Topic: Girls Want Nice guys .....yea right?
katrina_4888's photo
Fri 01/04/08 12:43 AM


some women out there can be just as bad as they say us men are. I think its a matter of making a wise choice and studying the person before going in head first. Not all women or men are alike.

well put
i concur. and if i see another "why do women..." or "why do men..." thread i just might flip....:wink:

Johnny845's photo
Fri 01/04/08 12:46 AM
shouldn't that tell you someting about that woman? You have some women that have been abused as children and grow up thinking its a way of life. I f you do not abuse these type of women then you are not the man for them.

JaceKnows's photo
Fri 01/04/08 12:46 AM
True story: Met a girl that said she LOVED it when a guy played guitar for her. Our 7th... SEVENTH date, not the first one, went out, had a nice dinner...ended up down at the lake, had a nice night, sang her every song she requested.. two days later, told me she was going out with a guy she met on AOL because he flew into Chicago and was stuck at the airport and didn't have enough money to get up to Wisconsin to see her! Are you FU*CKING kidding me?? So yeah, women, keep dating rotten shi*ts. I'm better off without her, right? (=

Gams's photo
Fri 01/04/08 12:48 AM
"I think its a matter of making a wise choice and studying the person before going in head first."

Very wise Statement!!!!!

Personally, I love nice guys (Nice does not equate to whimp)....THEY ROCK!!!!!! :smile:

lookingformrright8's photo
Fri 01/04/08 12:49 AM
Right now IDC i just want the one!

Johnny845's photo
Fri 01/04/08 12:49 AM
you got it!

Oneder's photo
Fri 01/04/08 12:49 AM
Yeah right everybody hates the nice guy because he makes everyone else look like a jack a**

katrina_4888's photo
Fri 01/04/08 12:49 AM

True story: Met a girl that said she LOVED it when a guy played guitar for her. Our 7th... SEVENTH date, not the first one, went out, had a nice dinner...ended up down at the lake, had a nice night, sang her every song she requested.. two days later, told me she was going out with a guy she met on AOL because he flew into Chicago and was stuck at the airport and didn't have enough money to get up to Wisconsin to see her! Are you FU*CKING kidding me?? So yeah, women, keep dating rotten shi*ts. I'm better off without her, right? (=
right! i hope there was more to the story, cuz that seems kinda heartless. although, i'm personally a sucker for musicians...

cbaldwinjr's photo
Fri 01/04/08 12:50 AM

There are nice guys....woo hoo
Then there are NEEDY guys.....needy and insecure are the things women usually run from.... just my opinion!


Well put. Just very hard to be very secure without being cocky when you are the person doing ALL the pursuing. As Chris Rock says, "It's easy for women to say no, you've been gettin' offered sex since you were 13 years old" LMAO. To the original poster, nice doesn't equal simple. Be a challenge man. I'm no Dr. Phil...but I'll state the obvious like he does anyway: step away and figure out WHAT you are first. Once you do that, it's a matter of mastering it. That way, you don't have to be a scuzzy lying sack of **** like most of these guys that women TALK about are. You can still be nice...you just have to make your version of nice interesting. I should've majored in something else...

katrina_4888's photo
Fri 01/04/08 12:50 AM

Yeah right everybody hates the nice guy because he makes everyone else look like a jack a**
uh...i don't hate the nice guy...am i not part of "everybody"? i feel so left out...frown

lookingformrright8's photo
Fri 01/04/08 12:51 AM
i can honestly say that i do not hate anyone, and nice guys aren't jackarses!

JaceKnows's photo
Fri 01/04/08 12:51 AM


right! i hope there was more to the story, cuz that seems kinda heartless. although, i'm personally a sucker for musicians...


Yeah, that's what SHE said.. <laughing>

lookingformrright8's photo
Fri 01/04/08 12:51 AM
im not part of everyboy either im me!

Johnny845's photo
Fri 01/04/08 12:52 AM
there's a fine line between being nice and being stupid.

lookingformrright8's photo
Fri 01/04/08 12:54 AM
right on!

no photo
Fri 01/04/08 12:54 AM
i guess its time to buy guitar hero three and get a practicin ...twang twang twang tweeeeeeeeeek damn plastic guitars

katrina_4888's photo
Fri 01/04/08 12:58 AM

i guess its time to buy guitar hero three and get a practicin ...twang twang twang tweeeeeeeeeek damn plastic guitars

ooooooh, can i play? pleeeease? bigsmile

Sweet_Lea_Evil's photo
Fri 01/04/08 01:01 AM

you can ask anyone i know im no where near insecure, proud of who i am and what i am but what i meant by being nice was take for example my last relationship I went out with a girl she cheated on me and the guy bragged to a friend of mine that she was cheating on me with him she begs me not to do some unpleasant things to him so oblige bout a year later she comes back to me after i help her get rid of the abusive prick and she leads me around like a love sick puppy only to toss me aside when she found some hippy that plays the guitar. even to this day thoe she cant find anything better then when i took her muddin on back roads.


Some women (and I use that term loosely for them) just get a kick out of seeing how far a man will jump for them. She knew you would do anything for her. She made a poor choice of an abusive guy...hmmm "I know Texas will help me!" poof there you were! you doted on her and made such a fuss until BLAM! musician steps into the picture.... The girl don't know what she wants! You are too good for her. take what feelings you have for her and toss 'em out the window onto that muddy road and find someone you deserve!

Johnny845's photo
Fri 01/04/08 01:01 AM
i want to add to what Larry quoted: be yourself, we attract who we are.

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Fri 01/04/08 09:22 AM
Edited by RomanticSoul on Fri 01/04/08 09:24 AM
Women get crapped on too. I mistakenly gave an over the road truck driver a chance and that a huge mistake!! The guy deserves to be married to his hand. Maybe not all truckers are that bad, but it taught me well, that's for sure, and I will never date one again. The best thing to do is to pick up the pieces of your heart and try again. Not all people are bad, but we sure need to flush the turds. flowerforyou laugh