Topic: Should Men Always Be The One Who Pleases the Other?
Shiba's photo
Sat 09/14/19 08:44 AM
Should men be the one who should always spoil their partners into giving amd doing what they want even if the other half is doing unethical, or against your principles?

soufiehere's photo
Sat 09/14/19 10:42 AM
If each partner thinks they are giving 100%, it might work.

Standards and ethics are a different game, why would you
want to be around someone like that?

TxsGal3333's photo
Sat 09/14/19 11:12 AM
All I can say is if it is not 100% both ways it is time to get out.... whoa

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Sat 09/14/19 11:18 AM
since when is it always the menspock noway

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Sat 09/14/19 11:29 AM

Should men be the one who should always spoil their partners into giving amd doing what they want even if the other half is doing unethical, or against your principles?


No... even if the partner isn't doing anything unethical or against your principles, the answer is still no.

Healthy relationships require both partners giving 100% to each other.

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Sat 09/14/19 08:06 PM
Should men be the one who should always spoil their partners

If that's the only way they can communicate their feelings, respect, acknowledgment, etc., and the woman reciprocates using a different means of communication, then yes.

Should men be the one who should always spoil their partners into giving amd doing what they want

Seems like prostitution at best, power games and manipulation at worst.

Should men be the one who should always spoil their partners into giving amd doing what they want even if the other half is doing unethical, or against your principles?

If that's the type of relationship the man and woman want and find works for them, then yes.
If one, the other, or both, starts questioning it or not liking the dynamic, then no, and they "should" work together to change it with clear cut demands, boundaries, expectations, and how to measure any desired change, or get out of it.

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Sat 09/14/19 08:48 PM
Yes men have a duty to please and bring their "a" game at all times :wink: laugh laugh

motowndowntown's photo
Sat 09/14/19 08:57 PM

Yes men have a duty to please and bring their "a" game at all times :wink: laugh laugh


Hey, ya know we try girl, but sometimes we gotta get up and go to work in the morning and only have two minutes.

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Sat 09/14/19 09:05 PM


Yes men have a duty to please and bring their "a" game at all times :wink: laugh laugh


Hey, ya know we try girl, but sometimes we gotta get up and go to work in the morning and only have two minutes.
rofl rofl rofl two minute noodles are always disappointing pitchfork tongue2

McX's photo
Mon 09/23/19 05:46 AM
well I tried initiating and he think and treated me like a slut after when Im trying to be respectful. lmao