You see these celeb & partner photos and the women often having cleavages that almost reach their navel.

Now apart from lusting over that stuff... if you as a man had a partner who did that in public, let's say for a party or whatever, not to the chip shop of course, how would you feel?
We're talking about the woman you love to bits here. Would you be okay with her having her boobs almost roll out of her gala dress for all to see?
Would you be okay with other guys' lecherous looks?
Would it make you feel proud?

Just wondering, cos I'm of course not a man, but I think if I was and my woman would do that I don't think I'd be very happy about it.

So how do you guys feel about this, if it was YOUR woman?
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If she was my woman and meant something to me , I would object off course , probably in vain , because women of today if they have it , they want to flaunt it .... especially if her S/O paid for them. So yeah , call me old fashioned ... but I would not want her to expose herself to half the world !!!

Providing it was tasteful and the occasion was right I would be OK with it, but would I really have a choice.

( If the boob job had cost a lot of money, I might even insist upon it. )

I can understand that, and I don't find it old fashioned.
Personally I find there are better ways to flaunt and set off your assets. I feel that a little less is much more. Like a nice bra under a blouse that's open just the right amount to maybe perhaps per chance allows for a wee bit of a peek, but only if she moves a certain way.

Wow, you surprise me!
I'm not sure if a man has a choice in such things to be honest.

I once saw the perfect cleavage , it was a major tease and left one wanting to see more... she was Sophia Loren .... way back in the day !!! But I remember it ....
The ones you see today , which leave nothing to the imagination, are ones you tend to forget, cause you know the ooze is silicone ...ha ha !!

I feel, it's about time and place.

If I met her and got to know her wearing an outfit like that, then no issue...

If she was more conservatively dressed when I met her, then started changing for parties and flirting with other men and not really discussing it with me, not okay...

personally, I like a little more cover and discreet showing of any assets. leave something to the imagination and when time, something to enjoy taking off her...

Me, I don't care.

I know how to guard a nice set. My ex had them. Not many guys ever wanted to mess around with me anyway. Some guys had tossed a few cracks at my then wife, then I walked up. Seemed like they shut up fast. A few left. One I yanked out of a chair and gave him a toss. Darn! I wanted to break his head, but he ran for his life.

Hi Crystal. I have heard a few men say they like showing off their women, (like a trophy), in real life.
A friend was out for dinner at a restaurant and a woman in a revealing dress had her boob fall out. There is that happenstance too.....

Exactly how I think about it.

I once did some investigating for writing my books and apparently the breasts men find close to perfect are the ones that have a beautiful top curve, like a ski slope going up near the end with the nipple, and the bottom is nicely rounded.
Cannot recall how exactly it was described, but something like that.
Most silicone boobs aren't even close to that although I guess some go for more natural looking and less pumped up silicone breasts.

Oh goodness, think of having that happen :o
And come to think of it... didn't something like that (almost) happen to one of the British royals, maybe even Diana years ago? As she was getting out of the car? I vaguely remember something like that.

I'm not gonna knock knockers.
But, they are called breasts for a reason.

If those puppies are sagging to the navel,
or below, maybe it's time for the woman
to consider wearing bras, and buttoning
her blouse.


WTF ever happened to modesty?
Especially, in public?!?!

There's a pro and con. The pro is the guys can look all they want but they have to realize that they are all mine. The con is there is no reason to get in a tiff about it because it would just lead to an argument if I would say don't do it. But I would have a non argumentative discussion about it.

I have a flat chest. I guess I can wear whatever I want.

If that's how she dresses, then that's how she dresses.

It would be different if all of our dates and all of our time spent together she was in hoodies and sweatpants, but when we go to a party or whatever and it's all of a sudden "look at mah bewbs! Give me attention!" then I'd have a problem.


IMO you kind of invalidate the question here.
If it's a woman I "love to bits here," and she's my "partner," then I would think it would be safe to assume that I'd already worked through whatever issue you're asking about.

Kinda like asking "if the woman you've been married to for 20 years is continuing to do the things she's always done for the past 20 years, would you have a problem with it now?"


If she's my "partner," and I "love her to bits here," then I probably wouldn't even really notice it or care that much.

If it indicates a change in dress or behavior, then I'd probably notice and care.

If we pretend that I don't love her to bits and she's not my partner and we're just dating then it depends on other factors too.
It would depend if I knew she was just dressing how she normally dresses for such things wearing the things she enjoys wearing and is comfortable wearing vs. choosing to wear something for some other reason (e.g. attention, competition, insecurity, manipulating others, fear of growing old, internet points, whatever)

typical American hang up with breasts. They are NOT sex organs people and the rest of the world knows that.

For your info they don't even hide them on most beaches in the world, most beaches women go topless if they so desire and no one thinks a thing about an infant latched to one eating.

In one word - NO! I find exhibitionism rude. Now, wot if my partner wants to, or does so? Well, I'll excuse myself from accompanying her to that event, PERIOD. Which is why, I have always been very particular in discussing such likes/dislikes at a very early stage in the dating.
Having said that, I am in no way being judgmental. I have no prejudice on anyone who loves to flaunt her cleavage!

What if a woman doesn't have cleavage?

Since when have men not seen breasts as sexual? Crystal is Dutch, I am from NZ, our cultures never refer to them as baby feeders. When I was in Papua New Guinea I never once saw an indigineous woman displaying hers, but I did not go up to the Highlands.
The rest of the world thinks accordingly to their culture, not according to your opinion.