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I'd be amazed (or maybe worried) if anyone ever wanted to go on a date with me......I don't have the problem of how or if people tell me they don't want a second date, as I've never got that far!l
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I'd be amazed (or maybe worried) if anyone ever wanted to go on a date with me......I don't have the problem of how or if people tell me they don't want a second date, as I've never got that far!l That’s because your prerequisites are unrealistic unfortunately. |
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After a first date, and it's not good for him, just end with it was nice to meet. I'd rather get no call and I'll take the hint.
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After a first date, and it's not good for him, just end with it was nice to meet. I'd rather get no call and I'll take the hint. I hear you on that, Cat! |
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I'd be amazed (or maybe worried) if anyone ever wanted to go on a date with me......I don't have the problem of how or if people tell me they don't want a second date, as I've never got that far!l I perved your profile, and I think you do seem a little jaded. You're good looking. But you seem like the get-off-my-lawn guy. 
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For me, any of the options you listed from 1 to 4 is good enough. If she explains her decision, that's an add-on, but I won't mind otherwise either!
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I prefer he tell me that he's smitten with me and can't wait to see me again. 
Lol, I'd rather not focus on how I'd like a guy to tell me he's not interested, especially when I'll be meeting someone for the first time in three and a half weeks. But in the remote chance that it might happen, I'd like to think my intuition is active and his as well, and we'll both know it within a few minutes, then can continue to enjoy the day as friends. I'm excited for your meet. I hope all goes well! We are rooting for you, River! 
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Ordinarily... I'd have tonnes of wiseazz quips.
But, I'm honestly hoping, that the next first date, is the last first date. I'd rather there be no rejection. |
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Ordinarily... I'd have tonnes of wiseazz quips. But, I'm honestly hoping, that the next first date, is the last first date. I'd rather there be no rejection. Wouldn't we all, my friend...wouldn't we all. |
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Either 3 or 4... it is pretty clear that there is no match when on a first meet and no mention of meeting again is established..
I would expect at the end of the meet, one or the other should say this was fun would you like to meet up and do something again?? |
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Edited by
Mark
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Sun 09/26/21 02:18 PM
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I'd be amazed (or maybe worried) if anyone ever wanted to go on a date with me......I don't have the problem of how or if people tell me they don't want a second date, as I've never got that far!l I'd like to see you succeed, that won't start until you rewrite your profile, you're openly advertising projected failure, start by changing your outlook, stop projecting failure and keep an open mind to the possibility of success. Put something positive on your profile, at the very least you're telling any potential prospects that you're "not worth" the time... |
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I prefer he tell me that he's smitten with me and can't wait to see me again.
Lol, I'd rather not focus on how I'd like a guy to tell me he's not interested, especially when I'll be meeting someone for the first time in three and a half weeks. But in the remote chance that it might happen, I'd like to think my intuition is active and his as well, and we'll both know it within a few minutes, then can continue to enjoy the day as friends. I'm excited for your meet. I hope all goes well! We are rooting for you, River!
Thanks Bonnie
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I would like to know if it was the date, or the sex that turned her off. If it was the date then that is not an issue because after that we would just be hanging out. If it was the sex, well sometimes it is a little awkward the first time so think it would only be fair to give it a few more tries before she gives up on me.
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I would like to know if it was the date, or the sex that turned her off. If it was the date then that is not an issue because after that we would just be hanging out. If it was the sex, well sometimes it is a little awkward the first time so think it would only be fair to give it a few more tries before she gives up on me.
Yes, that WOULD be fair of her. 
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I guess it would be number 4. I don't need a reason, it's a relief more often than not.
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Ordinarily... I'd have tonnes of wiseazz quips. But, I'm honestly hoping, that the next first date, is the last first date. I'd rather there be no rejection. 
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^^^
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