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Most men 40+ yrs old can't even get it up well enough to please one woman. What would you want with multiple wives?

Question: do you have shares in Viagra?

Your photo is very girly, nothing masculine about it. Get another photo, and make it one of you face, with a smile.

Sub continent? What is that? Are we talking about mermaids?

And what does it matter why someone doesn't marry? Live your own life and find someone who is available and a good match.

As for the question... that was asked not that long ago too, either by you or someone else.
A number of people -incl me- said that in a country with arranged marriage they are likely happy to be free from the burden of having to get married. In such countries women usually are still expected to be subservient to their husband. Why voluntarily go there again? I wouldn't.
And if it was a marriage of love then people need time to heal from the loss.

And what say you??

Couldn't agree more! At least then we get our needs met, hahahaha.

Western society has destroyed the biblical marriage of multiple wives and replaced it with monogamy which clearly does not work. In ancient times and today in some countries this is the norm. Modern women must let go of this mindest and jealousy and see the bigger picture. Multiple people under one roof brings security on all levels from children to family business. Be part of something bigger than themselves, it's biblical

In my experience, what women say publicly about this and what they do privately are almost always the complete opposite.

Tried that once . She was the French maid and me the breadwinner ....
Ended in a little fight .... apparently she had a problem taking orders ... women , you try to please them ??!!

My husband and I had a lot of fun with role playing, of various types, and fantasies. Not sure how important it is to other couples, but it was important to us and added a lot to our lives.

Yes, I agreed both genders cheat. At some point, couples will take one another for granted. It takes 2 hands to clap and make the relationship works, get the sparks going everyday.

I think it's that sex is our animal instinct and maybe we are just meant to do whoever whenever we please. Be it man or woman, sex is pleasing, is it not? Are we not supposed to enjoy this one life we live. I say if people want to get as much pleasure in life. Then let them have their cake and eat it. If not someone else will be grateful for seconds!

NOt sure? You talking about Outlander?
Maybe the French king?
Not certain anymore as I didn't like the part in Paris / France much at all.

But if that's what you mean... nothing romantic about that?
Quite sad that rich people with power could make other people do such things. No respect whatsoever.

Not sure what you understand a romantic scene to be...

But much of the first season of Outlander, leading up to their marriage, was pretty damned romantic. Especially the wedding scene in the chapel.
The delicate tendrils of their budding feelings and connection... Almost tangible through the screen, so beautifully done!
Handfasting, which I totally LOVE.

I cannot think of anything that tops that to be honest.

Raquel Welch having a shower on the railway platform ... as she is about to take of the clothes... a train zips by ....I think I seen this movie 10 times, hoping one day, that train would be late ... !!!
The movie was "100 Rifles "..with Jim Brown!!