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I was in a relationship with this one guy for 4 years and he left for Dubai to pursue his career and dream on the sport he loves which is rugby. He got a contract in Dubai and I drop him off at the airport and said our goodbyes. He promised to keep in touch but now it's been 5 months and I've still heard nothing from him. I can see he's active on Facebook but no message or phone call from him. Should I stop waiting and just move on?
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No word in 5 months? You gotta kick him to the curb and move on, surely you can see he has, best of luck to you.
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To be fair, you're on a dating site looking for dating, so I think you've already made your own mind up what to do!
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Dump the fool and look for a real man.
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If he could leave you and then ignore you for five months, then you need to find someone who'll treat you with the respect that you deserve.
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I find it's wise to recognize that whatever it is that you HAVE, is what your reality is about; and that whatever it is that you do NOT have, is also what your life is about.
If you continue waiting for someone who is obviously ignoring you, you are basing your life around believing you have what you clearly do not have. Not logical. |
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5 months?
You have the patience of a saint. If I were in an LTR, I'd dump her if I hadn't heard from her in 72 hours. |
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i was in 2 different ldrs. and each time we talked every single day, twice a day for hours at a time. unless one of us had special plans the prevented the sit down time and we always told each other of those in the conversation before it was happenning
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Edited by
motowndowntown
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Tue 01/21/20 12:03 PM
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What does the guy have to do, hit ya over the head with the hammer of "I'm not into you anymore and probably really wasn't to begin with" before you get the hint????? Move on with your life girl!!!!!!!
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U must move on... He simply dumped u when he got opertunities
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She already deactivated. Another 3 second attention seeker. I doubt anyone would come here to ask about this if it was real, uploading a photo and all.
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At least, it's just a 'wait' thread.
And, not another 'chubby vs. skinny' thread. |
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hii
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