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Topic: How do I handle this one? (Girls ONLY)
JaymeStephens84a0lc's photo
Sat 12/08/07 02:15 PM

Okay, everyone away from the keyboards. Take a deep breath (or 10) and relax.

Jayme was needing a shoulder and a place to vent. Whatever her mistakes are or were, are hers alone. Yes, she shared them, but let's not bash her. I know all of you are kinder, gentler people.






Thank you sweetie flowerforyou

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Sat 12/08/07 02:16 PM

Okay, everyone away from the keyboards. Take a deep breath (or 10) and relax.

Jayme was needing a shoulder and a place to vent. Whatever her mistakes are or were, are hers alone. Yes, she shared them, but let's not bash her. I know all of you are kinder, gentler people.






The choices were hers and the consequences are hers. She made them ours when she brought them to us.

longhairbiker's photo
Sat 12/08/07 02:16 PM
Sooooooo the women are saying there should not be a revolving door on your bedroom and they should not know you on a first name basis at the free clinic then? Something like that?

JaymeStephens84a0lc's photo
Sat 12/08/07 02:17 PM

I would go with the option of aborting the guy....


I told him that if he likes the idea of abortion so much he should go tell his mother to have a 25 year post natal abortion...

REDDRAGONS's photo
Sat 12/08/07 02:19 PM
My definition of "Friends with Benefits" = We spend time together while he washes my car, fixes things around the house, and does the windows.


Friends?

sounds more like he's a Butler around the house ROFL!!

"Jarvis please bring the Bentley around out front me and my poodle are going to the mall"

laugh

JaymeStephens84a0lc's photo
Sat 12/08/07 02:19 PM


Okay, everyone away from the keyboards. Take a deep breath (or 10) and relax.

Jayme was needing a shoulder and a place to vent. Whatever her mistakes are or were, are hers alone. Yes, she shared them, but let's not bash her. I know all of you are kinder, gentler people.






The choices were hers and the consequences are hers. She made them ours when she brought them to us.


laugh laugh laugh Hell no I didn't... they're still mine and mine alone...

seahawks's photo
Sat 12/08/07 02:20 PM
jayme we all love ya hun, dont take it to heart.!!!!

Gustava's photo
Sat 12/08/07 02:20 PM

....To some people sex is not that big of a deal, I take kissing as being more intimate than sex. ....

And this is exactly why there are so many unintended pregnancies, single-mother homes*, and a frighteningly high incidence of STD's.


*I'm not referring to cases of divorce, death, etc.

JaymeStephens84a0lc's photo
Sat 12/08/07 02:22 PM

Sooooooo the women are saying there should not be a revolving door on your bedroom and they should not know you on a first name basis at the free clinic then? Something like that?


... he's the only person I've been with sexually in the last SEVERAL months... I use a free clinic every time a guy wants to sleep with me... they get tested before anything happens... so if I'm known for that then good. Means I'm not stupid...

longhairbiker's photo
Sat 12/08/07 02:23 PM
But its only "meth". It helps me keep my girlish figure.

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Sat 12/08/07 02:23 PM


Okay, everyone away from the keyboards. Take a deep breath (or 10) and relax.

Jayme was needing a shoulder and a place to vent. Whatever her mistakes are or were, are hers alone. Yes, she shared them, but let's not bash her. I know all of you are kinder, gentler people.






Thank you sweetie flowerforyou



I did get involved in this thread to bash you Jayme...the words and thoughts you posted just seemed so very irresponsible. YES you said you were pissed and things didn't get written/typed down as you wanted them to...that's why one needs to stop and think about one's words or actions. My intention here was to hopefully have you stop and think...re-read what you have written. Yes we all make mistakes and will live with the consequences of those mistakes...you posted here reaching out/asking for advice. Maybe you will heed some of the advice you have received here today, maybe not...your choice. flowerforyou :smile:

cutelildevilsmom's photo
Sat 12/08/07 02:23 PM

Okay, everyone away from the keyboards. Take a deep breath (or 10) and relax.

Jayme was needing a shoulder and a place to vent. Whatever her mistakes are or were, are hers alone. Yes, she shared them, but let's not bash her. I know all of you are kinder, gentler people.





Hey if she thought we were going to go against the guy in this situation,well she was wrong.They are both numb.I have a daughter her age with the same brain compacity when it comes to men and sex.If you are able to get pregnant no matter what % you should use protection .Just because you want kids doesnt mean you take the first sperm to reach the egg.

no photo
Sat 12/08/07 02:24 PM
you spotted......hmmmmmmm could be pregnant. Anyhow, have you figured it out yet???noway laugh

longhairbiker's photo
Sat 12/08/07 02:28 PM
I'm gonna take up running wide open chainsaw juggling. Its much safer than this thread. Rrrrrrrrrrrrr!!!!!!!

JaymeStephens84a0lc's photo
Sat 12/08/07 02:28 PM


....To some people sex is not that big of a deal, I take kissing as being more intimate than sex. ....

And this is exactly why there are so many unintended pregnancies, single-mother homes*, and a frighteningly high incidence of STD's.


*I'm not referring to cases of divorce, death, etc.


A: I know I'm the only person HE'S sleeping with b/c I talk to him and see him all the damn time, I even talk to him while he's working sometimes b/c he likes to hear my voice while he works. Yes, I do believe that he is falling for me but afraid to commit. I told him from the get go that if he was sleeping with other ppl he need to tell me right off. He's an honest person, I believe him that he's not. Its actually been more like a relationship without the label... he buys me dinner and wine and spends time talking and playing and laughing with me. He's not all bad, but he really is waring thin on my nerves right now.

JaymeStephens84a0lc's photo
Sat 12/08/07 02:29 PM


....To some people sex is not that big of a deal, I take kissing as being more intimate than sex. ....

And this is exactly why there are so many unintended pregnancies, single-mother homes*, and a frighteningly high incidence of STD's.


*I'm not referring to cases of divorce, death, etc.


A: I know I'm the only person HE'S sleeping with b/c I talk to him and see him all the damn time, I even talk to him while he's working sometimes b/c he likes to hear my voice while he works. Yes, I do believe that he is falling for me but afraid to commit. I told him from the get go that if he was sleeping with other ppl he need to tell me right off. He's an honest person, I believe him that he's not. Its actually been more like a relationship without the label... he buys me dinner and wine and spends time talking and playing and laughing with me. He's not all bad, but he really is waring thin on my nerves right now.

And B:.. well hell I done forgot what B was going to say...

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Sat 12/08/07 02:30 PM


Sooooooo the women are saying there should not be a revolving door on your bedroom and they should not know you on a first name basis at the free clinic then? Something like that?


... he's the only person I've been with sexually in the last SEVERAL months... I use a free clinic every time a guy wants to sleep with me... they get tested before anything happens... so if I'm known for that then good. Means I'm not stupid...


Several months????

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Sat 12/08/07 02:30 PM
Aids goes back 7 years.......indifferent

cutelildevilsmom's photo
Sat 12/08/07 02:30 PM
well maybe you should drop the subject for say about 9 months?laugh

buttons's photo
Sat 12/08/07 02:30 PM
wow ok so u are 23.... im curious as to how u have raised your nephew for the last 8 yrs? must be a hard thing to do when u started to raise him at 15?

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