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Topic: HOW do you know he or she is a KEEPER
Unknow Joined Wed 06/27/18 Posts: 101536	Thu 08/29/19 03:06 AM
When everything just works and you got the 3 Cs: connection, chemistry, commitment. Exactly!

Rock Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 21258	Thu 08/29/19 03:08 AM Edited by Rock on Thu 08/29/19 03:09 AM
When she's worth taking the time to get to know... And, She wants to take the time to know me.

Unknow Joined Wed 06/27/18 Posts: 101536	Thu 08/29/19 03:17 AM
^^^ I like that!

Bastet127 Joined Wed 06/12/19 Posts: 967	Thu 08/29/19 04:04 AM
Would Dad approve? Sounds silly, but he has always been right. I learned a lot of things the hard way lol.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33364	Thu 08/29/19 04:17 AM
Would Dad approve? Sounds silly, but he has always been right. I learned a lot of things the hard way lol. That's cool :) My dad didn't approve of anyone I took home, haha. No one was good enough for his girlie. But... in retrospect he had good reason so I guess I can also say he was always right. Being a parent myself now I understand it's a parent/adult thing. I could tell when my kids had chosen the wrong one, and unfortunately for them I was right each time.

Sir Dino One Love ☝️💚 Joined Tue 04/02/19 Posts: 5312	Thu 08/29/19 04:18 AM
If she can reload under fire and make a good sandwich I would consider her as keeper..

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33364	Thu 08/29/19 04:19 AM
When everything just works and you got the 3 Cs: connection, chemistry, commitment.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33364	Thu 08/29/19 04:21 AM
When everything just works and you got the 3 Cs: connection, chemistry, commitment. Exactly! So true, isn't it! The first 2 you can have with loads of people, but without the 3rd you don't have anything of substance.

eric22t Joined Wed 08/13/14 Posts: 27928	Thu 08/29/19 05:21 AM
well first grace they can't run away screaming during the first meeting after that those 3cs are really it. when you both spend more time thinking about each other than you do yourselves of course her being a great and willing beer wench helps

Essentially Joined Sat 07/13/19 Posts: 1115	Thu 08/29/19 05:34 AM
well first grace they can't run away screaming during the first meeting after that those 3cs are really it. when you both spend more time thinking about each other than you do yourselves of course her being a great and willing beer wench helps that’s funny

Mike Joined Mon 08/19/19 Posts: 182	Thu 08/29/19 05:42 AM
What are your views Grace? As mentioned above can you make a mean sandwich, any other skills?

Essentially Joined Sat 07/13/19 Posts: 1115	Thu 08/29/19 05:59 AM
What are your views Grace? As mentioned above can you make a mean sandwich, any other skills? Being Sincere; Care for his her feelings; seek his her interests first; talk to him her and express love each day; willing to compromise...stand firmly by his her side through highs and lows especially being in trouble

Mike Joined Mon 08/19/19 Posts: 182	Thu 08/29/19 06:06 AM
What are your views Grace? As mentioned above can you make a mean sandwich, any other skills? Being Sincere; Care for his her feelings; seek his her interests first; talk to him her and express love each day; willing to compromise...stand firmly by his her side through highs and lows especially being in trouble People know the basic rules but mess it up all the time I guess..

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33364	Thu 08/29/19 06:10 AM Edited by SparklingCrystal 💖💎 on Thu 08/29/19 06:51 AM
What are your views Grace? As mentioned above can you make a mean sandwich, any other skills? Being Sincere; Care for his her feelings; seek his her interests first; talk to him her and express love each day; willing to compromise...stand firmly by his her side through highs and lows especially being in trouble People know the basic rules but mess it up all the time I guess.. I think mostly because few people know how to communicate properly. It can be scary as you have to really be open, meaning you're vulnerable which is something no one likes. . . .

Mike Joined Mon 08/19/19 Posts: 182	Thu 08/29/19 06:11 AM
What are your views Grace? As mentioned above can you make a mean sandwich, any other skills? Being Sincere; Care for his her feelings; seek his her interests first; talk to him her and express love each day; willing to compromise...stand firmly by his her side through highs and lows especially being in trouble People know the basic rules but mess it up all the time I guess.. I think mostly because few people know how to communicate properly. It can be scary as you have to really be open, meaning you're vulnerable which is someone no one likes. En hulle moet baie mooi wees so's jy

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33364	Thu 08/29/19 06:48 AM
What are your views Grace? As mentioned above can you make a mean sandwich, any other skills? Being Sincere; Care for his her feelings; seek his her interests first; talk to him her and express love each day; willing to compromise...stand firmly by his her side through highs and lows especially being in trouble People know the basic rules but mess it up all the time I guess.. I think mostly because few people know how to communicate properly. It can be scary as you have to really be open, meaning you're vulnerable which is someone no one likes. En hulle moet baie mooi wees so's jy I'm assuming it's good, but I don't know what that means, NiceGuy?

Mike Joined Mon 08/19/19 Posts: 182	Thu 08/29/19 06:52 AM
What are your views Grace? As mentioned above can you make a mean sandwich, any other skills? Being Sincere; Care for his her feelings; seek his her interests first; talk to him her and express love each day; willing to compromise...stand firmly by his her side through highs and lows especially being in trouble People know the basic rules but mess it up all the time I guess.. I think mostly because few people know how to communicate properly. It can be scary as you have to really be open, meaning you're vulnerable which is someone no one likes. En hulle moet baie mooi wees so's jy I'm assuming it's good, but I don't know what that means, NiceGuy? Sorry I thought most Dutch people understand Afrikaans. Its my second language in South Africa. Us whites originate from the Netherlands, my surname is Van Wyk. All I said was is that they must be pretty like you.

Essentially Joined Sat 07/13/19 Posts: 1115	Thu 08/29/19 06:58 AM
What are your views Grace? As mentioned above can you make a mean sandwich, any other skills? Being Sincere; Care for his her feelings; seek his her interests first; talk to him her and express love each day; willing to compromise...stand firmly by his her side through highs and lows especially being in trouble People know the basic rules but mess it up all the time I guess.. I think mostly because few people know how to communicate properly. It can be scary as you have to really be open, meaning you're vulnerable which is someone no one likes. En hulle moet baie mooi wees so's jy I'm assuming it's good, but I don't know what that means, NiceGuy? Sorry I thought most Dutch people understand Afrikaans. Its my second language in South Africa. Us whites originate from the Netherlands, my surname is Van Wyk. All I said was is that they must be pretty like you. I used google translate just now :)

Mike Joined Mon 08/19/19 Posts: 182	Thu 08/29/19 07:19 AM
^^^^ Good so I'm in the clear

Seamus Joined Mon 07/15/19 Posts: 3365	Thu 08/29/19 07:54 AM Edited by Seamus on Thu 08/29/19 08:00 AM
If she can reload under fire and make a good sandwich I would consider her as keeper.. I second that, especially the reloading under fire bit