It is really confusing for me of how to have a proper conversation. I try to be as genuine and kind but still don't understand why the counterpart thinks of me being desperate for an intimate relationship.
it gets difficult to even then continue chatting. can there be steps for understanding one another. introduction-friendship-then to the limit where he or she allows.

Never approach them straight on. Instead, adopt a slanting crab-wise approach and speak to them diagonally from two feet away. Works every time .

Should it not be 2 metres?

You're right, I was forgetting about the two metre rule

1. Sneak up behind her.
2. Reach around and "honk" her boobies.


At least, that's what I've heard.

Oh you’re bad, so bad

I think it's easier for males to approach the opposite sex .. it's not easy as a woman to ask a man out

and I'd be super pissed...lol

I think if you just talk to a woman normally, then there wouldn't be a misunderstanding. If you bring up sexual things, then you're heading down the wrong path. That stuff should come up later and organically when you're well acquainted. That's my opinion, anyways.

Guys that start off saying I'm sexy/ beautiful usually don't stay in my pm's for long. I'm not looking for that type of relationship. I'd rather be loved for my personality, not only my appearance.

It's not rocket science. Just be in the moment. Put your phone in your pocket and take in your surroundings. If something to talk about doesn't present itself for you then you are simply too shy to be approaching women.

Just as an aside, they think you're desperate for intimacy because that's the vibe you put out. How about just talking to PEOPLE? Women are PEOPLE. If a woman thinks your ultimate reason for talking to her is because you want to stick your p*nis inside her then you're just another idiot.

Try just talking to her because you like her and are interested in what she has to say.

THIS^^^

"Hello chick don't think for one second that I am desperate to part your hair" then continue with the conversation , that should do the trick

I guess his confusion became too much for him, he deactivated.
Poor bastard.

hello Zeekay .. just in case you return .. i am sure you are not alone in your confusion . Being genuine and kind is a good start to any interaction. ., so too is honesty , trust and respect . . If your main agenda is intimacy .. that drive may colour your conversation , behaviour and body language . For example .. she tells you about her passion for quantum physics ., if your response is sexual or shows no interest in what she has shared ., it will be super apparent to her what your true intentions are . If you are genuinely interested in establishing friendship which may progress to physical intimacy, then you will listen , show interest in getting to know her and allow your connection with each other to develop .

Oh and Obviously .. ignore any crass advice which does nothing more than objectify women .

Best of luck

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Oh yeah and don't say stuff like "hey mooseface wanna grope".

"wanna get some pizza then make out -or aren't you hungry?"

Yah Idunno. I got no game.

I agree 100% with you young lady. I know that there are some women that like men to talk dirty to them and be disrespectful period but if a man truly wants to meet a nice lady then he has to be respectful and treat her with dignity . Think about it this way how would you want somebody to treat your mother or your sister . That should say it all talk to them with respect and kindness about different subjects. I don't like it when a guy comes on to me like hey beautiful or sexy or baby and they start talking dirty they don't last long in my box either I delete them usually pretty quickly. But somebody that talks to me with respect and honesty like a gentleman he'll have a better chance of winning my heart