Most of MY life I have always been with my same age, or one year younger...so, SAME is cool...

I would have trouble with their boyfriends and husbands since single ones seem to be hard to find. I like the attitude of the one older I help dress each morning. I ask her what she wants to wear and she says who cares. I can relate with her and all she wants is something warm to wear; stop waking her up during the night and our philosophies seem to match since she says to me why don't you knock me in the head with a bat and get me out of my misery. I love you morning conversations which are easy to prepare for since she has Alzheimers. I always know where she is coming from since I hear the same speech each morning.

I will be 51 soon and have had no issues with invitations to date.

based on your picture I would say you should look at the 60+ crowd

BlueskyJ:

Ouch, that was mean. I don't even have a picture posted.

not mean, honest, if you ask the question about what age group you should be dating, you should have a picture posted....otherwise how could anyone truthfully answer your question....after all this is a dating site

Yes, we are visual....And women want to feel safe

So both groups want to see a picture, but for different reasons...

when someone doesn't post a picture its a 'red flag'...every dating site explains that without the picture you are much less likely to get a response....once in a while someone actually has what seems like a valid reason not to post a picture....

we are who we are...so accept yourself & others will likely accept you too....

OK, I know you are right, and I thank you for the advise. I just hate the thought of everyone seeing my picture and doing what ever they want with it. I really prefer to send it to those I want to see it. However, maybe it is time for me to get real and post a pic. I will work on it, thanks again.

The answer shouldn't be about what you look like. Are you saying if she's a hot 50 yr old woman you could tell her what age group would be interested in her? Tell me it isn't so...

good suggestion klc...feel the same

rdg...don't take my over 60 comment personally...i bet you are a nice person & with a picture you will get more responses....

I have found even the ugliest people can make themselves look better....we all have our ugly days....so just be who you are, its probably gonna be fine....

think i already explained myself

No, I don't think you did explain that comment.

OK, so here is a picture. Please do not give me your opinion. I have a weak heart right now.

50 is just a number......

Good luck to you!!

Thank for the compliment

You look great girl!! Date anyone you want!

You look great girl!! Date anyone you want!

Why thank you. I went for a hike on my birthday, came home had some wine and dinner and kissed my horse on the cheek. It was a really wild time.

Redding Lady,

I peeked

Your ability is not a question. The guy of your choice is just unknown yet.

I can't offer an opinion about an specific age group, but think and feel that recognizing favorite values, moral judgements and lifestyles would provide a great backdrop to a search for a long term relationship.

Then there's that chemical click thingee that blows everything else outa the water.

Have fun exploring the possibilities!!

Thanks, and coming from a very beautiful women. Your compliment is appreciated.