I totally agree with that.

I hope it works out for you. :)

thanks, so do i

can't stop thinking about her, this sucks. She's calling me when she gets home later, I wish i could talk to her now.

God, I miss being that optimistic about a man. Just be honest with her, better to have honesty now than confusion and hurt feelings later.

indeed

i wish i could stop thinking about her though, i hate this feeling

i think i will

Write it down. How you feel. Writing helps me get over things. Sometimes.

when I go out with a woman, if i'm interested I will try to kiss her on the first date, the second at the latest....if she waits longer than that it is a huge red flag....this lady likes to use sex or intimacy as a tool or weapon....she has you wrapped around her finger....Ha!....you stick with her & you'll be licking her feet....this lady is gonna be a 'control freak'....mark my words....you'll be posting about it in the near future...

I got one thing to say to you, "go get your leash, cause she's taking you for a run"

thanks klc....I'm doing better today...had lunch with my family, great supporters....

this guys lady definitely likes to play games...

that's true....we only know what he is telling us so he will have to figure it out....

yes, my brother sister & mother all had lunch with me today....they have been around my ex, so I had lots of support today....just what the doctor ordered....thanks for your support too...It really helps

earlier today i told her she can call me later if she wanted to when she got home, she hasn't called yet and I would really like to talk to her. Should I call her?

I wouldn't, you talked to her earlier already and let her know that she could call if she wanted to. Don't turn into "that" guy.

Usually I don't put much into the whole wait 3 days things. If I have fun talking to a girl I'll call her back right away. But if I make it known that she can call me if she wants to, the ball's in her court.

the thing is, I have something on my mind i need to ask her

any other suggestions?

u need too consider how shes feeling i know when im out on the spot and told they like me i dont say i like them to straight away, you ned to think has somthin happened in her past that she feels like she cant tell people she likes her true feelings! all you nee to do is look in her eyes and watch and see what happens youll know straight away how she feels!!!

ok, well, the way it sounds is she hasn't really had much of a past. She is also a virgin, she's 26.

being a virgin could be a reason why as well also 26 she may be nervous about the whole thing she might want to take things slow and not rush into things and give her virginity away at the push of a button. alltho i cant talk a lost my virginity with a guy off here and didnt know how he felt and just went for it and now were "sex buddies"

anyw ays lmao yeah her virginity mite be gettin in the way reasure her that u dont like her just for sex you will wait for her to be ready and your willy to take things slow if she wants! oh and make her feel super special but not over the top.

I'm definitely not just looking for sex, I really like this girl, love spending time with her. She is so funny and I am so comfortable with her.