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Topic: Define "Lady"
Lady Lorena Joined Thu 01/10/19 Posts: 2	Thu 01/10/19 04:05 AM
No we aren’t helpless damsels. I have initiated dates and paid for dates. I don’t see a problem with that. I can tell you that the equality that I want, is same opportunities as men, same pay as men. But I still expect to be treated like a lady. I like a man to open doors and hold my coat and act like a gentleman when I’m with him.

Queenie Joined Thu 04/26/18 Posts: 16001	Thu 01/10/19 06:33 AM
I don’t need luck, I found someone who treats me like a lady, asks my opinion and respects it, opens doors for me and knows that I am as capable at most things as he is. We do things for each other because we like to and don’t have to. In A good relationship those are the things you do out of caring and respect. Your opinions show that you are a very selfish person. It’s obvious that you’ve been hurt but you need to fix yourself before you get involved with anyone. It’s not fair to bring your biases into any type of relationship. Everyone is different and should be treated as such.

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14975	Thu 01/10/19 07:17 AM
I don’t need luck, I found someone who treats me like a lady, asks my opinion and respects it, opens doors for me and knows that I am as capable at most things as he is. We do things for each other because we like to and don’t have to. In A good relationship those are the things you do out of caring and respect. I have met a few Gentlemen like this myself !

Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Thu 01/10/19 11:15 AM
I wonder why people who clearly hate the other gender bother looking for someone. Are they afraid of dying alone? Do they think after decades of searching they will finally find that one aberration that will conquer all the misogyny or misandry?

JustBeHonest Joined Sat 10/06/18 Posts: 2691	Thu 01/10/19 02:13 PM
I wonder why people who clearly hate the other gender bother looking for someone. Are they afraid of dying alone? Do they think after decades of searching they will finally find that one aberration that will conquer all the misogyny or misandry? I dunno why they are here!

Stu Joined Sun 07/23/17 Posts: 22537	Thu 01/10/19 02:31 PM
One who won't fart on you.

Queenie Joined Thu 04/26/18 Posts: 16001	Thu 01/10/19 03:19 PM
One who won't fart on you. I make no promises

Unknow Joined Wed 06/27/18 Posts: 101536	Thu 01/10/19 03:21 PM
One who won't fart on you. I make no promises He'd rather we get a belly ache

Stu Joined Sun 07/23/17 Posts: 22537	Thu 01/10/19 04:07 PM
One who won't fart on you. I make no promises Ok, one that says oops...

Queenie Joined Thu 04/26/18 Posts: 16001	Thu 01/10/19 04:12 PM
One who won't fart on you. I make no promises He'd rather we get a belly ache Pffft not me since we are in the lady thread. I do believe I've already been told I wasn't one lol. So I will be loud and proud

Unknow Joined Wed 06/27/18 Posts: 101536	Thu 01/10/19 04:13 PM


Queenie Joined Thu 04/26/18 Posts: 16001	Thu 01/10/19 04:15 PM


mzrosie Joined Wed 08/14/13 Posts: 33997	Thu 01/10/19 04:20 PM
I also don't need a glass to drink beer.

Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Thu 01/10/19 04:22 PM
One who won't fart on you. I make no promises He'd rather we get a belly ache Pffft not me since we are in the lady thread. I do believe I've already been told I wasn't one lol. So I will be loud and proud As long as you don't scorch the sheets we are good.

Unknow Joined Thu 04/01/10 Posts: 1482	Thu 01/10/19 08:22 PM
Meh. The social "revolutions" of the last century were only called that by second rate journalists. They didn't qualify as real revolutions, in any sense of the word. More than anything else, they were NOT the result of the ENTIRE whatever (race, gender, religious affiliation etc) all unifying, and declaring a list of specific changes that they ALL demanded. Men who complain that ALL women don't act as though they were on the front lines of the Feminist movement, when it comes to dating protocols, are in my observation, the ones sticking their heads purposely where reality doesn't shine in. Not only is it false that ALL women demanded to be treated a DIFFERENT way than before, it isn't even true that the people leading the 'rebellion" demanded strict equality of every detail. What the social "revolts" of that era were about, was one central thing: to try to put an end to everyone being REQUIRED to obey the one set of social rules. In the case of the women, the goal was NEVER a demand that all women now behave like males, buy their own food and so on. It was that they would no longer be RESTRICTED socially, to playing that one subservient secondary reactive role. That's it. Might as well pretend that the American Revolution was fought to make sure that no one from here EVER AGAIN visited England, or spoke with a British accent. Sheesh. Great answer

Unknow Joined Thu 04/01/10 Posts: 1482	Thu 01/10/19 08:24 PM
Obviously some of you don't understand a IF - THEN statement. There also seems to be a couple that state they are fully capable but still EXPECT the behaviors of a gentleman. When you EXPECT, you do not deserve. The statement by Bluegrass referencing the wage difference when 2 people are doing the same job equally is highly illegal. 2 concepts I really have a problem with: equal pay for imagined equal work a casual outing where we are dressed the same but you expect me to pay your way and open your door, and pull out your chair - not going to happen. If you stand by the car door waiting for me to open it for you, you will be standing there as I drive away. I respect a woman who is my senior or one who is a competent, self confident woman as I would a man in similar circumstances. The rest, both men and women, I have no time for!!! I am not someone else's keeper. It must be so sad to be that miserable and to forget what a gentleman really is. I wish you luck in your loneliness,

Stu Joined Sun 07/23/17 Posts: 22537	Fri 01/11/19 04:45 AM
One who won't fart on you. I make no promises He'd rather we get a belly ache Pffft not me since we are in the lady thread. I do believe I've already been told I wasn't one lol. So I will be loud and proud I expect you to. We'll have a contest.

JustBeHonest Joined Sat 10/06/18 Posts: 2691	Fri 01/11/19 08:07 AM
OK, I said I was a lady but I didn’t know farting was involved.

Stu Joined Sun 07/23/17 Posts: 22537	Fri 01/11/19 08:18 AM
OK, I said I was a lady but I didn’t know farting was involved. Hell, I require it.. gotta keep the playing field level..

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Fri 01/11/19 08:19 AM
Im traditional. I think there are many types of females. and a 'lady' is the type that lives with manners and modesty and consideration of others.