Topic: HOW do you know he or she is a KEEPER
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Thu 08/29/19 07:56 AM

If he can reload under fire and make a good sandwich I would consider him as keeper..smokin


Let's add a full tackle box and hunt and totally this

soufiehere's photo
Thu 08/29/19 08:09 AM

HOW do you know he or she is a KEEPER

There is a wee spot just behind their globus maximus,
it will show a 'K' for keeper.

But be careful, you might also get a Kardashian.

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Thu 08/29/19 08:13 AM







What are your views Grace? As mentioned above can you make a mean sandwich, any other skills? laugh tongue2

Being Sincere; Care for his her feelings; seek his her interests first; talk to him her and express love each day; willing to compromise...stand firmly by his her side through highs and lows especially being in trouble

People know the basic rules but mess it up all the time I guess..

I think mostly because few people know how to communicate properly. It can be scary as you have to really be open, meaning you're vulnerable which is someone no one likes.

En hulle moet baie mooi wees so's jy waving

I'm assuming it's good, but I don't know what that means, NiceGuy?


Sorry I thought most Dutch people understand Afrikaans. Its my second language in South Africa. Us whites originate from the Netherlands, my surname is Van Wyk.
All I said was is that they must be pretty like you. blushing

Owww... thank you!! blushing

And no, Dutch people don't understand Afrikaans. I know it's based on Dutch but it's very different. Now that I know what it means I DO see it and I'm almost thinking, how could I've missed that, haha.

Thank you, really sweet!! smooched

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Thu 08/29/19 02:30 PM
When he sticks up for you, and is always on your side, no matter what.

HeadnHeart's photo
Thu 08/29/19 03:31 PM
When your arguing....and she wants to make time to go out and work it out, then have great make up sex after....:boom:

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Thu 08/29/19 04:30 PM
HOW do you know he or she is a KEEPER

"Know?" Never.
You have to make the decision.
Decisions are commitments.
Then you live up to your commitments and find things that validate it.

since Drama and games are time and energy wasting ?

Everything is a game and drama.
Just not everyone is playing the game you want or offering the drama you are comfortable with and enjoy.
"Games" and "drama" is simply communication.

klaratrish's photo
Thu 08/29/19 04:53 PM
yah honesty no matter what the cost, then at least you know the truth, its better than fiction

klaratrish's photo
Thu 08/29/19 04:54 PM
good point

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Thu 08/29/19 04:54 PM

HOW do you know he or she is a KEEPER

"Know?" Never.
You have to make the decision.
Decisions are commitments.
Then you live up to your commitments and find things that validate it.

since Drama and games are time and energy wasting ?

Everything is a game and drama.
Just not everyone is playing the game you want or offering the drama you are comfortable with and enjoy.
"Games" and "drama" is simply communication.

:joy: thx for your opinion

klaratrish's photo
Thu 08/29/19 04:54 PM
ciretom good point

ivegotthegirth's photo
Thu 08/29/19 05:35 PM
OP, OT

Get in touch with yourself first.

Then you'll just KNOW!

I've always felt like I knew and they resulted in my two LTRs, 8yrs and 18yrs.

ragin' cajun's photo
Thu 08/29/19 05:49 PM
:thumbsup:


If he can reload under fire and make a good sandwich I would consider him as keeper..smokin


Let's add a full tackle box and hunt and totally this
:thumbsup: waving

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Thu 08/29/19 05:52 PM
:heart: He melts my heart with his kindness and compassion

:heart: He melts my body with just a look or touch

:heart: He speaks to my mind and heart on the most intimate level

:heart: He makes me laugh and feel loved

:heart: He lets me have control of the remote

:heart: he lets me wear his favourite shirt

:heart: he is wise enough to know when to be silent rofl rofl rofl

Easy .., peasy smitten smitten waving


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Thu 08/29/19 06:07 PM

Being a parent myself now I understand it's a parent/adult thing. I could tell when my kids had chosen the wrong one, and unfortunately for them I was right each time.


Holy cow, I’ve turned into my parents, this is so true crystal! Funny that I didn’t realize it
until just now. *light bulb moment*

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Thu 08/29/19 06:10 PM

:heart: He melts my heart with his kindness and compassion

:heart: He melts my body with just a look or touch

:heart: He speaks to my mind and heart on the most intimate level

:heart: He makes me laugh and feel loved

:heart: He lets me have control of the remote

:heart: he lets me wear his favourite shirt

:heart: he is wise enough to know when to be silent rofl rofl rofl

Easy .., peasy smitten smitten waving




6 out of 7 blondey but i draw the line at sharing the remote

Riverspirit1111's photo
Thu 08/29/19 06:11 PM
That's for sure laugh

Bastet127's photo
Thu 08/29/19 06:12 PM


:heart: He melts my heart with his kindness and compassion

:heart: He melts my body with just a look or touch

:heart: He speaks to my mind and heart on the most intimate level

:heart: He makes me laugh and feel loved

:heart: He lets me have control of the remote

:heart: he lets me wear his favourite shirt

:heart: he is wise enough to know when to be silent rofl rofl rofl

Easy .., peasy smitten smitten waving




6 out of 7 blondey but i draw the line at sharing the remote


Well, you just broke rule # 7 :)

((Blondey, does he have an older single brother??))

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Thu 08/29/19 06:15 PM


:heart: He melts my heart with his kindness and compassion

:heart: He melts my body with just a look or touch

:heart: He speaks to my mind and heart on the most intimate level

:heart: He makes me laugh and feel loved

:heart: He lets me have control of the remote

:heart: he lets me wear his favourite shirt

:heart: he is wise enough to know when to be silent rofl rofl rofl

Easy .., peasy smitten smitten waving




6 out of 7 blondey but i draw the line at sharing the remote
making me laugh ...., there is a reward every time the remote is handed over :wink:

tessa68's photo
Thu 08/29/19 06:18 PM
Edited by tessa68 on Thu 08/29/19 06:28 PM
When he can cook 3 times a day laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

ivegotthegirth's photo
Thu 08/29/19 06:20 PM

:heart: He melts my heart with his kindness and compassion

:heart: He melts my body with just a look or touch

:heart: He speaks to my mind and heart on the most intimate level

:heart: He makes me laugh and feel loved

:heart: He lets me have control of the remote

:heart: he lets me wear his favourite shirt

:heart: he is wise enough to know when to be silent rofl rofl rofl

Easy .., peasy smitten smitten waving





:heart: flowerforyou we'd have to talk about the remote though flowers