In modern era every women immediately think of separation or atleast relation gets spolied if she notices her husband is cheating but in the past many queens accepted that their husband would cheat on them with mistresses..queens were also a poweful figure in state .
Women r very much possesive when it comes to relations so why queens did not get separted ..is this mean power is more lustful and it can keep u quiet and overcome ur possessivenes

Seems more like bullying/misogyny to me. Hell, she could get her head chopped off...repercussions for having an opion.

Maybe it was because it kept her free for a few knights.

Ummm... Yeah... Just no.

Sure.
But there's usually more to it than just "cheating."
I mean there's lying, manipulation, gaslighting, hiding, expending needed resources like money on other people, changes in behavior, attitudes, and communication.

It's not like everything's just normal and then a "oh, today was weird, they're doing construction at my office, the 'I' fell off the building, I moved to avoid it, and my penis slipped into another person for a second. I hope they finish work soon, I'm tired of parking in the far lot."


It wasn't really "cheating."
Kings and queens (the 1%'ers who lived lives by different social and legal rules) didn't really marry for Disney fairy tale love.


Women are possessive of their ego.
When someone, directly or implied, promises fidelity, monogamy, trust, love, etc., and then acts contrary to that, it causes extreme stress and insecurity.

People as a whole want consistency and security. Think about what makes people laugh, cry, and fear. Jump scares, contradictory messages, sarcasm or different opinions. They come to believe one thing, yet something else happens.

Women are more dependent upon social rules and structure, for society to be consistent. For what they believe will happen will continue to happen.

They aren't "possessive" of relationships, they are more affected when a relationship starts acting inconsistently to what it is believed to be.


Why didn't queens from hundreds to thousands of years ago not follow modern approaches to relationships?
Does this really need to be explained?


To some extent.
The richer/more powerful you are as a guy and disparately provide towards a stable, desired (by the woman) lifestyle, the more a woman will "keep quiet and overcome possessiveness," as the tangible benefits providing a stable environment outweigh the emotional turbulence.
But if it's possible for the woman to separate the two (e.g. divorce and take assets) and get rid of the stressor, the more likely she will do it.

There is a thought

Hello asim In medieval times unless the king was dead .. the queen really had little power . I am sure she had no choice but to accept his infidelity . In the era you are referring to any women who accused her husband of adultery would be accused of being a witch and burned at the stake . For a queen it was seen as treason and she would be thrown in a dungeon or beheaded . Society was very much controlled by men . It is ludicrous to make a comparison with modern day relationships .

In modern times .. power can influence how a partner behaves or reacts to infidelity .. however that cannot be generalised ... it comes down to individual willpower and circumstances .

Agree

Man cheats and woman is wrong. How Neanderthal.
Sad there are still men with such narrow-minded views.

Life as a woman Crystal ...Thankfully all men do not think like that.

I was reading an article before about a woman walking at night and she was assaulted. Some men blamed her for walking alone at night, despite whatever her circumstances were. No ownership for men being the problem.
I am actually about to walk lighted streets at night. Good luck to any man with bad intent. My voice is a rawww.

Hmm, and back home now. Only females were aggressive towards me. Messed up society on Friday nights here in NZ.

Yes, it's sad we still don't have a society that respects us and where we can be safe, whether alone in the street at night or during the day.
Makes me wonder if men can even imagine what it is like to live that way. On guard, afraid, putting up with catcalls, being ogled etc.
In that sense nothing much has changed over the years, or centuries even: we're still just lust objects to them.
I doubt they even think about the impact of their behaviour.

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Yeah, many women are lost in too much masculine energy due to living in a patriarchal society. Masculine energy is competition. The imbalanced inner Animus makes many women behave that way.

Personally I hate it. It's so far away from sisterhood, which is our natural state of being. When we experience sisterhood our stress levels drop, we feel good, supported etc. etc. '
Men get the same from (friendly) competition, for us it's the opposite.
But women like that is not limited to NZ. Plenty of 'em over here too, I think in every western country.
I try to steer clear of 'em whenever I can but when I go to the pub on my own I get to deal with them a lot, usually when they're with their bestie so they feel stronger since I'm alone.
Best remedy I discovered: ignore them completely. Takes about 15 mins if they're tenacious, then they do usually PO.
Nevertheless they're highly irritating.

I believe in sisterhood too. I ignored them. If they were not drunk, I may have taught them...

If you are suggesting that it should be acceptable for a man to commit adultery, then I doubt that you will find a receptive audience here.

Probs just an excuse to play the field...

So what is your suggestion for the educated and financially independent women of the modern day?

Like he will reply

LOLZ
When will the medieval mindset leave us! When will we educate our children, and not just churn out professionals from a mill!