Dads, Practice please, Discipline, but without disheartening.

Discipline strengthens, and people like to be Strengthened, But Disheartening Weakens..
I believe Disheartening takes away the Discipline.

As far as I know, and see if you believe or know or Faith on this,..

Mothers should Mother Daughters,..

And Fathers, Fathering Sons.

Mothering a Son can cause...
Mental illness? Or all sorts of relationship problems.

Test this to be true,.. And you may find Faith like mine.

Love

You know, you are all good Parents, I think.

I don't agree with what I think you're saying.
I won't pick it apart. As we say, you live and learn :)

gone are the days when the daughters learnt to cook etc like the Mother . Now they just drink like the Father !!!

All of that might be great in a perfect world...

But we don't live in a perfect world where family's stay together where both parents are around all the time to help out..

Being a single mother that raised a son and a daughter from the time they were 9 & 10 pretty much on my own. I can assure you my son & I are actually closer then he is with his dad.. And he is not a mommy's boy he is all man..

Both girls and boys need their mothers/fathers for different things but one should never mother/father just one of the kids..

nah i am gonna say it, you have some very peculiar beliefs and a likewise way of conveying them.

I've been both mother and father to my son and daughter, and they are such well-behaved, good hearted teenagers. Their dad never played his part in raising them, even when we were still together. All he did was discipline by way of yelling, cursing, and putting them down.

I'm not saying I'm a perfect mother, but I think I'm doing pretty decent for a single mom.

So sad on the Dad side!!

There's a reason why it takes both sexes to make another human

when raising our 2 sons many times we would just be watching t.v. nice and behaved because Mom was around.. soon as she wasn't it was a pillow flying wrestling match.
I think both parents bring something unique to their sex to the table when raising kids.

I cant believe that you just implied that mental illness is caused by too much love and compassion for your son. Thats just offensive. Thats like telling a psyzophrenic they hear voices because their dad cared about them too much.

And the rest of it.. So archaic. Love compassion and discipline must be given the same for each child regardless of whats between there legs. If you raise your children to view male and female as equals they will have more respect for the opposite sex/gender.

Children need love compassion patience and tolerance. Especially if they have special needs.

(Im not trying to start anything but as a parent of two special needs children, i felt it neccessary)

I don't agree with what your saying . As I single parent and working mum, I've taught my boys to cook and had mess duty roaters up on the wall so each son was responsible for cooking dinner. I've also had to kick a ball around with them and give them driving lessons. Discipline comes from love and its significance and the principal behind it doesn't change weather it comes from a mother or a father. As a parent it's our duty to teach our children what is right and just.