Topic: How freaky are you??
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Thu 03/24/22 08:11 PM
At what point of the relationship is it ok to tell your partner how kinky you like to be in the bedroom??? The beginning when you start dating or when your getting it on and your like let's try this!! I'm just really curious what the answers are going to be!!

motowndowntown's photo
Thu 03/24/22 10:03 PM
I would think you would want to discuss your proclivities for "kink" with any potential partner BEFORE bringing out the handcuffs, whips, hot wax, or alien size toys. Not many folks like those kind of surprises in the bedroom.

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Thu 03/24/22 10:34 PM
:alien::alien:
:popcorn::popcorn:

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Thu 03/24/22 10:52 PM
being “turned off “ can happen so easily and it can be enough to destroy a connection .

Before you unleash your kink .. it makes sense to be sure she shares your passion or is interested in exploring that with you . You can’t just dress in her a sexy wooly outfit and tell her to baa like a sheep .. she may be allergic to wool biggrin waving

Rod's photo
Fri 03/25/22 11:05 AM
Veryyyyy

TxsGal3333's photo
Fri 03/25/22 11:45 AM

being “turned off “ can happen so easily and it can be enough to destroy a connection .

Before you unleash your kink .. it makes sense to be sure she shares your passion or is interested in exploring that with you . You can’t just dress in her a sexy wooly outfit and tell her to baa like a sheep .. she may be allergic to wool biggrin waving


Spot on~~~

Really let them know prior so they don't get invested and find out what your interested in is a total turn off for them..

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Fri 03/25/22 04:48 PM

At what point of the relationship is it ok to tell your partner how kinky you like to be in the bedroom??? The beginning when you start dating or when your getting it on and your like let's try this!! I'm just really curious what the answers are going to be!!

I think no person is like another.
So I would feel it out, meet a few times before you get into the fun part. I guess that's normal anyway.
If you start talking about your kinks and preferences at the first or second date it might be over, not because of your kinks but because you seem to be only into that.

Rock's photo
Fri 03/25/22 06:42 PM
Yeppers...
Always best to announce early on,
rather than waiting years.



Perverts noway

Bossbodyguard's photo
Mon 03/28/22 12:23 AM
Pretty fu---- freaky, but it also depends on what the definition of Feaky is in this context right?

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Mon 03/28/22 02:25 AM
I've seen men mention it in their profile, saying they're into BDSM or are rather dominant/submissive in the bedroom etc.

Best solution would be to find someone on a dating site for BDSM.

If not online, do tell early on, before someone is invested emotionally. You don't have to be blunt. Find an easy-to-digest way of conveying it.