Today I was texting my ex trying to get him to pay his child support. I got a call from a woman saying she had took the phone she bought him back lol. We got to talking and he hasn't changed a bit. She sent me text of them arguing. He called her by my name. If women just went to lunch with the exwife, they could quickly know what the are in for without wasting time and money.

They could have a word with the ex, but what are chances,
really, that they would listen?

Many women maynot want to hear what an Ex woman has to say about the man.
Unless she hears. It from a good friend of hers.

I never kept up with my Ex's. One got married 2x after me. The other was married 2x before me and now 1 more wife after me.

I don't think they ever had a problem Dating. They were Hard working and had good jobs. And Charming when you First meet them.

They hsve No problem getting a woman, it's Keeping them.

So, I wouldn't date my Exs.

no way
my X's are x's for a very good reason



uhm i have never treated a lady that i was treating the same way, its more a person by person
that more goes with how they treat me, is how they treat me , i can only deal with so much

but i do kinda see your point
but would you trust there x's thoughts over theres ? ? ?

i don't listen to rumors
i judge the book buy myself
<shrug>

i do find it funny when i have a friend comes to me and tells me the stuff my X wife has said .... 85 % to 90 % not true (by my friends #'s)

My ex is a shopaholic. He moved in with his gf. She said she was cooking cleaning and paying all the bills. She threw him out because he was too lazy to take out the trash.

ya'l know him better then i : )

Terrible idea, sounds like organized character assassinations

they are EX for reasons
life goes on

!!!NO!!!

I sent my ex's new husband a condolence card.

SHE'S YOUR BIG MISTAKE NOW!!!

:

The way I figure is we don't go around picking up our turds trying to take them back so umm no

My ex (from the 80's)...he was a serial cheater, and filed for divorce when he met the last one...he wanted to marry her..


Let me clarify.
She was 16 at the time, *her* parents were only 5 years older that *he* was...
He needed someone he could tell what to do, that was dependant on him, would do his bidding..didn't drive, etc...
Poor insecure guy....
*I* certainly wasn't like that...which was why we clashed..
His own sister said of their relationship (she and I stayed friends for years after he and I were divorced) was more parent / child than husband/ wife...but, I gues that was what he needed.
Anyway...he is still with her.
She barely graduated high school, never worked, can't drive (can't figure it out...the sister thinks she has a touch of a learning disabilty)
They had one kid..who is also borderline learning disabled.

He recently got on Facebook.
Sheesh...all the religious posts, the Jesus posts..he sure didn't believe in that when he was out there committing adultery multiple times, evidently, eh?

Luckily I went on to have two long terms after that with guys *far* better than him..
I am sadly a widow now...

The question was: would it be easier to date your ex? The answer is very much yes. We ocassionally go out for the afternoon or evening - it is much easier when you don't have to live with them or put up with their ****!! Would I consider living with her again - NO, there is a reason why we are not together! Would I share a bed with her - NO, she would take it as my interest in her that isn't there.

Dating is very hard when you are an older gentleman. There are very few that are even a possibility and most of them will not date. Something has really changed in our society, people use to go out on a date for a social outing and to get acquainted with someone new - just doesn't happen anymore. The choices I get: 1. go out drinking with some guys I know; 2. sit home alone; 3. go out with the ex. Real great choices!!!!

On a personal level,
I've always considered recycling relationships
to be a loser move.
It's basically an admission to the inability to
move forward.

However, those are just my own thoughts on
the subject.

Men suck

I agree with you. Which is why I'd rather ride my Wing, than date. If women were as faithful as my bikes have been, then I'd have been married 50 years. Instead, I'm celebrating 50 years of riding this year, and not regretting a minute of it.

I stay at my 2nd ex's house when I go to visit. And I suppose we date, her husband is there to so maybe it's not a date, but we have fun. They're nuts and fun to party with.

OT.. it would be easier, but I like the getting to know someone new part of, dating...

Now to find a date.



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dating your ex is like going on vacation to a place you've already been and didnt like. Initially it's fun to reminisce but then you remember why you didnt like it the first time around

DATING AN EX?!?
Good gawd,why just the mere thought
could generate horrific night terrors!