Topic: Should I take him back when he gets out of jail I'm in march
mtrawick2's photo
Fri 01/03/20 12:41 AM
My bf of 1 year living together and raising our little cheeweeny during this time was the glue that really brought us together. We had arguments as many do but he never made time for me always like he did in the first months of the year we got together. I had to go away for a month and half and while away he was on fb flirting with all women he ran across. Asking for sex and i had thought we were together before I had to go even asked when I called few times if he was being loyal. So a week after my return he gets locked up and I'm wondering if I need to just forget and move on or if he will b a changed person in march ...please help me

Dodo_David's photo
Fri 01/03/20 12:53 AM

I'm wondering if I need to just forget and move on or if he will b a changed person in march ...please help me


huh Are you serious? You would be asking for trouble by staying with him.
He has already shown you his true colors. Cut your losses and run.

Riverspirit1111's photo
Fri 01/03/20 01:09 AM
I agree with David. Plus if you were asking him while you were away if he was being loyal, that shows you already sensed his disloyalty to you.

Riverspirit1111's photo
Fri 01/03/20 01:16 AM
Well I see from your profile you're doing the same thing as what your boyfriend did... looking for sex while he's away. slaphead

Best of luck to you!

A.j's photo
Fri 01/03/20 01:20 AM
hyy

SpaceCodet's photo
Fri 01/03/20 01:30 AM
You already know what you're going to do. So why ask?

no photo
Fri 01/03/20 03:46 AM
They do say that the best predictor of future behaviour is past behaviour. Run forest run.

notbeold's photo
Fri 01/03/20 05:35 AM
Dump him while he is in jail, then he might get a new boyfriend in there instead.

no photo
Fri 01/03/20 06:47 AM
Most people like to get into cycles and repeat them for most of their lives.

They ask others, get good advice, don't listen, and repeat their cycles over and over.

So why do you ask...?

Alucard1904's photo
Fri 01/03/20 08:07 AM
But you are on Mingle and possibly other dating apps?

soufiehere's photo
Fri 01/03/20 08:11 AM
Your profile says you have kids, think about them with
a (cheating) felon around.

Tom4Uhere's photo
Fri 01/03/20 08:58 AM
Your parents must be so proud of you.

motowndowntown's photo
Fri 01/03/20 10:20 AM
Don't be an idiot. You need to make a serious change in your life style.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Sun 01/05/20 09:14 AM

Well I see from your profile you're doing the same thing as what your boyfriend did... looking for sex while he's away. slaphead

Best of luck to you!


THIS ^^^^^^^

AND THIS

You already know what you're going to do. So why ask?



At your age you should know the answer too, and I bet you do, so you're attention seeking. Hope you enjoyed your 5 mins in the spotlights.

darkowl1's photo
Sun 01/05/20 09:37 AM
You're obviously in the "pattern" of abuse. your comfort zone is men treating you worse than nothing....

if it was just nothing, you would just be ignored.... no, he blatantly goes out of his way to hurt you.

This will all only get worse... he will also use the kid to get leverage on you.

you want out of this?????

change your behavior pattern. until then, you're toast.

Rock's photo
Tue 01/07/20 10:21 AM
OP, your life is a trainwreck.
Get professional help.