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Topic: Commitment
Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14518	Tue 07/14/20 05:12 PM
Don't confuse friendship for in love. Actions speak louder than words.

Blondey111 Joined Sun 01/27/13 Posts: 8980	Tue 07/14/20 08:58 PM
Who is confused ??? Not something I have ever been confused about .

Duttoneer Joined Sun 07/01/12 Posts: 4698	Wed 07/15/20 01:45 AM
I'm confused, but it doesn't take much these days, it must be the lockdown.

ciretom Joined Wed 06/18/14 Posts: 4953	Wed 07/15/20 07:44 AM
Commitment To what? Don't confuse friendship for in love. Why not? And how do you tell the difference between "confusion" and "real." Especially if you withdraw and take the time to objectively measure, you will most likely lose both? Actions speak louder than words. Okay. How do you handle the problem with actions and/or words being misconstrued?

Seamus Joined Mon 07/15/19 Posts: 3365	Wed 07/15/20 07:49 AM
Isn't friendship a form of love, just not the erotic kind?

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14518	Wed 07/15/20 07:50 AM Edited by Toodygirl5 on Wed 07/15/20 07:52 AM
Commitment To what? Each other . Don't confuse friendship for in love. Why not? Because it's not . And how do you tell the difference between "confusion" and "real." Especially if you withdraw and take the time to objectively measure, you will most likely lose both? Realistic people know the difference. Actions speak louder than words. Okay. How do you handle the problem with actions and/or words being misconstrued? Mature people don't get it misconstrued.

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14518	Wed 07/15/20 07:54 AM
Isn't friendship a form of love, just not the erotic kind? We can love friends and family! " In love" is relationship of a couple.

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14518	Wed 07/15/20 07:55 AM
I'm confused, but it doesn't take much these days, it must be the lockdown. Confusion was Way Before any lockdowns.

Tom4Uhere Joined Sat 12/17/16 Posts: 16240	Wed 07/15/20 08:39 AM
I'm rarely confused about anything anymore. I take the time to make rational decisions before I speak or act. I feel no regret and don't actually second guess myself after the fact. My healthy self-esteem allows me to see thru my delusions and expectations. I live in reality. I also know what love is and how it works. I know what friendship is and how it works. Luckily I've found someone who shares many of the same qualities. Most importantly I am aware of my own value and accept it. I've stopped trying to be something I am not. Others either like me as I am or don't. I know who and what I am and I like it.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33259	Wed 07/15/20 08:53 AM
Who is confused ??? Not something I have ever been confused about . Me either. The only confusing thing is the posting of such odd statements. Makes me wonder what triggered that.

Duttoneer Joined Sun 07/01/12 Posts: 4698	Thu 07/16/20 02:55 AM
I'm confused, but it doesn't take much these days, it must be the lockdown. Confusion was Way Before any lockdowns. I know

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14518	Thu 07/16/20 09:08 AM
Who is confused ??? Not something I have ever been confused about . Me either. The only confusing thing is the posting of such odd statements. Makes me wonder what triggered that. Many odd posts are on mingle2.

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