I think I'll ask her to be my girlfriend tonight, the only problem is I won't be seeing her tonight. Would it be ok to ask her over the phone?

what's the other problem?

i know

sometimes a kiss can be more intamite and personal then sex

talk give her time



dont push her away or loose her by being a pushy guy
or make her feel pressured or she has to

what about asking her to be my girlfriend? should i give that time too or ask her?

then when she does cause she wants to waaaaaahooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

i'm not pressuring her into anything, I would just like to know what her intentions with me are because i would like to know whether to date someone else or not.

where did you find her??? At the Amish school of dance???

craigs list

we spent the whole day together yesterday, which does tell me something, but i just need to hear the words, i'm weird like that

I know I'm annoying klc.

When I ask her to be my girlfriend, do i ask her if she would be my girlfriend? or ask her what she would like out of this?

you don't think it's rushing her do you? I think a month is reasonable to be asking

i actually have asked her to be exclusive before

that was about 2 weeks ago, she said she didn't know me well enough

Ya know, I have alot of male friends...and when Im single and lonely, I do cuddle with them and stuff. You need to find out whats really goin on, cuz to her this might just be a friend thing. But dont be all serious and stuff and put a whole bunch of pressure on her, ya know. Casually say you wanna keep her or something, make it funny and lighthearted, that way things wont be uncomfortable if the feelings not mutual. Seriously though, dont make a big ordeal outta it though...can be such a turn off.

she just said she didn't know me well enough, and right after that she cuddled up against me

it wouldn't insult me

i think i regret posting this topic, for some reason it made me feel worse, pathetic

thanks

I have to go with klc on this one. I understand you like her and you don't want to freak her out and mess things up. However..in the world we live in, a month is long enough to know if you want to date someone, it's long enough to know if you want to kiss someone, and it's long enough to decide if you want to move on. If I were you, I'd be honest and say you're into her, as a gf, not just a friend. Tell her you understand if she wants to take things slow, but if she's not into you in a romantic way, I wouldn't push it. Life's too short to wait for something you can't have.