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Topic: Why do ladies don't like to chat first
Franky Joined Sun 08/11/19 Posts: 1	Thu 08/22/19 08:25 PM
Why do ladies don't like to chat first, they prefer men to talk to them first.

DeeJay Joined Wed 08/07/19 Posts: 235	Thu 08/22/19 08:43 PM
Why do ladies don't like to chat first, they prefer men to talk to them first. When it comes to dating and all that goes along with it, many are still stuck in the past with antiquated notions. That is, it's the man's job to make the first move, it's the man's job to plan the date, it's the man's job to pay for everything, etc. I have seen similar discussions numerous times on various online dating site forums. With the same opinions over and over.

catinidaho Joined Fri 10/24/14 Posts: 10868	Thu 08/22/19 09:06 PM
Whenever I make a first move, guys get annoyed at me because I don't look like what they want. I stopped doing that.

ivegotthegirth Joined Fri 08/17/18 Posts: 6666	Thu 08/22/19 09:25 PM
Regardless of the changing times IMO it's still a primal thing.

Sheri Joined Sun 04/07/19 Posts: 126	Thu 08/22/19 09:30 PM
For me i dont like men enough to approach one. They have to like and want to chat with me. I dont care one way or another.

catinidaho Joined Fri 10/24/14 Posts: 10868	Thu 08/22/19 09:30 PM
I think men want to do the chasing.

ragin' cajun Joined Wed 07/10/19 Posts: 550	Thu 08/22/19 10:03 PM
most don't like strong women just had one flake on me been seeing for a month said I scare him don't know how to handle it to much of a tiger whatever that means

Rock Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 21258	Thu 08/22/19 10:50 PM
Why do ladies don't like to chat first, they prefer men to talk to them first. Why does that bother you?

Mike Joined Mon 08/19/19 Posts: 182	Thu 08/22/19 11:07 PM
Whenever I make a first move, guys get annoyed at me because I don't look like what they want. I stopped doing that. That's weird you look great??

Sir Dino One Love ☝️💚 Joined Tue 04/02/19 Posts: 5312	Thu 08/22/19 11:10 PM
Why wait for someone to chat? If they tickle your fancy then take the shot..

Mike Joined Mon 08/19/19 Posts: 182	Thu 08/22/19 11:12 PM
Why wait for someone to chat? If they tickle your fancy then take the shot.. Exactly agreed, if they ignore you move on the ocean is full of fish.

Sir Dino One Love ☝️💚 Joined Tue 04/02/19 Posts: 5312	Thu 08/22/19 11:15 PM
Why wait for someone to chat? If they tickle your fancy then take the shot.. Exactly agreed, if they ignore you move on the ocean is full of fish. I think some people are frightened of rejection, it hurts their ego...

Freebird Deluxe Joined Sun 12/23/18 Posts: 4637	Thu 08/22/19 11:19 PM Edited by Freebird Deluxe on Thu 08/22/19 11:20 PM
Hundreds of young naked girls from all over the world chase me daily but I'm playing hard to get

Mike Joined Mon 08/19/19 Posts: 182	Thu 08/22/19 11:29 PM
Hundreds of young naked girls from all over the world chase me daily but I'm playing hard to get Its a hard life right?

Duttoneer Joined Sun 07/01/12 Posts: 5011	Fri 08/23/19 12:58 AM
Why do ladies don't like to chat first, they prefer men to talk to them first. Here in the UK. I think it's a bit of 'Old School' attitudes, men do the chasing and women do the choosing, but in my opinion I don't believe it really matters these days.

Sheri Joined Sun 04/07/19 Posts: 126	Fri 08/23/19 03:57 AM
These days i get young boys contacting me, instead of men my age. I dont wanna be mommy anymore. For men my age, these guys dont like me because i got an abusive past and have health problems due to this. Im also very picky if i do choose to date them. I scare people, guess this is why i get bullied.

Ricko Joined Tue 01/29/19 Posts: 2	Fri 08/23/19 01:49 PM
Hi

Ricko Joined Tue 01/29/19 Posts: 2	Fri 08/23/19 01:49 PM
Hi

Sir Dino One Love ☝️💚 Joined Tue 04/02/19 Posts: 5312	Fri 08/23/19 01:53 PM
Hi Ricko, what else you got?

Redrider1500 Joined Wed 04/25/18 Posts: 865	Fri 08/23/19 03:15 PM
I think men want to do the chasing. Nope. I'm .000 for the century. So I gave up on that foolishness. I'd rather do something that will get me a return for my effort.