Hello fellow gentlemen
I just wanted to share some female tips to help you all increase the chances of finding true love if that is your goal.
As women, in general, these are some of the things that we look for when looking for a mate. No you don't have to be the hottest man out here, but the least you could do to increase your chances for a connection on this platform is to make sure you are well groomed and presented in your photo, Working out helps a lot as women also love a fit guy who takes care of himself... very sexy.
Please do take the time to write a couple of paragraphs about who you are and what you're looking. The more specific you are the higher the chances that the right women will try to connect with you. I seldom show interest in men who haven't shared anything on their profile.
Also, say something about what makes you feel alive and inspired in life as this can be a huge connecting point for a meaningful connection.
Thank you for taking the time to read and all my very best wishes.

Yes and NO effing fish in photos!

NO sticking out huge flaps of tongue, makes me want to puke.

And NO other women in the photos, not even an adult daughter as we don't know if she's a fling or not.

- Oh, and also not an old photo you cropped to get your ex out. Most of the time we can still see her hand on your shoulder or her hair, and you lean into the-previously-present ex.
At least make the effort to take a fresh new photo!

Haha, I don't like to go into the 'don't do this' stuff, but this had to be said, lol.

Very well written. I hope, I don't look too scruffy

Speak for yourself

Köszönom

We should maybe create some feature, that automatically detects topless people and sentences, such as 'I tell you later'

Amen to that!

Nauzy

Thank you for that paragraph. I just joined up there. I was wondering how you upload a photo of yourself?

"the chances of finding true love if that is your goal."

And if that is not your goal, then what??

I would prefer to receive tips from someone who is either married, divorced or widowed.
Such a person demonstrates having dating success.

You never listen to me!

Wait. Am I supposed to listen to a crazy cab driver?

Of course we know more then we are given credit for

Nicely written.
Got a couple questions tho...

What is the difference between love and 'true' love?
All love is true love or it isn't love, it's something else.

What if I'm not looking for love on a dating site?
A dating site is a tool that can be used to find someone you 'might' fall in love with eventually. The 'falling in love' part comes after you meet face to face. After you personally interact with each other. This tool is used to find potential love interests that might be willing to meet in person.

Are only 'fit', 'well groomed' men qualified to be loved?
I'm disabled and worn out. Should I just give up looking for someone?
Its kinda hard to feel 'inspired in life' when life is constant pain.

Listening to a crazy cab driver we know, is still better than listening to strangers who may be just be crazy.

Awww (((hugs))) thank you


Ot see

(((((Queenie)))))

Well, as an individual, I don't agree with all the pointers the other ladies have given, however, you could, at the very least make sure your age listed by the program matches the age in your blurb.....if you have one. Which you should put at least something if you don't have one........and could I please trouble some of you men to put up semi-recent photos??? (if that hasn't been mentioned already)

As someone who isn't at ALL attracted to clean shaven, clean cut, short haired guys...I have to give a shout out to what some women refer to as "scruffy"..

There are a LOT of bearded, shaggy/ longer haired guys in the arts (music and what not, for instance), or acedemia that are not "dirty' or "unkempt"...

We all like different things.

But I agree 100% about guys who put "tell you late" or "ask me" on their profile are not worth anyone's time..
Very few want to have to essentially play a form of "20 Questions" *just* to see if you have anything ~at all~ in common with he person...

But, I speak only for myself here...if you disagree, thats fine.

I'm not doing any of these tips..

in fact just the opposite..