I do agree with you

My dream (working on it) is living simply -apart from the errant ways of modern society as much as possible -but comfortably -even high tech. I'm not trying to date right now, but I don't think that would be appealing to many women -perhaps seen as lazy, etc -not sure.

I also don't know what since lover means. If you're looking for a long term relationship, did you check the woman's profile to see if that's what she wants? And if you use the words sincere lover in your message or profile, that may be off putting. I read that as clingy.

i been trying to figure that question out for the last 41 years of my existence...

Hi, your explanation looks pretty realistic and helpful to understand the relationships. Thanks

That’s great. Dear
You are Ryt

Men’s logic is deductive. Remember Sherlock Holmes? This is the way men think. Straight line. A so-called logical chain that I mentioned.

If A=B, and B=C, then A=C.

Always straightforward. A line →

Using this logic, man’s mind can build complex concepts under the guidance of first principles of thinking. We believe in things only when we can prove them in practice. We don’t trust someones’ opinions unless a person possesses a trustworthy expertise. We believe in science and use the scientific method.

Women’s logic is inductive. A woman is thinking in circles — circles of association. It’s a real mystery for men how the process works.

hi

Also remember this: just because you SAY you're sincere doesn't mean you really are.

Excellent post Kris..

RE:
"But this is a crucial juncture to beware of. Particularly at this stage, this could be a trap for him. She may not realise it and may want to both have her cake and eat it, i.e. she may unconsciously want him as a steady partner but want to sleep with other guys at the same time. To avoid that trap he should first ask her whether she realises that faithfulness must go with the steady relationship. If he does not do this then he is setting himself up for heartbreak when they go steady and yet she sees/sleeps with other guys. If he cannot broach the subject then he is not ready for a steady relationship.

If she wants to go steady with him but recoils at the demand for faithfulness, then she is either immature, not ready or not worth having a steady relationship with. Then sadly, he should walk away until she comes to her senses, which may be never.

And if he has foolishly isolated himself and has seen only her up to that point, then he will not be able to shake off the memory of her as easily. All while if he has kept up other female contacts and other hobbies, he can forget her easily and sail on with his life, instead of becoming a case for the psychiatrist to sigh at his depression and prescribe some stupid drug."

The gal in the other thread that wants to serial date a bunch of guys while only banging one should read this.

As should the lineup of her guys NOT being smashed by her so they are prepared for the end.

As for the original premise of the post; gals love bad boys and the attraction to "projects for redeeming them".

It doesn't work out for either of them, and she is left wondering where all the good men are; ie., those men looking for monogamous romance.

Simple: We are after quality women that aren't gonna jump on the pizza delivery boy if we failed to complement them on the spaghetti she made - 3 months earlier...

you true said. I love ur opinion Ageey with you. I'm also seriously love forever true people. believe us...

Truth be told no two persons can ever love themselves equally at the same time, one person must always be dieceving the other at some point. It is a natural thing, a partner will always love you when you are not interested in him/her. It's a feeling that cannot be explained. Indeed the lady that gave an answer that women love independent men is correct, same goes to men, we don't love women that have need for us.

“In this country, you gotta make the money first. Then when you get the money, you get the power. Then when you get the power, then you get the women.”

-Tony Montana

Because you're asking about girls, not women

how would i know if he really is sincere? the last time i was with the one " thought sincere lover " was exactly the one who made me cry a river