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Topic: Would You Date A Woman That Is Dating A Lot Of Different Men
Martha 's photo
Sat 10/14/23 06:02 AM
That's madness
She is not ready for you just open your eyes

music717's photo
Sat 10/14/23 10:58 AM
Yes I would.

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Sat 10/14/23 12:20 PM


Hmmm. Iā€™m confused. Is this the same woman you talked about in your other thread? If so, you stated that the relationship ended after 4 dates.


I was thinking the same thing! How expensive could this place be - when he's too cheap to buy a drink



:smile:


Oh my goodness!

soufiehere's photo
Sat 10/14/23 01:41 PM

She seems a wee young for early onset of
Alzheimer's. Paying the bill alone should
spark a memory.

You are just a number buddy. Albeit one
with cash.

Patrick 's photo
Sun 10/15/23 09:39 PM

I've been seeing a girl that I met on Match. com, and things are going well. We've gone out on four dates, and we're both taking things at a comfortable pace. We haven't been intimate in any way and I'm okay with that. Our dates have all been at nice restaurants, and I always pay the bill.

I find her attractive and I know that many men are interested in dating her. On our last date, I shared with her how much I enjoyed the fancy restaurant and the walk afterward on our last date. However, she appeared confused and said, "Did you really take me to that restaurant?" I confirmed the date and time, but she still seemed unsure. She told me that many men had taken her to that restaurant before, but she didn't realize I had taken her there too.

I guess this is a problem dating a woman that is dating a lot of men. She doesn't remember any special time.

No date till she gives it up.

no photo
Sun 10/15/23 10:40 PM
if mutual affection isn't good so that's it. can't complain about the weather if you go out and get wet.

Lovely Ramii 's photo
Wed 10/18/23 05:06 AM
Like Etsin said on the other thread, these stories are probably not true.
You never really bother to return to the threads you have started and with each new post these scenarios are beginning to sound rather tall. šŸ§:expressionless:

ohh it is true buddy

no photo
Tue 10/24/23 11:33 AM
Like Etsin said on the other thread, these stories are probably not true.
You never really bother to return to the threads you have started and with each new post these scenarios are beginning to sound rather tall. šŸ§:expressionless:

Hey, I see your hobbies and interest. Let's talk.

Suzan Pretty's photo
Sun 12/10/23 10:42 AM
I've been seeing a girl that I met on Match. com, and things are going well. We've gone out on four dates, and we're both taking things at a comfortable pace. We haven't been intimate in any way and I'm okay with that. Our dates have all been at nice restaurants, and I always pay the bill.

I find her attractive and I know that many men are interested in dating her. On our last date, I shared with her how much I enjoyed the fancy restaurant and the walk afterward on our last date. However, she appeared confused and said, "Did you really take me to that restaurant?" I confirmed the date and time, but she still seemed unsure. She told me that many men had taken her to that restaurant before, but she didn't realize I had taken her there too.

I guess this is a problem dating a woman that is dating a lot of men. She doesn't remember any special time.

You are right

no photo
Sat 12/30/23 03:05 PM
On Your Next Date with Her
Take Her on a Long Walk on a Short Pier. bigsmile


Sandy Snyder's photo
Sat 12/30/23 08:00 PM

I've been seeing a girl that I met on Match. com, and things are going well. We've gone out on four dates, and we're both taking things at a comfortable pace. We haven't been intimate in any way and I'm okay with that. Our dates have all been at nice restaurants, and I always pay the bill.

I find her attractive and I know that many men are interested in dating her. On our last date, I shared with her how much I enjoyed the fancy restaurant and the walk afterward on our last date. However, she appeared confused and said, "Did you really take me to that restaurant?" I confirmed the date and time, but she still seemed unsure. She told me that many men had taken her to that restaurant before, but she didn't realize I had taken her there too.

I guess this is a problem dating a woman that is dating a lot of men. She doesn't remember any special time.

Give it a shot to explore your fantasy

oldkid46's photo
Wed 06/19/24 06:19 PM
I would have no problem "dating" a woman that had dates with others. That being said, I am not a resource when she would want to go out to dinner unless there was something in it for me. If you are going to date multiple people, be prepared to pay your share of the cost.

SparklingCrystal šŸ’–šŸ’Ž's photo
Thu 06/20/24 02:55 AM
So I guess I'm the only one who thinks that he's not offering anything special in this kind of scenario.

Many dating coaches advise women to date multiple men because women tend to attach too early, even to toxic or unavailable men, and there are tons of those out there.
Then a woman ends up being stuck and getting hurt as she's bonded to such a man who isn't intended on committing or anything serious. He just wants to string her along for as long as it pleases him.

Hence the advice to not put all your eggs in 1 basket, and to date more than 1 guy. Basically to prevent yourself from getting prematurely attached and hurt.

Men don't bond so easily so this advice does not go for men.
If a man dates several women the advice is to not date him.

Men always knee-jerk when they hear this, but simply fact is that men & women are wired differently and thus our emotions & attachment works entirely differently as well.

As for this OP and what he describes... I was already getting bored reading it.
Now there is of course a possibility that she's just taking advantage of a man like the OP not offering anything of interest, and going for a free meal.
But dating is about doing fun stuff, getting to know each other, not just meals in a restaurant. Bloody boring!
Offer to do something different. If she doesn't want that, she's not into you, but into a free meal.

It's also weird that you are okay with things not progressing, no kissing even?
Why are YOU dating someone with whom you don't even feel chemistry? That to me would be a major red flag.
Are you lonely and only looking for reasonably cheap company? Something that gets you out of the house?

oldkid46's photo
Thu 06/20/24 07:31 AM
"If a man dates several women the advice is to not date him. "
This would only apply if your entire goal of dating is to find a man for a long term, committed relationship; what I refer to as "husband hunting". Some of us are not interested in returning to anything resembling married life!!

no photo
Mon 07/22/24 12:22 PM
Sound like escort but i'll still tell you this maybe you've not meet the right person yet

exactly

Magnus Mawet's photo
Fri 07/26/24 06:45 AM
Hmmm. Iā€™m confused. Is this the same woman you talked about in your other thread? If so, you stated that the relationship ended after 4 dates.

I'm here in search of my other part

Jaan Doh 's photo
Fri 07/26/24 10:50 AM

On Your Next Date with Her
Take Her on a Long Walk on a Short Pier. bigsmile




:joy: šŸ¤£ šŸ¤£

Dalton's photo
Fri 07/26/24 11:32 AM
Is anyone in Kenya here please?

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