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So I'm new to this site and no really knows me on here, but I would really like guys' honest opinion about this subject matter. Guys, what do you think about a girl who is saving herself for marriage? Would you date someone like that and be willing to wait or would you get bored and find someone else instead? I'm really starting to wonder if I'm being unrealistic in my hopes...
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Ok, I'm not a guy, but stick to your guns honey! the right one will wait
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well im not a guy but i think its great wot you are doing ,wait for the one you fall in love with
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i've got some mad respect for this. if they don't want you to wait then forget em.
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im not a guy either but envy and admire you hun
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theres nothing wrong in waiting for the right person
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look,, its your body, your life,, your choice,, you do what you feel is right,, dont make anyone force you to settle for something you dont want.
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It's a choice, and there's certainly nothing wrong with making that choice, if that's what you want to do.
It wouldn't work for me, though -- I've been married, and -- barring amnesia, lobotomy or some really good hypnotism -- I would never do that again. So for me to get involved with someone saving themselves for marriage, that would basically mean ain't nothing EVER going to happen....! I'm sure plenty of other people would be fine with it, though.... |
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Ok, I'm not a guy, but stick to your guns honey! the right one will wait if there is one that will wait, let me know, huh? cause i dont think there is.. |
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I would date a woman who was saving herself for marriage, as long as there was open communication , as there should be ...
Anyone who tells you different like , you are nutz fro trying, or crazy , have your fun now ??.. is definietely NOT thinking of your choice, just his own ... only my thoughts BUT I am way older .. Good luck and welcome .. |
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you could be right hun but isnt the mail ego trip to be the first ?????
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thats male lol typing again
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i would wait...
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Hey thanks for the feedback everyone! I know it's my choice, I think it's just hard finding people my age who respect that. I'm 20 and have never had a boyfriend. I didn't get the chance to date in high school and most college guys arent exactly looking for relationships. Im hoping that they'll grow out of it but it just gets really frustrating sometimes.
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i dated a girl for 4 years she wanted to wait and i respected that and didnt force her into anything we r no longer together but we r still very good friends.....i would do anything for here
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It's a choice, and there's certainly nothing wrong with making that choice, if that's what you want to do. It wouldn't work for me, though -- I've been married, and -- barring amnesia, lobotomy or some really good hypnotism -- I would never do that again. So for me to get involved with someone saving themselves for marriage, that would basically mean ain't nothing EVER going to happen....! I'm sure plenty of other people would be fine with it, though.... I completely agree. Also, although I know this is not going to be a popular opinion, I don't see what the big deal is about virginity---for a man or a woman. |
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So I'm new to this site and no really knows me on here, but I would really like guys' honest opinion about this subject matter. Guys, what do you think about a girl who is saving herself for marriage? Would you date someone like that and be willing to wait or would you get bored and find someone else instead? I'm really starting to wonder if I'm being unrealistic in my hopes... |
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If he respects you he will wait for you. If he pushed you for sex, thats all that he wanted in the frist place. Always rember it;s your boy and your choice.
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i dunno since i had tha taste of sex i cant really hold out not to give sex lol but you seem like a girl im sure good to know
or to hang out with but dont get me wrong im all about love boo! |
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I think that's awesome.... I would be happy if I found the right woman AND she had waited... perfect combo.... stick with it...
but the reality is that most do not wait and I cannot fault it too much because I didn't either... though I do feel it is realistic to find someone who shares a similar outlook on sexual relations... (that's getting less and less likely as I get older ) |
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