Topic: How do you deal with difficult situations
Narlycarnk's photo
Mon 04/22/19 03:43 PM
Do you tell other people about them so they understand you, or do you keep it secret lest they sabotage you?

NotPay4Play's photo
Mon 04/22/19 03:49 PM
It all depends on the situation and who I'm talking to.

TxsGal3333's photo
Mon 04/22/19 04:05 PM
All depends on what the situation is.. Normally I deal with them myself..

No one can help you get through life but yourself and it is up to each to figure out how to deal with things in life and get past them..whoa

Tom4Uhere's photo
Mon 04/22/19 04:05 PM

Do you tell other people about them so they understand you, or do you keep it secret lest they sabotage you?

Its been my experience that nobody cares about my difficult situations, no one at all.
I deal with them the best I can.
Sometimes it requires a change of thinking or a change of habit.
The fact that I am still alive is proof I have been dealing with them.

But, when my GF gave me one of her Oxycotins it sure did make things a lot easier for a lil while.

Datwasntme's photo
Mon 04/22/19 06:23 PM

Do you tell other people about them so they understand you, or do you keep it secret lest they sabotage you?


really depends on the person
exzample
i am one that tells the truth , its down to a default
but any who
wife asks (well x wife) Hunny do this dress make my butt look big

yeah i should have known better as well as me normal mouth engages before the what ever is in the empty spot between me ears says WTF are you doen

i answer
no love its your butt that is big , that dress color dont flatter it though

<shrug>
yeah uhm dont ask me Que's ya dont wanna hear the answer to
some people dont wanna hear the truth


Narlycarnk's photo
Tue 04/23/19 06:09 AM
I do not make it a virtue to over promise what I am able or willing to do to help someone out.

Narlycarnk's photo
Tue 04/23/19 06:20 AM
Edited by Narlycarnk on Tue 04/23/19 06:21 AM
I think it is better to underpromise, and meet or exceed it with what is delivered. That is what I try to do anyway.

no photo
Sun 06/09/19 01:52 PM
I smoke me a bowl and chill out to my music

no photo
Sun 06/09/19 01:55 PM
LMFAO.......I usually go to the gym and workout cardio ,lift weights is great for stress

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Sun 06/09/19 02:38 PM
With a full bladder.
Working on the observation that speed and coordination seem to become enhanced and decisions can be reached with lucid, crystal clarity and near lightning speed.
Feats of considerable agility are also common place, whilst in this, shall we say heightened state of alertness.
A speedy resolution to any difficult situation becomes inevitable, thanks to an unshakable focus and ruthless time budget.

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Sun 06/09/19 04:07 PM
This is the health and fitness community so it is ok to talk to about some things. In my town, maybe a few people know about some physical problems I have, but I don't talk about it much. Today an ex boyfriend stopped by my house and we talked on the porch. I had to to keep telling him, I have to go sit down because my hip hurt. I don't think he understood me.

ivegotthegirth's photo
Sun 06/09/19 06:43 PM

This is the health and fitness community so it is ok to talk to about some things. In my town, maybe a few people know about some physical problems I have, but I don't talk about it much. Today an ex boyfriend stopped by my house and we talked on the porch. I had to to keep telling him, I have to go sit down because my hip hurt. I don't think he understood me.


Unless someone has been hurt bad, unless they have chronic pain >>>>>>>>>>>
THEY DON'T KNOW !!!
It's that simple.

Daisy's photo
Sun 06/09/19 11:18 PM
I guess one should be discretion what issue you like to share with whom.
Some are emotional, some health ,some may be random thoughts.


Letsgiveitatry's photo
Thu 08/08/19 09:21 PM
Keep it to myself, that's what's expected from men