Topic: how can i tell...
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Sun 12/09/07 05:21 PM
tell her that tell her everything u have sed about her on her althou not going over the top and smothering her

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Sun 12/09/07 05:25 PM
would it be wrong for me to call her even though i told her she could call me if she wanted? I really need to call her

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Sun 12/09/07 05:25 PM
I don't sound too needy do I?

Jess642's photo
Sun 12/09/07 05:25 PM
You have invited her to call you.

No matter if you are ready to discuss something, you wait.

And you ask permission.

"May I discuss something, that has been on my mind, with you?"


Then explain, WHEN she says, yes, ok, when spending time with her, your feelings deepen for her. You respect her, and do not want to leap on her. You have this intense desire to kiss her gently, when you are both cuddling, but out of respect for her, you don't.

Then ask her if she feels the same way.


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Sun 12/09/07 05:34 PM
RRRRIIIINNNNNGGGG HHHHEEERRRRRRRRRRRRRRR! dont let her call the shots plzzzzzz omg lol!

she might be going through wat u are lik omg i dont wanan seem needy etc etc

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Sun 12/09/07 05:35 PM
yeah, that is a REALLY LONG TIME to know each other without even kissing................

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Sun 12/09/07 05:38 PM
i had a bf hu waited 6 months too kiss me and i couldnt stop smilling and everytime he kissed me it felt great and special i felt lik i was walking on air.

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Sun 12/09/07 05:42 PM
well, i called her and left a message to call me back. She must not be home yet.

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Sun 12/09/07 05:46 PM
ok now just leave it and if shes not home yet maybe go relax have a bath get some food a beer anythin 2 calm ur self down or even have a nap but have ur phone near so when she rings you hear it and wake up.

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Sun 12/09/07 05:51 PM
But don't answer on 1st ring don't want to seem needy. That might scare her off. I am totally the same at times when I like a guy. I get to the point I want to bounce off the walls when I don't hear from him thinking the worst. Then when I do I calm down because it was just silly me.

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Sun 12/09/07 05:55 PM
im off to bed college in the morning at 7 and its 2am :s i wont wake up lmao!

good luck with the girl u like hope it goes well :D

xx

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Sun 12/09/07 05:56 PM
I never answer on the 1st ring. I can't have a nap, because it's 9:00 pm here and that would mean I might as well just go to bed, and I won't be able to sleep until I hear from her anyway.

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Sun 12/09/07 05:57 PM
thanks Sarah

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Sun 12/09/07 06:00 PM
crappy feeling isn't it pixie?

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Sun 12/09/07 06:00 PM
good... luck i seen a girl for over a year and then bam yea... no kiss or ne thing cuddeling and alll the lovey dovey stuff...... but then she broke my heart... haha

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Sun 12/09/07 06:00 PM
I have been in your shoes Steven. Waiting for a guy to call can be just as bad. I actually fell asleep waiting and he thought I was mad at him so he didn't call again for 2 days. Just don't sit by the phone. If it is meant to happen it will happen. Talking to friends on here or playing a game online someplace will make time go by faster and keep your mind off the phone.

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Sun 12/09/07 06:05 PM
Nothing I do is keeping my mind off her, I went for a walk, been on here . Watched a movie, napped a lot of the day.

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Sun 12/09/07 06:05 PM
what is wrong with me? never felt this before

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Sun 12/09/07 06:07 PM
You care about her so nothing is wrong. flowerforyou You just hope she cares to so you are nervous.

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Sun 12/09/07 06:07 PM
extremely nervous