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Topic: Being black/african a crime?
Von's photo
Sun 06/12/22 08:57 AM
I observed despite being real in chat conversations with people online,on mentioning that you are black or Africa..what follows next is goodbye...sometimes ends with abusive words

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Sun 06/12/22 09:09 AM
Remove the negative vibes first.
Stay positive.
Don't focus on what other says or does.. See what's your ability in doing the right thing up.

Chill Up..
All The Best :thumbsup:

motowndowntown's photo
Sun 06/12/22 09:14 AM
Folks who do that aren't worth chatting with anyway. Chat with people who have at least half a brain.

Laska Paul 's photo
Sun 06/12/22 09:17 AM


Hmmmmmmmm , Nyc...!

SparklingCrystal πŸ’–πŸ’Ž's photo
Sun 06/12/22 09:22 AM
Thanks for informing us.
Now what do you want us to say? No context, no nothing.
If you have a real question then ask that and give context.
As a tip: sounds like you're trying to get a white woman. Why is that? What's wrong with a black woman?
No need to reply here, just something to ponder.

Larsi666 😽's photo
Sun 06/12/22 10:48 AM
Being a bad person is a crime, and bigotry is a crime.

I met many people in my life time. And there is good ones, and bad ones, regardless of the colour of the skin.

Von's photo
Sun 06/12/22 10:53 AM
Remove the negative vibes first.
Stay positive.
Don't focus on what other says or does.. See what's your ability in doing the right thing up.

Chill Up..
All The Best :thumbsup:

Mr.RΕ‘bin please can you reply to SparklingCrystal on what you quoted on the forum " ANYONE LOOKING FOR....

maybwecan's photo
Sun 06/12/22 10:53 AM
Edited by maybwecan on Sun 06/12/22 10:57 AM

I observed despite being real in chat conversations with people online,on mentioning that you are black or Africa..what follows next is goodbye...sometimes ends with abusive words


Welcome to Mingle..

I note you use the word observation rather than personal experience...If i am not mistaken, the private messaging between two users is not something open to a third party to observe, and the forum is definitely not the same as private chats between users...Puzzled therefore how your observations can include private chatting here...

The name of your country based on your profile is for a non-African country which is more than 80% white and which offers access to many many online dating sites, I am curious why your experience seems very limited...Please correct me if I am in error.

by the way, your profile in my opinion will not grab the attention of many women here...you should put in the time to make it better..

have a nice day

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Sun 06/12/22 11:04 AM
Edited by Unknow on Sun 06/12/22 11:16 AM
Mr.RΕ‘bin please can you reply to SparklingCrystal on what you quoted on the forum " ANYONE LOOKING FOR....

If you kept following what someone said or quoted, you will never raise up.
Ignore those, an first have confidence in self, you know yourself well.

An stop making a films like the others, over here.. :slight_smile:
Good Luck :ok_hand:

Dodo_David's photo
Sun 06/12/22 11:44 AM
"Africa" is the name of a continent.

An African is a native of the continent of Africa.

South Africa is a nation on the continent of Africa.

Plenty of natives of South Africa are white.

Thus, it is incorrect to automatically equate "African" with "Black".

SparklingCrystal πŸ’–πŸ’Ž's photo
Sun 06/12/22 11:46 AM

Remove the negative vibes first.
Stay positive.
Don't focus on what other says or does.. See what's your ability in doing the right thing up.

Chill Up..
All The Best :thumbsup:

Mr.RΕ‘bin please can you reply to SparklingCrystal on what you quoted on the forum " ANYONE LOOKING FOR....

If you have something to say or ask surely you can do so yourself. Siding with the forum scammer won't be very helpful.

Like I said before, and Maybewecan too, we have no context to place your remark in.
You can have a kneejerk reaction when someone point that out to you but it would be handier if you gave more context, provided you want us to give feedback.
Seriously no need to kneejerk-react to a genuine response that gives you info on how your OP comes across: vague.


Larsi666 😽's photo
Sun 06/12/22 01:18 PM

"Africa" is the name of a continent.

An African is a native of the continent of Africa.

South Africa is a nation on the continent of Africa.

Plenty of natives of South Africa are white.

Thus, it is incorrect to automatically equate "African" with "Black".


^^^ Signed ^^^

maybwecan's photo
Sun 06/12/22 01:44 PM


"Africa" is the name of a continent.

An African is a native of the continent of Africa.

South Africa is a nation on the continent of Africa.

Plenty of natives of South Africa are white.

Thus, it is incorrect to automatically equate "African" with "Black".


^^^ Signed ^^^


According to his profile, he is located in il Marsa...that name on a net search identifies a city/town on the island of Malta (which is identified as a European country)...

Von's photo
Sun 06/12/22 03:38 PM
If you kept following what someone said or quoted, you will never raise up.
Ignore those, an first have confidence in self, you know yourself well.

An stop making a films like the others, over here.. :slight_smile:
Good Luck :ok_hand:

:ok_hand:perfect

leonie's photo
Mon 06/13/22 02:50 AM
I live in England, we seem to have more Poles Africans than Anglo saxons, you know what there mostvery thing ly good people, race is not a real issue in the southwest, unless your Scotish, they call every one Ken for some reason.

Ignore people like that, there not worth your time and effort, but dont let it get to you, then they win. Find good people, some one to love, and ignore else.

Have a nice day. leona

delightfulillusion's photo
Mon 06/13/22 02:57 AM

unless your Scotish, they call every one Ken for some reason.


Untrue. They call everyone Jimmy.

Ken is a slang word for β€˜know’.

TxsGal3333's photo
Mon 06/13/22 03:19 AM

I observed despite being real in chat conversations with people online,on mentioning that you are black or Africa..what follows next is goodbye...sometimes ends with abusive words


Humm lets get this straight first if you are chatting with someone and you don't have a picture up, that is the only way that they would not know what color someone is.

Therefore is that being a bit dishonest. Not all women date men of color even in this day and time...

Just like if someone is bi if they are not honest from the start and the other person is not bi the same problem will occur.

Heck I have known some that quit talking to someone after seeing their pic and it was not the color of their skin but to find out they had rotten teeth...

It is not always the color or sexual nature that makes some move on it, is not being honest from the start..


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Mon 06/13/22 03:54 AM
Hi Von.. I agree with kristie ^^^^ online connections can be really fickle and end abruptly, even when seemingly going well . Honesty and transparency is always important . The chatting process is about establishing if a connection is worth pursuing . Sadly not every one you chat with will be kind or considerate.

I am sure you know that rejection (and lack of success) is commonplace on dating sites . Try not to over analyse , stay positive and keep making connections . Best of luck waving

leonie's photo
Mon 06/13/22 05:15 AM
I know we have enough of em so that every one knows. The real problem comes when they call you some thing you do not under stand, then you have to guess if you should kiss or kick em.

leona

chiku's photo
Mon 06/13/22 05:26 AM
hii
all i m single looking for a good friend:blush:

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