Yeah and when she's 40 and he's long gone at least she'll have the money to snuggle up to...

If laws where she lives are like Calif's then she can't collect Alimony for that long if she works at anytime during the marriage. Say she is married 8 years she can only collect for 4 years even if she only got 1 whole paycheck the entire time they were married

But child support that's a whole different ball game

OMG. I just finished readint this entire thread!!! LLP for me! and yes, i read the other thread too!

yeah, i have nothing to say that hasnt been said already:

prenump
she is ignorant, young, and a gold digger
she knows not her self worth, and only cares about his worth
ignorance is not a virtue
i can keep going on, but this thread p***ed me off...as it did to so many others!

I'll opt for winning the lottery and getting a cabana boy instead.

make sure cabana boy isn't a gold digger

this girl sounds like a gold digger

Mmmm...Cabana boy.....

might have a better chance of winning the lottery over her finding that guy.

I WILL NOT SHARE MY MAN...HIS MONEY...HIS PEN*S, HIS LOVE... This girl needs to grow up!

Money is not everything in a relationship. And before you ask, I divorced because of abuse...not financial problems. I bought the house, I bought the SUV's, I was indeed not dependent on his money in any way...and when we divorced, hell, I said he could have everything!

Whats the point of having it all if its not being taken care of or its being taken for granted or its being taken advantage of?

Would you want your children to know that their "daddy" was permiscuious (sp) and have them think that was ok to do? And if you were to have children (Lord forbid) and your daughter said the man she brought home was like her father, how would that settle with you?

At the oh-so-tender age of 23, educated or not, you need to experience life for what it is and not for what it has to offer. Hun, you need not depend on any man! And realize that the only man you should depend on is your father (and I DO NOT mean in a finacial way)!

OK, I'm sincerely interested in what everyone else has to say from now on....I dont want to get too pi$$ed before i go to bed.

sdm i if i was your man i wouldnt share you either

i am honored!! i'm sure he feels the same way!!

I think you just made him cry

GEEK!!!! Where have you been????

nice guys cry i aint crying and if her man dont take of her i do my best to take of her myself

are you trying to be added as one of my friends??? all you have to do is ask!!! i love friends!

i would love to be your friend

What do you mean, I've been here the whole time. I've been trying to answer a certain someone's constant barrage of pity party emails lately and quite frankly it's like another full time job hehe

Glad things are working out for you. I've added to the asian list so there's even more reason to love us or hate us

omg....gotta go check it out!

Does his name start with a t and ends with an 08? lol

Kill yo thread