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| Topic: What attracts you when you see the opposite sex | |
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Her body image and how she carries herself along with the smile. It shows a friendly, self confident woman!!
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Initially... his eyes. Then how he acts and talks determines whether I stay attracted. Okaaaay ... I act like a fruitcake and my voice sounds boring. What do we learn? A wise man was once saying, I can still rely on homeless dogs, visiting my grave  
Just so long as you don't taste like a fruitcake, I'm happy 
Apparently, I am tasty. You can ask my cats
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For me its not good looks but attitude and being respectful
To others and myself. If they gossip, sarcastic or downright mean its a no go. They do need good grooming but doesnt need to be dressed up. |
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There are stages. I'm not actually ATTRACTED right off the moment, usually. I draw a distinction between ATTRACTION, which to me means "interested in more than looking," and "visual appeal." I can and do enjoy LOOKING at all sorts of women, for a wide variety of reasons, only some of which have anything to do with sex. I certainly do notice physical characteristics of a wide variety before I begin to allow myself to be attracted, but the actual attraction doesn't happen until after a host of other things are at least suspected. First, of course, I try to ferret out whether or not the woman is even available for me to BE attracted. I'm not going to allow myself to be drawn to someone who is not available to me for any of the usual reasons. I'll happily make friends, but wont allow attraction. After that, things get fairly obvious and common. How she moves, of course, if it's possible to see that. But most of all, it's how she REASONS that matters most to me. WHY she comes to whatever decisions she does. After all, the reasons WHY someone does things is a far better predictor of things like compatibility than WHAT a person does. |
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If I feel too attracted too soon, I don't trust it..:)
Well admit it guys, the girls can turn it on. :) They can play us like a flippin fiddle if we let our guard down for just one second... I go for the banter mostly. I've fancied some diverse body types. I mean there was one woman. .........I wont elaborate. |
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first it is a certain body type then the eyes (window to the soul) their aura and IQ
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...first, my "inner Pygmalion gets the better of me", then i start to get more realistic.
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intelligence, sense of humor, little bit edgy, interesting, and some cool,
laid back charisma. |
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Someone tough and decisive who can cook. 
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Not much. It is after they talk, I get attracted. Well howya doing? Been on holiday lately ? Nice weather today , 
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Not much. It is after they talk, I get attracted. Me too too also Well howya doing? Been on holiday lately ? Nice weather today , bigsmile |
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An IQ One of the girls I went with years ago had one of them 
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..."the motherlode."
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Not much. It is after they talk, I get attracted. Well howya doing? Been on holiday lately ? Nice weather today ,
I can't hear you ;-) |
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Soggy bottoms
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Soggy bottoms
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It's a start, and I know I'd be able to help and make a difference, well that's as long as she doesn't mind ceramic beads clonking about in her pants
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It's a start, and I know I'd be able to help and make a difference, well that's as long as she doesn't mind ceramic beads clonking about in her pants
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...usually, only if she needs to be disciplined.
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Well that depends on what day it is ..
On a Friday I'm attracted to women in high heels. On a Monday I tend to gravitate to a woman with manicured nails. On a Wednesday well I think this is a no brainer for most guys :) |
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