as per lots of complaints here, this might be true


OT: Sex is over rated. But just in case you get lucky, use condoms.. preferably without holes.

...The only way to have 100% safe sex is to abstain

Otherwise .. know your partner's sexual and health history (not a romantic conversation but a very important one)

Know how to correctly use a Condom ... check the condition and expiry date

Have regular sexual health checkups


if you don't know what safe sexy is ... you are not ready to have sex

Ultimate safest sex: Don't do it.

Someone said

"Sex is over rated. But just in case you get lucky, use condoms.. preferably without holes."

If you think it's over rated, you haven't been doing it right...

I also don't think it's overrated, but it is one of the most difficult things in life to get in the right form.
We come from a society where -for hundreds of years- we were stuck with one partner for life, no way out. Some societies / communities are still like that.
For most, however, we now live in a societal structure where we can choose whom we have sex with, and as always, freedom doesn't make things easier, although it should.
I think the biggest problem is that mostly men are still stuck in the old rut of being about sex. Not, all men, I know, but that old pattern is still stuck in our systems, including in most women's.
Many women still feel subservient when it comes to sex, that they have to please the man first of all.
And when single, having the choice to not have sex or to allow a strange man inside her body and energy system who doesn't care about her in the slightest.
Some women may (try to) believe it doesn't matter, but on a deeper level it is damaging, even if they're not aware of it.
Women are wired to automatically bond to a man she has sex with, even if he's a stranger. For men it works different.

So we're in this situation of having a choice, there being loads of singles, yet having to sort out how to deal with our sexual energies & sex drives. Not easy. And I think many underrate the importance of this.
Sexuality is a creative life force. If you don't have a sex life, and I'm not talking about simple NSA, lust, mundane sex, something in your energy system doesn't flow properly.
We are not made to live in abstinence, neither are we made to go around sexercising whomever.

I don't think much concerning this is going to change until we have a critical mass of people who are ready for an interdependent relationship.
I'm quite certain the amount of divorces will go down tremendously then. But as it is we're still going through the transitional phase of going from forced staying together to having freedom of choice to being able to handle that freedom.
And much of this -if not all- has to do with the balancing of masculine & feminine energies on the planet.

Use your hand... It's safe and you can have it any time you want...

nickistaken, point taken.

phone sex, cyber sex and sexting which doesn't involves skin to skin contact or body fluids are safe sex.

only to beware of scam, haha

Ultimate Rejection:
Yer havin safe sex and your hand falls asleep.

hahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

NO ! It's whats in your hand that falls asleep ! Thats the "ULTIMATE REJECTION"

No

yes

yes

I know the secret but I will tell u when u meet

But don't forget the most important part........it must be a glow in the dark condom!

Y'all are making sex sound like the boogeyman