ah, I see you added a picture...now people will have a better idea of who they are meeting....Happy Birthday to you...I'm Sure now you'll get more responses....and not just from the over 60 crowd...

And LLH...looks do matter as i've already explained...& as you expressed in your email to me...true?

Your comment has great wisdom and advice. Thanks for taking the time. And yes, the chemistry thing is the true test.

I am still mad at you so don't try to suck up.

Ummmm....I guess it may depend on how we look? I get nothing. I have been single and only dated twice in the past 7 years. I am 54. I haven't a clue what to do. Thing is: someone sure is missing on a good woman in me.
All the men I talk to are just friends.
The young ones send me crap all the time. HO HO HO! Not..

Soooo, I couldn't help ya there girl. You look fine to me.

Kat

PS. When you figure it out. Will you give me a clue?

truth hurts sometimes...mad at me?...your choice...but at least you posted a picture....& not sucking up...just telling you my honest opinion....

Based on the one pic of your face, you could easily go late 20's early 30's if you wanted. You aged very well. One suggestion, show your eyes in your pic. Guys (as well as women) love eyes.

When I was 25 I started dating a 41 year old. Another guy on here mentioned the woman's kid not liking it. That is very true. Seeing as you have no children, this shouldn't be a problem with you.

It really depends on what you are attracted to. Do you find younger guys turn you on or do you prefer someone your own age or older? My ex g/f felt more alive dating a younger man. Perhaps you feel the same way.

You are definitely attractive but what else do you have? Good sense of humor, intelligence, act together, etc.?

Find out what you want rather than what others want. Don't ever try and change yourself just to attract others. Polish that diamond that you are and shine, baby, shine!

Ha, no worries, one of my biggest problems is seeing life on the light side, I tend to joke around at the wrong times.

Still mad ~ tc

OK, that didn't take long! Guess I just found love on the internet All kidding aside, thanks for the compliment, and yes I need to get a better picture but that is all I have now, and I do have "Good sense of humor, intelligence, act together, etc.?" Know any single men?

You are going to find plenty of single men on here, rdglady. Hey, I'm only 200 miles from you.

Seriously, though, don't be afraid to show your face. I've seen some profiles with pictures that were blurring, pixelated, glam shots, etc and some with no pictures. Why be scared of that? Some will find you attractive, some won't. No biggie. Some of these dating sites have an option to rate your pic. Just turn that option off. That's what I did.

and your single because?....... Hey is that a wolf dog? He is really cool. (is cool a "cool" word to use these days?)

Had a 9 year relationship with my g/f and she broke it off. Been single for one year now. Ready to get back out there.

Yes, it is a wolf hybrid. It is not my dog. It was a dog that was rescued about two months ago. Made the news here in Reno. It's actually a she and she is very intelligent, loving and quite the stubborn girl.

Yes, cool is a "cool" word to use. "Rad", "Like really" and "Oh, My God!" are not.

Kewl........
Kat

I didn't say looks don't matter. What I said was why should they matter in answering her question as to what age group she may have a chance with.

As for my email to you, which was private by the way, and sent long before this thread was started. I never mentioned one thing about looks. I said you looked like a guy from long ago I was crazy about. Don't quote me out of context.

I will ask my soon to be ex wife,she's 54 and I am 49. When the time is right and I am dating again I won't be shutting out any women if they have a few years on me. Good Luck

hello to everyone.this is my first reply to any topic.really enjoy reading the great statements.as a 54 yr old,I`m enjoying every minute of being older.everyone has what I call "dry spells" where u feel like no matter what u do ,u aren`t getting the attention u deserve.but then,all of a sudden,u r getting more attention than u can handle.it`s happened that way for me many times.I think it has a lot to do with what vibes a person puts out.if I`m feeling good about myself I notice that people do seem to treat me accordingly.most of my friends are younger,and I`ve been with several younger men,as well as men older than me,over the years,and enjoyed them both equally.naturally it`s an ego boost when anyone younger is interested,and we all need a boost from time to time...Merry Christmas/Happy Holidays to all

I think women over fifty are HOT!!! You are too!