing, was sterotyping YOU OUT for the way you dressed....and like the way you sterotyped ME OUT FIRST...for my spelling. Doesn't it feel good to be sterotyped out with your own medicine back on you??? See we all have feelings and faults. So NOBODY should be using their weaknesses or faults against nobody. Understand now???Treat others the way YOU wish to be treated in return and I will treat you with dignity also. Chuck366: read my latest comment above please! I apologize, your right, It was insensitive, Sorry BUT i think you are targeting the wrong person

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Fri 01/04/08 05:40 PM
This is an interesting yet old topic. Generalizing any group is always a bad start as there are always exceptions and I doubt anyone has dated enough to get an accurate sampling to come to any conclusion. Typically people (men and women) tend to go for the same types over and over (i.e. make the same mistakes). It is not the people you pick to date that are the problem, it is that you pick the wrong people. Break the chain of mistakes and try a different type. And yes as many have said, be yourself. If you want someone for a long term relationship and you attract their attention by being someone else, then you will need to keep being someone else to keep them. Be yourself and stick with the ones who like and accept you for who you are. If you're in it for the short term, lie and be whoever she want you to be. We have a winner!!!!!

handymanbill Joined Mon 12/24/07 Posts: 232	Fri 01/04/08 05:40 PM
hikerchick: that's why I'm asking you first if you take 5 minute showers??? Then I will answer your question...

kidatheart70 Joined Sun 04/08/07 Posts: 6234	Fri 01/04/08 05:41 PM
Beat this topic to death for a little while longer!

lonelyshorty Joined Mon 10/15/07 Posts: 4737	Fri 01/04/08 05:41 PM
finally we know what we are talking about.

Twitch Joined Thu 09/27/07 Posts: 6199	Fri 01/04/08 05:42 PM Edited by Twitch on Fri 01/04/08 05:43 PM
This is an interesting yet old topic. Generalizing any group is always a bad start as there are always exceptions and I doubt anyone has dated enough to get an accurate sampling to come to any conclusion. Typically people (men and women) tend to go for the same types over and over (i.e. make the same mistakes). It is not the people you pick to date that are the problem, it is that you pick the wrong people. Break the chain of mistakes and try a different type. And yes as many have said, be yourself. If you want someone for a long term relationship and you attract their attention by being someone else, then you will need to keep being someone else to keep them. Be yourself and stick with the ones who like and accept you for who you are. If you're in it for the short term, lie and be whoever she want you to be. He happens to be right Besides Texas started this and he's nowhere to be found

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Fri 01/04/08 05:43 PM
hikerchick: that's why I'm asking you first if you take 5 minute showers??? Then I will answer your question... If it is any of your business, I wear skirts and dresses and jewelry and make up every day. But not when I am climbing mountains.

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Fri 01/04/08 05:43 PM
How are you Twitch, haven't seen you for a while.

handymanbill Joined Mon 12/24/07 Posts: 232	Fri 01/04/08 05:44 PM
Yes, we we're getting all along until hikerchick and another person in this post. Sterotyped me out for my earlier typing skills. So I just returned her own medicine back unto her, now she don't like it. But I'm just dishing out what she served me first. So what about the guy who made this post??? Aren't any ladies going to give him a shot at friendship or not???

Twitch Joined Thu 09/27/07 Posts: 6199	Fri 01/04/08 05:45 PM
How are you Twitch, haven't seen you for a while. Hi Totage just been havin a rough couple of weeks; haven't been on much. But I'm gettin better. Hope your New Year is good one.

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Fri 01/04/08 05:46 PM
Yes, we we're getting all along until hikerchick and another person in this post. Sterotyped me out for my earlier typing skills. So I just returned her own medicine back unto her, now she don't like it. But I'm just dishing out what she served me first. So what about the guy who made this post??? Aren't any ladies going to give him a shot at friendship or not??? I was not dishing anything. I have not had a single confrontation with anyone on here yet. I simply could not read what you wrote. Forgive me.

Twitch Joined Thu 09/27/07 Posts: 6199	Fri 01/04/08 05:47 PM
Yes, we we're getting all along until hikerchick and another person in this post. Sterotyped me out for my earlier typing skills. So I just returned her own medicine back unto her, now she don't like it. But I'm just dishing out what she served me first. So what about the guy who made this post??? Aren't any ladies going to give him a shot at friendship or not??? Already did babe -- no reply

handymanbill Joined Mon 12/24/07 Posts: 232	Fri 01/04/08 05:47 PM
hikerchick: Ok...so I guess you DO dress like a lady then, correct??? But how was I suppose to know about that looking at your picture. As you looked at my typing skills. So now we are even aren't we now??? Now since you know nothing about my trade skills as I don't know about your rock climbing skills. So just remember....YOU was using my typing skills against me, just keep that in mind???