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Whenever I make a first move, guys get annoyed at me because I don't look like what they want. I stopped doing that. Don't take it personally, bonnie. I've been on lots of different sites and around 90% of the women (?) who send men messages are scammers or Pros (professionals looking to sell you something) which makes us skeptical of women on first messages. Yes, there's guys who prefer a women their own age, taller, shorter and so on. That's why we need to find out or we'll never know. So message when you wish and receive messages when you do. Then talk with that person and find out what's needed to be known. |
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It's just the way it is...
Having said it isn't always the case by a long shot. About 60/40 in my experience. But then I'm not that motivated. It's the woman who chooses the man in the majority of cases anyway. but we've still got to show were interested. who cares about rejection. at point of contact. It's a mans lot to be bold and take it on the chin lol |
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Despite everything, I think men have to accept that we usually have to make the first approach.
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Despite everything, I think men have to accept that we usually have to make the first approach. Now some they do and some they don't And some you just can't tell And some they will and some they won't With some it's just as well... - Supertramp |
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cause most of the women on this site just want money, they like the men to chat first to see if they can get an angle...
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Why do ladies don't like to chat first, they prefer men to talk to them first. When it comes to dating and all that goes along with it, many are still stuck in the past with antiquated notions. That is, it's the man's job to make the first move, it's the man's job to plan the date, it's the man's job to pay for everything, etc. I have seen similar discussions numerous times on various online dating site forums. With the same opinions over and over. Right. I heard that many times. The "When it comes to dating, blah blah...". Last time I checked people dont date here. They chat |
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Well boys, let's clarify; the women that are here regularly on the forums pretty much run the full spectrum of women you'd meet anywhere.
They're not the scammer girls that send you those great photos of......well who knows. Those girls are entertaining to look at and fun to hear them call you handsome and dear but they're the ones after your money in any form they can get it. All you need to do to learn to spot them is just watch the stuff they send you for a few days, it's all the same. They're following scripts and if you say things that change the way they want the conversation to got they will need to reboot. They will never answer a direct question and it can be fun to play with them for a bit. Don't confuse the normal(?) women on the forums with the scammer chicks and there's a spot on every profile where you can report them, use it! |
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Impossible dear
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OMG, when they do decide to talk, it's what do you do for a living, are you married... any kids... how much money do you make?? Why can't it simply be Hi how are you? Why are they always seem more interested in your pocketbook instead of your brain?
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OMG, when they do decide to talk, it's what do you do for a living, are you married... any kids... how much money do you make?? Why can't it simply be Hi how are you? Why are they always seem more interested in your pocketbook instead of your brain? You are talking to the wrong women. Not all women ask how much money you make. Keep searching.  
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Why do ladies don't like to chat first, they prefer men to talk to them first. I am always bemused by that |
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OMG, when they do decide to talk, it's what do you do for a living, are you married... any kids... how much money do you make?? Why can't it simply be Hi how are you? Why are they always seem more interested in your pocketbook instead of your brain? You are talking to the wrong women. Not all women ask how much money you make. Keep searching. There's enough women out there shopping for the almighty buck. We know it for a fact. It's a safe assumption we make everyday, and few women ever come along to prove us wrong. Now they've come up with a new term-Economically Challenged. Nicely worded, does not make us feel any better. I'll stick to the common term that says it all-gold digger. |
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Edited by
I_love_bluegrass
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Fri 09/13/19 08:22 AM
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OMG, when they do decide to talk, it's what do you do for a living, are you married... any kids... how much money do you make?? Why can't it simply be Hi how are you? Why are they always seem more interested in your pocketbook instead of your brain? You are talking to the wrong women. Not all women ask how much money you make. Keep searching. There's enough women out there shopping for the almighty buck. We know it for a fact. It's a safe assumption we make everyday, and few women ever come along to prove us wrong. Now they've come up with a new term-Economically Challenged. Nicely worded, does not make us feel any better. I'll stick to the common term that says it all-gold digger. I have NEVER asked a guy how much he makes... If he has enough income to pay his rent/ mortgage, utilities, car payment and insurance, groceries, etc...and has some left over for fun...I'm happy... |
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Edited by
Unknow
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Fri 09/13/19 08:50 AM
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Why do ladies don't like to chat first, they prefer men to talk to them first. When it comes to dating and all that goes along with it, many are still stuck in the past with antiquated notions. That is, it's the man's job to make the first move, it's the man's job to plan the date, it's the man's job to pay for everything, etc. I have seen similar discussions numerous times on various online dating site forums. With the same opinions over and over. I'm a man and glad to be, all the things you just mentioned are things that I do automatically. I believe that chivalry is not dead and practice it unless she tells me to do otherwise. Very few women ever tell me that! What they do say is they really miss being treated that way or no one has ever treated them like this, they've only heard about it. There's nothing wrong with being "old fashioned" if you want to call it that. And cat we or speaking for myself, yes we do want to do the pursuit. I think thsat's a primasl thing also.  I consider myself a strong , self sufficient woman, but I still appreciate a man who makes an effort to make the first social( just a clarification , for the pervs on here) move, I don't care about opening car doors or doors for me I can do that myself, bringing flowers ? That's a nice gesture but not necessary, but TO ME ( yes I'ma shouting) a man who makes the effort shows he's got enough confidence and not afraid of rejection. Pick yourself up, dust yourself off try again, no sense crying about it  |
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its not like that. we guys get some ladies sending us porn links by which we are getting irritated. may be this is the reason other guys do stuff like that as u felt.
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ur ryt bro as 90% womens n girls are GOLD DIGGERS
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Who is bonnie?
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really men should go first for woman because women are always shy to approach us we the men
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but the always think that we the men are here for their money which the dont have seriously men need to act like men and go first know matter what
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ur ryt bro as 90% womens n girls are GOLD DIGGERS Sure. That's the first question that I think of, when I meet a woman. I'm sure many of you object to that line of thinking. Call it, a payback for thinking that I want to have sex with you. Call it, tit for tat. (I'd call it something else, by the way) |
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