I've been seeing a girl that I met on Match. com, and things are going well. We've gone out on four dates, and we're both taking things at a comfortable pace. We haven't been intimate in any way and I'm okay with that. Our dates have all been at nice restaurants, and I always pay the bill.

I find her attractive and I know that many men are interested in dating her. On our last date, I shared with her how much I enjoyed the fancy restaurant and the walk afterward on our last date. However, she appeared confused and said, "Did you really take me to that restaurant?" I confirmed the date and time, but she still seemed unsure. She told me that many men had taken her to that restaurant before, but she didn't realize I had taken her there too.

I guess this is a problem dating a woman that is dating a lot of men. She doesn't remember any special time.